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I've been talking to this guy who is 10 years older (I'm 21, you do the math). It sounds creepy but he's a catch. He has his life together, a stable career, his own house, no kids, sweet personality and never married. We share some of the same interests, such as traveling. Lately, my life hasn't been great, but he's been encouraging and supportive. He's sweeter/nicer than other guys my own age and hasn't mentioned sex at all.

I've never dated someone that much older and it scares me, and I told him this. If he was 10 years younger I would totally date him. He told me that even if I choose not to date him, he will always be a supportive friend to me but he is interested in dating me. He doesn't care about the age difference. I really like him, its just the age difference.

What's been your experience with dating someone that much older? What advice do you have?

Thank you.

I ordered a pizza for dinner, and when I got it, it had the wrong toppings. I called Pizza Hut and they told me that it would be another 45 min before I get another pizza.

Can I go ahead and eat the pizza? Or should I give it back to the driver? I'm starving.

I have a coupon for 2 small pizzas for $9 but I don't want the pizza delivery guy to think that I am fat or eat too much (it's just me here). Should I order the 2 pizzas or 1?

Why not animal cookies?

I just ate a 1 LB bag of animal crackers/cookies because walmart had them on sale for $0.98. Will something happen to me now?

I've been going out on dates with this guy and on our last date he said that he couldn't wait to see me again. We talked yesterday and he said that he really liked me and was taking me out tomorrow night.

I never make the first contact with him - I just wait for him to contact me first everyday. Well today, for some reason, I got the urge to text him first a 'good morning' text. It's been hours and no response. I'm not really upset because I know he likes me, but I feel like I shouldn't have done that.

Do men like to be in control of contact? I don't want to make myself seem needy in front of a guy.

I'll be getting a bachelors degree in Elementary Education next year and recently I've gotten scared out of becoming a teacher. Now, I want to pursue my childhood dream of being a lawyer. If I'm getting a BS in Elementary Education with a specialization in Math, what kind of law degree should I seek?

I want to buy a PSP (not a PSP Go though) but I don't know what's the difference between the models (1001, 2000, 3000). I had a 1001 model for 4 or 5 years (got it when it first came out) and liked it but my brother took it.

If I buy a 1001 model, can I play the newer PSP games?

So me and this guy were talking but he started talking about marriage and i told him that he was going to fast and that i just wanted to be friends with him first. He kept saying that he wanted a relationship and because I don't know him like that, I told him that i just wanted to be friends.

Well today we were together and i told him that i didn't want to do something and he tried to pressure me into doing it anyway. I didn't go with it and told him that I don't like when does things like that (it's not the first time this happened and i told him multiple times that i didn't want to do it) and I feel like he's controlling me. He got really upset and almost violent and i told him that i was scared of him. He started to cry and say that it's not his fault, then he told me for the first time that he had a traumatic abuse experience when he was young. He asked if I would be in a relationship with him anyways and i said "i don't know because i'm afraid of you right now" (i was in shock, didn't know how to respond at that moment). He said that he acted that way because he didn't want to lose me.

He left upset and I feel bad now. Should I feel bad?

I really really want lasagna but spaghetti is quicker and easier to make.

Wanna join? But I only have alcoholic beverages, orange juice and water to drink with it.

I met a guy recently and we've been talking for a few days. He's already brought me a diamond necklace and other expensive things and is talking about having a big wedding and owning a house together someday. I have not taken his gifts and I told him that this is moving way too fast and that I only want to be friends with him at the moment, see where it goes then MAYBE have a relationship with him.

His response was "okay we can be friends but you can't talk to any other men." Now I'm not really emotionally into him cause I feel like he's trying to control me and I don't like that feeling. When I told him this he just denied it, and said that he's been hurt a lot and doesn't want to get hurt again.

I feel like I'm trapped in a box. I want to talk to other men now but he's saying that I'm his whole world and that he would do anything and die to be with me. I don't want to just leave him hurt.

Can you offer a suggestion of what I should do?

I know I was just there last night but I can't remember.

I don't remember how many points you get when you sign up but I think it's 0, 10 or 100. What would you do if Y!A took everyone's points away?

I would try to be a top contributor.

He doesn't have a car, got his license taken away and lives in another town so he can't see me. I don't have a car. He doesn't have a phone, so we can only talk when his friend is home. He keeps trying to get me to have phone sex with him, but I keep telling him no. He said doesn't want me to talk to any other male besides him, even male friends. He doesn't have a computer so we can't email.

He keeps saying that he's falling for me and that I make him happy, but he can't support himself financially and wants to stay with me. But I met someone else recently who is sweeping me off my feet and already has a romantic fun filled day planned for me and him this Friday :) This guy is stable and makes me feel like a princess.

So I need to tell the first guy by Friday that I don't want a relationship with him. What do I do or tell him? When his friend is home, he won't stop texting and calling me via his friend's phone.

Read my previous question about the first guy if you want more info:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ai2nC...

So he doesn't have his own cell phone, computer, or car. Then he had the nerve to ask me if he could stay with me for a few days at my apartment if he gets a ride to my place. Of course I said no and that I wasn't comfortable with that. Now he's saying that I just don't like him, etc.

I do like his personality but I don't like that fact that he's broke (I know that sounds bad). I'm barely financially stable and I want someone who is too (or better).

My friend thinks that SpongeRobert is sexier lol

Should I say something to him or just leave it alone and let it go?

We were talking non-stop for a while and he said that he was interested in me and I said that I was interested in him too, because I am. But now he hasn't talked to me in 3 days. I never said anything that would offend him. I'm kinda hurt and angry even though this always happens to me :(

I'm 20 and guys tell me that I'm beautiful and that they like my personality but I've been single for a few months. None of them want a relationship with me, they just tell me that they want to be friends. I think it's just because they don't like my lazy eye :'(

I wish I was born with straight eyes :'(

I would be pissed.