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so im only 18 and as of recent im experiencing a very low sex drive i have no interest in sex and no desire for sex about 75% of the time. Its very strange to me because about 4 months ago ( when i was 17) it was through the roof, but i hit 18 and now its diminishing does anybody know whats going on??

so i am not one to sit around all depressed, that is until recently. I have so little self esteem about myself i feel like im trapped in the wrong image of what i want to be. I feel fat and ugly and just disgusting and i hate it because i feel like no matter how much weight i lose or the type of clothes i buy i still feel ugly. I am tired of being alone, i blame so much on me being ugly i am friendly and outgoing but it keeps on nagging me how ugly i feel, i feel like im going to spend the rest of my life alone. Everyone says that i will met someone and it will all work out but i must admit i don't feel that way bc i am not what i find sexy or even attractive, it seems like every man i meet ends up just not wanting anything to do with me after not even that long and i am tired of it. i am tired of the way i feel about myself and yet i cant seem to break the cycle about how i feel about myself. please help because this cant keep going on like this i need to start feeling good about myself again i need to find a more optimistic my love life because this hurts and i hate it but everytime i look in the mirror the record starts again

okay so i went on a trip recently to fresno with some people i kind of knew not all that well but have met before. One of the people a man me and him really hit it off great he was friendly and outgoing and nice so i got to know him and he got to know me and on the second day we slept in the same bed ( it was 4 ppl to a room 2 ppl to a bed) and he slept in only his underwear and i woke up with his arm around me. and from then on i cant stop thinking about him and idk if he is even gay he has a gf and was talking to another girl during the conference but when he wasn't talking to her he was talking to me he would sit next to me and his thigh would touch mine and i would look at him he would look at me and laugh but keep his leg there or i had my ipod on my crotch and he would just reach over and grab it i would do the same to him and it would be no big deal and we would both touch each other for extend periods of time like on the thigh and shoulders or we would jokingly try and get each other to say we were each others b*tch and get phyiscal but all as a joke i would pin him and vice versa . My question is he gay even though he has a girlfriend he is a year younger than me im and idk, is it worth it in your eyes?? It has been along time since i have talked to anyone like him in a long time.

okay so there is this guy and i used to really like him and we talked daily and we were all over each other and then he left to mexico for about 9 months so recently he has returned from mexico and we have started to talk more and more and he told me he has a gf. Now a few things, when he was gone i told him much i liked him and so forth when he came back he told me he missed me so forth and so on now while we never totally came out to each other but we have always held a mutal understanding of one another that we are both gay. He acts gay he still talks to me like he likes me and yet he claims to have a girlfriend why?? all of my friends say its a lie i don't know what to believe bc he does seem a little more distant and he is a prolific liar but why now and why that??

i know that they are straight some of them even have girlfriends i just cant seem to figure out why i fall for straight men> if anyone can tell me a)why i keep falling for straight guys and b) how to stop falling for straight guys it starting to become annoying i get all excited because i think i have a chance and i don't have a chance and to make matters worse i never fall for gay guys i mean i know gay guys is just i don't seem to like the ones i am around and i cant not figure out why this is now most of the guys i like is because they are soo manly and strong and controlling but i can't have them so how do i just stop falling for straight guys i am tired o knowing in the back of my mind i can never have them btw i am a senior in high school

okay so lately my best friend has been telling me that i put other people;people who are in my eyes better than me. (they are better looking have more money and just all around better) , she keeps telling me that i put them on a pedestal that i am making them out to be alot more than they really are and i guess you can say it's true. its just these people seem to be perfect they have no noticeable flaws or problems ever they are rich and are always out having fun my friend says it is because i dont know them deep enough to notice the flaws and yet all i see are all my flaws and problems. My question is how do u stop yourself from putting people on a pedestal, or making them out to be better than they might actually be

