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So throughout high school just like everyone I was apart of a specific group of friends. High school was only 3 years ago so I still hang out with a few of them who do genuinely like me. However I’ve realized the others in the group don’t like me to put it mildly. I’ve confronted my 2 friends from the group that do like me about it a few times when I see the larger group gets together and I’m never invited. The first time they said I wasn’t a real part of the group because I wasn’t in the group until high school and I guess you had to been in it since middle school. So the second and most recent time they hung out I again brought it up and my 2 friends spoke what is most likely true. They flat out said everyone there except them (which I don’t believe because they aren’t going against the majority of the group) was very clear about the fact that they can’t stand my presence and that me just being within 100 feet of them kills the mood. To be fair to them, in high school this was 100% the truth. I was not at all fun to be around and complained about every inconvenience. I’d say I’ve changed. I wish I could just prove that I’m better than i was in high school. Most people think I should just make new friends but I don’t think ive made a friend on my own ever. I’ve always made friends through others. What should I do to either restore my reputation or accept that these people just won’t ever see me as anyone other than who I was in high school.

Boxing is my favorite sport to watch but I’ve never done it myself. I know I’ll never do it like competivly because I’m 19 so it kinda late lmao. But I feel like I’d enjoy it and I’m not really taken seriously in my group of friends. I’m one of the smallest. I’m not the smallest but pretty close. I’m the shortest 5’7 and on the slender side. This is going to sound kinda bizarre but my group of friends are the sorta nerdy kind. I was by far the most athletic, at least as far as coordination and being able to at least do good at it with a decent amount of practice.. They’ll even admit that. I played the most sports and was at least decent at them all. However when it comes to roughhousing and you know stuff like that or saying who would win in fight I’m never chosen to win. Of course these”fights”never actually happen. I’m kinda mellow when not competing with someone so I get it. I just want people to take me more seriously. Obviously I’ll never be Mike Tyson or anyone like that but at least want some respect. Do you think boxing training and working out some in general would help or is my natural laid back personality going to always hold me back.

So I was already accepted to vet tech school. My parents kind of pressured me down this path and idk what to do. I don t think this is what I really want to do though. I have until a certain date to decide not to go but idk how to tell my parents I don t want to go and I d rather do something else. How should I tell my parents I don t want to go?

Ever since middle school people have assumed I'm gay. My best friends parents assume I'm gay. I had this one girl who I have known awhile refer to me as her gay best friend. Multiple times people have asked if I was gay and are shocked when I say no. I will admit to having a fairly high voice. I also enjoy stuff like fashion and theatre. People at school say I'm Low key gay and I just don't know I'm gay yet. I assure you I'm not gay. I have been into girls since I can remember. I don't want to change myself but I especially hate it when girls especially assume I'm gay. I have more friends who are girls than guys which I'm sure adds to to the perception. How do I get over this insecurity of people thinking I'm gay.

I am an 18 year old male who is homeschooled. I'm tired of not talking to any girls much less trying to get a date. Should I try online dating. Do any girls my age use online dating. If so what sites do you recommend for an 18 year old.

I broke up with my ex a month ago for many reasons. I still feel terrible and like I made a mistake. She has already moved on to another guy and I'm just stuck in a depressed mood. I am homeschooled and feel like I will never get another gf. I feel terrible especially because she has moved on so easily and I may never move on. Everything I do reminds me of her. I can't enjoy anything anymore. I don't have any friends being homeschooled and she was not only my girlfriend but also my best friend. I feel so lost and need advice. I have no interest in anything anymore. I need help.

I'm a senior in high school and am fairly average at math. Is it possible for me to work hard enough to get to the level of math needed for theoretical physics. I have wanted to help figure out how the world works but I don't know if I'm smart enough. I'm smart but not a genius. Can you get smarter or do you have to be born a good theoretical physicist.

This girl and I have texted almost all day three straight days with a few hours of breaks in between. I switched schools and haven't talked to her in a while. We started talking a few weeks ago again. I posted on Instagram too if anyone wants to hang out this summer to let me know and she said she would hang out with me. I'm also going back to her school for senior year and she seems super excited. Does she maybe like me. She didn't seem interested when I was at her school. What does this mean?

I don't know a lot about motorcycles but I'm 5'6 115 pounds. I have rode dirt bikes a couple times. Is it to big for a beginner of my size.