Cheripie

together 25 yrs, married after 6-1/2 a month before our daughter turned 6.& she'll be 22 next month.He left for a 500 pound woman, he always told me if I was that big, or at least got heavy, he'd stilllove me, but would be worried asbout my health & they can't have sex due to her size, but she makes a LOT of $$$ he's in serious debt & left me in Sept 2010, came back in 2 weeks, got back together by Nov...alll in 2010after moving from Vegas to rural KS in Feb., 2010. He moved out & on Aig., 2010, after 1 month at our 1st real place, his truck payment was $450,wasn't allowed to leave the state of NV & it was a 2001 Ford Ranger, sticker price of $10,00, a 3 year loan & after early 2013, paid for....$16,200+whatever he put down on it! I have no vehicle, we got back together in Nov., 2010,spent the holidays together, I stayed at that apt from Sept 2nd when he came home & annopunced he was moving out, left Monday the 30th of Aug.,couldn't afford the as & 23 miles each way, then iI got my place over the holidays in 2010, Christmas Eve, moved in near mid Jan. 2011 & on Sept., 2nd we went ended up in Iowa for the labor Day weekend, sponataneously, had a BLAST! Then we went to KC the 16th-the 18thof Sept., 2011....he insisted I go with so he could take a test for a job with AT&T & if he didn't take the job, the test would enhence his amazing & impressive resume, but he decided to sdtay at Walmart, makes $9.65 an hour, now $10.05, probably a little more since his 2 yr raise last March, 2012.....our planned vacation started Sun., Sept. 25, 2011, & we had saved all year, had a bundle, his last day was Fri the 23rd when he got off at 7am....works 10pm-7am M-F & decided to leave Sat. after a good night's rest on Sept 24th. Man, we were so excited for months, and he left me again on Sun the 25th, the day B4 did laundry, sent me a txt saying he was sporry for being such an a'hole, I txt him back saying he isn't an a'hole, he then says he was trying to apologize, and I told him he didn't do anything wrong. Earlier that day, I woke up to him talking to the cops, he was threatening suicide on FB, his niece who hadn't seen us in over 15 yrs called & they just wanted to be sure he was all right. Things were better than ever, but he gets these horrible bouts of depression, then when he moved out, got a place 4 blocks from here & filed for divorce Nov 1st, it was all final on Feb. 6th., 2012. he was seeing the 500 pound chick since B4 he filed, but after he moved out she is literally too big to have sex, but he says they do 'other' things, OK., got ya, but he has avoided me since, won't talk, it's like he's afraid of his own emotions & promnised marital counseling since 1996 just before we went to get married, and never kept his word. I was his 1st, we hooked up when we were 25, he was a virgin & I knew him up close & personal 19 yrs before we got together as close family friends, his 2 sisters baby sat me, the other 2 my best friends & our moms best pals, and his mom my 3rd grade teacher....we were together from March 1987 until Oct 1989, decided to have a child, got preggers 1st try & moved in together when I was 6 weeks, Dec., 1989, he gave me a ring in May, 1995, married June 1996. I stood by him when he was accused of doing things to out daughter I know he didn't, I knew time would tell & it did, and now he's with this new chick. She has a degree in hair & is an RN....he went after someone who can take care of him from the inside out, but I was always a stay at home wife & mother, he liked that & when he accused me of being with him only for his money, I always told him "WHAT MONEY>" I knew he didn't make a lot & told him if I wanted to marry for money, I'd have found a guy with money, and he took that as an insult when it was a sincere compliment, always told him how grateful I was & put my career goals & dreams on the back burner to be a stay at home wife & mother. I am lost & confusedc, so many loose ends & when I asked him why, all I got was, "It's over." "It's over & the sooner you realize this & get over me, the sooner you can move on" I think he may be with this large woman b/c he knows he will treat her right, he told me he is in a committed relationship in late April, and was so during our divorce proceedings, he filed, I contestged, but you cannot make someone stay married. How do I stop loving him, he did me wrong, promised never to leave again after the 2010 stunt, always asking why I am so insecure & why I thought he hated me??? He kept pushing me away, all the leg hair on his legs fell off & I told him it was normal for a man near 50, and that many wonmenb pay a fortune for painful waxings & other means to get them so soft, smooth & silky, he smiled, held me & we both laughed. I was so glad, because I was being sincere & had hoped he didn't take it the wrong way. Then when he left,

My in-laws let my husband and I stay in their rental house and charge us no rent, but it's not up to code and needs a lot of work. They got mad when we bought a lock for the front door! How can they evict us without losing their welfare benefits as they don't report this property, keep it hidden from welfare and want us out next week. These landlords have also been harassing us suddenly in the past 3 days using false personal issues they made up as an excuse. What do we do? Are we in trouble and can they toss us out on the street without proper notice? There is nothing in writing such as a rental agreement or lease. It's all verbal as they insisted and it was their idea, they offered us a place until we could get our heads above water in exchange for keeping up the yard. Before we moved in, the house was abandoned for 3 years and deteriorating, so they wanted someone to move in and we had no place to go. We did get the gas/water/trash (all on one bill from gas company) and the electric bill goes to them. Can they shut off the electric leaving us in the cold and forcing us to lose all are perishable food? We are in rural Kansas, new to the state and it gets up to 80 during the day and down in the 30s at night, and we were promised after 2-3 months a permanent place for a set rent amount which we are set to pay, but what about the code violations...no smoke detectors, dangerous floor heater, live wires outside and we're losing our heat with very bad insulation. I am now sick with walking Pneumonia and can't pay the bill which would be much less had they kept their word. Also,the city is mad due to his neglect on all his junk cars and wants us to lie for them. I'm scared and keep falling down and I'm don't want to get hurt! They are well aware of this, but don't seem to care and we've fixed up the place, cleaned it out and bought a lock for the front door, but the windows have no locks. Also, there are mice and lots of spiders.

Hello.

I moved here nearly 10 years ago 4 work related reasons when my husband transferred voluntarily for work. We had been living with my uncle for what was to be 1-2 months and ended up being 2 years. Hubby moved out & my uncle kept reminding me that he pawned me off on him & it was NOT his job 2 support me. There I was, sick & lonely. I had no choice but to follow my husband here 2 months after he got here although he did not want me here, It was here or the streets. I was told he had to let me stay or he'd be abandoning me. Well, I knew this guy since childhood & we had a past relationship years ago, but we got married so I could get the surgery I so badly needed. I got the surgery along with years of emotional & verbal abuse. It does not help when my hubby leaves me & goes 2 his family 4 vacations & holidays, leaving me all alone sick. 1 time it was pneumonia, but I should not be alone so much with such high BP. All money is in accounts in his name soley. His cell is only phone.