Krull

is for your enjoyment? the enjoyment of your partner? or just being with the other person?

if you saw in an email someone wrote to my wife "do I taste different..." would this mean anything else than sexual

How was sex after with your partner?

did you feel your partner was emotionally *there*? how was it for you? did it get better?

ok here goes. As most people here know about 6mon. ago I found out that my wife had cheated on me. She apologized and we both agree on working things out.

my question is, what are some things that others in my situation have do to bring back the connection between them. I've read in some places that we should sit down together an make a list of things and start there.

just looking for some ideas...........

thanks

I pose this question to all the women out there. I admit that I need help to better myself in this area so I can please my wife. I would like from all the women out there things that worked for them. A bit of history, one of the issues my wife had an affair was that the pleasure part of sex was I would get it and not satify her. Well, were working on the other issues too ( communication and such..) but to fix my side one thing is to better myself to please her .......I admit I need all the help I can get since I am doing a complete 180 and taking on the approach "her first!".

well ladies help me help her. I know what she did was wrong and again we are working on that.

thanks ahead of time!!!

ok, here goes. My wife an I are working things out and it is moving along well. I have this feeling one of the people she slept with was a specific friend of ours. She has eluded that she has skeletons in her closet and does not want to reveal them to protect me from the hurt about finding out about the present guy she cheated with. it has been 4 months - should I ask her and go down that path? or the fact that she told me she has skeletons and wants to forget about them and bury them. Is there a benefit for me? I still see this family and we sometime sdo things together and if she confirms, it will change things of course? zI doubt his wife know and he has 4 kids.

not sure if I should open the can of worms.

just found out this week and it was from my wife who had an affair that ended back in Nov. I can't remember if I had signs before that...........

are we men suppose to figure it out or is it wrong to ask what you like? like places women like more of us to kiss, touch, etc..