Bekah

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years now. I have never been great at picking out gifts or anything (mainly due to limited money). He is 19 and loves music, photography, the Nightmare Before Christmas, Dubstep, Rock, and he plays guitar. Christmas is a week away, our anniversary is January 13, then valentines day is a month later, so I need ideas. I don't have much money, so I was going to go with homemade stuff.

For Christmas (along with a bag of Recces mini-cups [his favorite]), I was thinking about making a brownie mix in a jar sort of thing and an IOU for a day together to make it. Is this good? I feel like I should have more.

Other ideas that I came up with for our anniversary or V-day are a scrapbook (which I don't know if I will be able to do since I don't have that many pictures), a jar or book with however many reasons that I love him, or a Calendar with pictures of us and other things that he likes.

Are these ideas good? Any other ideas? Nothing sexual, please (I know how you people are).

I can't find any on Google.

If you don't know the statistics, do you think that this is common?

What kinds of people use drugs casually and why do they use them? Any statistics about this would be great... Or what kinds of drugs they use (although, I think I've got that down). I am trying to do a paper on the different kinds of drug users and casual drug users don't seem to have any books, movies, or useful statistics... Even personal experience would be nice (I would just have to cite it as an interview).

A few nights ago I had this really random dream. I was in a mall - similar to the one around my house, but it was decorated differently. My aunt and little cousins were in it and they had ice cream (on a stick) that they gave to me. I set it in a sink (randomly in the middle of the mall hallway.) Then I saw one of my best guys friends. I went over and we walked a bit, then one of my cousins wanted an ice cream and I got her one (the package was wet, but the ice cream wasn't melted). me and my friend started walking again, and he tried to hold my hand. But I took my hand away and he said "It's not like that... It's like Bella and Jacob" and I knew that he meant in breaking dawn. Then we tried to hold hands lacing our fingers together, but that was weird- too much like a couple. Then we tried holding hands the other way, and something went weird and the dream ended.

I like faster rave music for the most part, but I don't know which genres are fast. I know Dubstep is slower (and nice, but not what I usually listen to), Happy hardcore is pretty awesome, and the bit of house that I have heard is a bit slow. Some of the people/song that I like are: "Dam Dadi Do" by Nightcore, Shiny Toy Guns, DJ Teisto (even though some of his[?] stuff is slow, its awesome), several songs on the matrix soundrack, and a few of the Propellerhead's stuff.

I would like to know what genres of rave music is fast (and has decent amount of bass).

Also, any DJ/song suggestions is good too.

Yesterday, I dyed my hair. It was supposed to be dark auburn, but it turned out bright red. It's not awful, but parts of my hair are still light brownish. I don't know whether to dye the rest of it again, or to dye the whole thing a brown color, but I do know that I don't want my hair to fall out. The hair color that I used was ammonia-free. I have naturally medium brown hair (but I dyed it lighter a few months ago, so part of it was that color before I dyed it again). Can I dye my hair again, without my hair dying?

I want to make someone an Admin or Mod on my forum, and I am looking through all of the controls and such and I can't figure out how. I am the creator, and therefore the ultimate Admin. The layout or program or what have you is "simple machines forums".

I have googled this with no avail, and I need my friend to help me sort through all of the spamming troublemakers (the forum isn't that big or out there because the website that it is connected to needs tweaking, as does the website)