okay so there is this guy from school and i wont say his name but we will call him f now he is from mexico and when school lets out he goes to visit so when we got out for winter break last year (08) he went to visit and when he came back he was telling me he was going to stay next time he went to visit. Now i really really really liked him when we first got back from winter break so i tried to talk him out of leaving again and again and again but as the school year progressed he became meaner and angrier towards me so by the time he had brought it back up in may of last year i told he should go and stay but i said it out of anger well we left and on summer break and he went back and i figured i was over him i was done. We started school back a few days ago and i found out he is not coming back and now i miss him soo much see he was evil to me and when school let out last year (08) i never wanted to see him again and he forgot my birthday (half through summer) and i only got angrier so when i got back to school i told myself i was over but now that i know he is not coming back i miss him soo much .My question is it irrational to feel the way i do and How do i stop missing him and what would you do in this situation

okay so im not to sure how new the commercials are but have you seen the new commercials against that's soo gay im sooo glad that somebody finally decide to stop it there are three commercial one with hilary duff one with wanda sykes and one with some random lady

Here's the one for Wanda Sykes:(my favorite)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IcRQssVllA

Here's the one with Hilary Duff:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVicCD8FmMs

Here's the one with the random lady:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEpBYKOs3ys

What do you think about it whats your personal opinion about them ?????????? I'm just glad they have decided to try and stop the usage of that saying

Okay I go to school in a very large high school (3500 students) and we have a 60 man football team now the football players are very open with each other to put it blunty I'm gay and I wouldn't be seen doing half the things that they do to each other.my question is does this openness make them gay or is there some unforseen reason that they can all do this and not be labeled gay in each other eyes????? and yet when they even suspect that someone is gay they are relentless in their efforts to prove it.so is there some is there some unforseen trust that they can act on thier sexual curiostity and not be labeled or are they all gay and just trust each other not to use that fact against one another?????

Okay so I'm a dude I'm 6'3 I'm 17 and at last check I was 250 with a large bone structure I want to know if within the next 2-3years will it be possible for me to have a well defined body I started towards this about a month ago and I diet and exercise I'm currently have muscle it's just under the fat so basically can I have a well defined and toned body within the next three years I want to look fit and lean for my size

okay so i went on a trip with my school a few weeks ago and the trip was a week long now for the first four days i kept to myself and my friend but on the last day i decided to open up and talk to other people and i met this really nice boy named peter and we hit it off great he was funny and smart and fine and just an overall great guy and we talked all day long and for the 10 hours all the way home and he left a great impression on me.we when got back i said bye and he said bye and we went our separate ways never see each other again.Now i want know is it first if its normal to miss someone you only knew for about 16 hrs and if so how long is too long to miss them???????????please help because i need to know if my feelings are irrational

okay so my birthday just passed and it went great but i want to know should i be upset??

okay so my friend (his name is F and i have a huge crush on him) but anyways so when his birthday came around i went all out of my way to get him a cake and a gift and a card because he just had to have it( he reminded me daily for weeks)and i posted him a comment on myspace so okay my birthday came and went and he didn't even spend two seconds to wish me a happy birthday and i am soo hurt but more than that i am upset i asked my homegirl and she said i shouldn't be but yet i still am.Should i be upset still??

Does anyone body know of any job in the southren california region preferably Long Beach I will do almost anything?? any help please i need to do something this summer

okay so my bff is going out with this really nice relly sweet guy and lately i have been around them alot more....and i cant stop thinking about HIM he is very good looking smart sweet and sincere i know that what he says to me is just him being friendly but i cant stop and even though i try not to think about him and i tell myself its wrong he always comes back to the for front of my mind

Any advice suggestions or tips??

okay so im having a jealousy problem now im not usually the jealous type im happy im confident but recently there is this new boy at school and im so jealous he very good looking he has a great attitude a great body and just generally perfect he shows or rather seems to have no flaws at all.i feel so bad about myself all of a sudden and i don't know how to stop being because he is so nice and he isn't doing anything on purpose. How can i stop having these feelings?