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Why is my ex still trying to contact me? Restraining order of 5 years has finished ?
6 years ago my ex boyfriend assaulted me, it was so serious he was arrested that day and was not given bail. He was remanded then given a 2 and a half year sentence then it was extended to 3 years as he was still contacting me. Throughout the last 6 years even thought a restraining order has been in place, he has contacted me every few months via fake profiles on social media. The 5 year restraining order has now ended. Recently he has started trying to make contact with me again, I have a partner who I’ve been with for 5 years, but my ex doesn’t care and still contacts me. I have given up with the police because everytime I report it they say that because it’s a fake profile they can’t prove it’s him, even though in the messages he says it’s him. I’m learning to be able to not spiral into a state of depression and anxiety every time he contacts me, but I am wondering why he is not giving up, after 6 years he is still very persistent and nobody can understand why. He has had a few short lasting relationships so I would of thought his attention would of been more on the latest girls he’s been with, if anyone can give me some clarity I would appreciate it, I really want to understand this
Other - Family & Relationships9 months agoWill my rabbit be okay?
I had 2 rabbits and sadly one died this week.
It makes me so sad seeing him on his own, and he hasn't come out of his cage which normally he's never in it, he's normally exploring
I don't want him to be lonely but at the same time if I get another rabbit for him to have a friend I'm always going to be in this cycle of rabbits and its broke my heart when my rabbit died this week I don't want to go through that again:(
What do you recommend I do? I have been spending a lot more time with my rabbit but he doesn't seem interested in me
3 AnswersOther - Pets3 years agoHow can I see what "followers" have viewed my story on Facebook?
I can see which friends have seen my story but it also says one follower has viewed it how do I see who it is?
3 AnswersFacebook3 years agoIs there anyway of preventing ADHD in pregnancy?
1 AnswerPregnancy3 years agoPeriod pain 2 weeks before period?
Yesterday I had bad period pain when I'm not due for nearly 2 weeks
Today it's gone which is strange, but I was just wondering why I had pain?
My last period was just under 2 weeks ago but it was very light. Ive always had light periods but this one was extremely light
I'm starting to think I could be pregnant ? But my partner and I always use the pull out method, I know it's not the best method but it's worked for us for the past 3 years
2 AnswersPregnancy3 years agoWhy is my period so light but colour wise very dark?
Is it normal for my period to be almost black throughout my whole period ? It's never red and I only bleed when I wipe after having a wee
I don't want to go to the doctors if it's normal
2 AnswersWomen's Health3 years agoBoyfriend has been put on sertraline ??
My boyfriend of 3 years came off tramadol for his shoulder injury 3 weeks ago
Ever since he's been a different person, he's angry , argumentative, says nasty things, isn't sleeping, doesn't want to do anything and has been very snappy
I took him to the doctors today and told them the problem
The doctor has prescribed him 50 mg of sertraline a day
the doctor didn't tell him he had depression or anxiety he just said this will help with the symptoms he's having at the moment
What is it that is wrong with him??
4 AnswersMental Health3 years agoWhy has my partners whole personality changed?
He used to be chatty, energetic , very work motivated and since he dislocated his shoulder and got put on tramadol he has changed
He was taking a lot of tramadol for 2 months after hurting his shoulder, I started to worry he was addicted so I spoke to him and told him to stop them, every since stopping them he has been a horrible person, he's not sleeping, he's argumentative, he says horrible things to me, he's angry with me 24/7 but then texts me saying he's sorry when I'm not around
The past 2 weeks have been absolute hell for me he's talking to me like dirt so I've asked him to move out for a week to sort himself out and go to the doctors , does anyone know what could be wrong with him ??
1 AnswerMental Health3 years agoDid having a baby make you love you're partner more?
I've been with my partner for 3 years, we have lived together for 2 and a half
We've done a lot of traveling ect together
I feel like we have hit a bit of a brick wall and I feel slightly bored
I've wanted a child for as long as I can remember
I'm 23 he's 29
What did having a baby do to your relationship?
Some people say it makes or breaks relationships
3 AnswersParenting3 years agoInsomnia after stopping tramadol?
My partner was on tramadol and naproxen for a couple of months after dislocating his shoulder
I made him stop them as I felt it was getting abit out of control and he was taking very high doses
Since stopping them he doesn't sleep, and this is making him very angry and it's putting a lot of strain on our relationship
Is this a common side effect of stopping tramadol ?
1 AnswerMedicine3 years agoPartner hasn't been the same since his accident ?? Tramadol and naproxen?
My partner had an accident 3 months ago and dislocated his shoulder
He was given tramadol and naproxen
He took high doses of both of those painkillers for about a month
He was angry, moody, not eating , argumentative and no motivation for work
I told him I was worried he was getting addicted and he stopped them. After telling me he stopped them I found out he had been taking them still so he threw them in the bin infront of me and he has none left now and hasn't taken them for weeks
But he still isn't the same person he's so moody and not sleeping atall
How long will this go on for ?
