bhamel_01

Got pulled over after swinging by my dealers house, apparently the house was being watched and a cop pulled me over a few miles down the road and began the whole "i know what your doing, i can be a real prick if you start telling me lies about whats in the car and where your coming from." So i just handed the guy my bowl and a 1/4 oz of weed which seemed to satisfy him and they let me go after having k-9 search over my car for any more drugs or weapons.

My question is, how often do prosecutors or whatever read over police reports and decide to go back and charge someone for an offense that they were guilty of but not arrested for...the cop told me he was going to recommend that i not be charged for this but he still had to write up and submit a report and in the end it wouldnt be up to him. Has anyone else been let off the hook by a very forgiving cop only to be bit in the *** with a charge later?

Would you say screw it and still carry? Ive decided that im not going to let anyone disarm me, if you outlaw guns only outlaws will have guns right? So i guess count me in as an outlaw if it were to happen. What about you?

How in the heck did you deal with that. Ive been seperated from my wife for going on nine months now. I know its over, ive accepted that fact and ive been trying to move on. But i feel like im stuck on her, its not like im still at the point where i really feel that i love her, i mean i still do in a way, i often find myself thinking about all our good times weve had over the last six years, but i think i have emotionally moved on from her.... but yet i still have this nagging problem of mine.

EVERYTIME i think about the fact that she is dating a guy...it just gives me this absolutely sickening feeling in the pit of my stomach, much like the first lonely weeks i spent away from her. I dont even know how serious she is with these guys, i dont keep up on it enough to really know much except there have been like 3 or 4 and i think shes with someone now that she really likes. But it still really gets to me and really makes me depressed sometimes. What the hell do i do here, its like im mostly moved on but im still stuck at he same time.

I just feel like its my spot and its just a really awful feeling thinking that ive been dropped like that. What is it? Jealously that i havent really started dating yet? Just the natural course of things? Oh and i forgot to say that the marriage ended because of an affair (2 in fact) and i constantly kick myself for taking her back those two times. Why do i feel like this over something that was obviously not good for my well being? Please just any advice, that anyone who might have felt this way, can give that found a way to get through it would be greatly appreciated. Im so sick of feeling like this all the time.