It's making me want to leave
6 AnswersMedicine3 years agoCaught my mum drunk driving please help?
Yesterday I caught my mum drink driving, she had called me and I could tell she was drunk and she sounded like she was in a car
So I asked where she was going and she told me and she said her boyfriend was driving
I had a gut feeling she was lying as sadly she has done this before
I drove to where she said she was going and when I got there her car was already there
I asked people if she drove there and they said she did as they saw her pull up and get out the car alone
I confronted her but she just kept lying to me saying she didn't drive
I know she did as even her boyfriend admitted she drove and he wasn't in the car with her
I took her keys of her and won't be giving them back for a long time
I really don't know what to do
My dad died in a car accident when I was 11 (I'm now 23) so understandably I worry
She has been banned from driving due to drink driving twice a couple of years ago
I was so tempted to call the police yesterday but I just couldn't
I'm so scared she's going to hurt someone or herself
What can I do?
1 AnswerParenting3 years agoWhy am I unhappy with my "perfect" life ?
I'm 23, I own my own home, I am engaged and have a 3 year old step daughter (to be)
We have been together nearly 3 years
We have bought up my partners daughter together
Friends say I have the perfect life, but i really don't feel I do
I'm so fed up, and miserable
Everything my partner does annoys me
I keep getting the urge to be single and live a normal 23 year old life
My life consists around looking after a 3 year old, cleaning cooking ect and my job is a nanny so I do the exact same thing at work
I love my partner but I just don't feel satisfied with this life
What can I do to help this relationship work? I don't want to throw it away
9 AnswersMental Health3 years agoHas anyone still got pregnant after taking the morning after pill?
Took levonelle nearly 2 weeks ago after my partner and I had an accident
Took the pill 48 hours after the sex
I was ovulating on the day I took the pill
I've read people have still got pregnant after taking this pill
Has anyone had any experience with this?
4 AnswersPregnancy3 years agoIs my partner getting addicted to tramadol?
He had an accident 5 weeks ago and dislocated his shoulder and a very small fracture (hair line) as doctors said on his shoulder
He started of taking codine and ibuprofen. After a few days he said it wasn't doing anything so he went to the doctors and got tramadol and naproxen
He started of taking one of each every 6 or so hours, then it changed into 2 of each every 4 hours
I don't see him through the day as we both work so I don't know what he takes exactly
But the past few weeks he's been very angry, argumentative, lost all motivation when normally he's very work motivated. He gets home from work and just wants to go to bed, he isn't eating which is very unusual for him he normally lives for food!
The tension in our home is awful
He says he's not addicted and he's just in pain but my friend did the exact same thing to their shoulder and even had surgery on it and still never took strong medication
What can I do? I don't think he's "addicted" now but I feel that's the way it's going
If someone can give me advice that would be much appreciated:(
4 AnswersMedicine3 years ago12 year old girl i look after is extremely hyper and immature?
Im a nanny for a 12 year old girl and a 18 month old boy.
Beleive it or not the baby is a lot easier
The 12 year old is always stood so close to me i feel i cant breathe, she says shes bored all the time, even when shes doing things like watching tv, eating and playing outside.
She doesnt want to do much with her friends at the weekend cause she says the things they want to do like cinema and shopping is boring, she would rather sit at home with her baby brother watching peppa pig.
She is always in my face, doing immature things like blowing in my ears, shaking both my shoulders when telling me simple things like shes hungry (like its some sort of emergency)
Shes just always so loud and hyper and its very hard to look after her brother whilst shes acting like this around him as it makes him frustrated when hes tired and shes trying to play with him
How can i tell her nicley that she needs to calm down abit?
Does this sound like ADHD?
3 AnswersTeen & Preteen6 years agoCan my obsessive ex boyfriend live a 2 minute walk from my house when he gets out of prison?
About 10 months ago i broke up with a boyfriend as he was so obsessive and controlling, he didnt take it well and ended up beating me causing 3 of my ribs to break he was jailed for 2 years and hes out in august
He has a 5 year restraining order but im worried that he might move into his mums house which is a 2 minute walk to my house, if that
Before he was sent to prison he lived 20 minutes away in the car from me so im dreading it if hes so close to me
Will the courts allow him to live so close? If he does move into his mums i will move out of my mums and get my own place but im not on a great pay so i would really struggle
Anyone have any advice?
11 AnswersLaw & Ethics6 years agoCan i still go on holiday if i get put on a curfew TAG?
So ive been accused of an assult
I pleaded not guilty and its gone to trial
The trial is 2 weeks before my holiday
Ive never been in trouble before
What happens if they find me guilty and put me on tag? Cant i go on holiday?
2 AnswersLaw & Ethics6 years agoHow can i get a drug dealer caught?
My friend has a two year old child with a man who is now selling cocaine
He makes about 3k a week
He keeps all the drugs at his house and sells them from home and also out in pubs sometimes
We have told the police but they havent done anything about it
We want him to get caught because he makes all this money but wont support his daughter, he has never paid any maintenance.
He is not dangerous atall, we are thinking of parking outside his house and videoing how many people go to the door and get drugs then leave
Has anyone got any ideas on how we can get him caught?
4 AnswersLaw & Ethics6 years agoTax on second job? Quick question?
I work as a nanny
The father pays me half and the mother pays me the other half
Im getting taxed a lot
For example this month i got taxed 137 pounds from the fathers company so only got paid £520
Is there anyway i can stop being taxed so much for a 'second job' that isnt really a second job??
1 AnswerUnited Kingdom6 years ago