Sonia

I've been through *VERY* rough times. It would take way too long to explain over seven years worth of stuff here for background, but the basics are: I had a bad life growing up, but my grandparents took me in but never legally adopted me, i was engaged in highschool to a man i still love and still loves me, but we had to break it off because he joined the military without talking to me and I freaked out about it (all said and done with now) I married another man and we had a child over a year into the marriage, it was abusive, crazy things happened he sent me to the middle of nowhere to start over with him and my daughter, i was tricked he has her now, i couldnt afford a lawyer nor did i know anything really about law so I only have her two days a week. I never get her. the town in which most of this happened is crooked and favored his side because of his family. I tried college and failed out... four semesters. I'm at the end of my rope and have less than two weeks to find an apartment and a job that i can afford 300/mo child support + student loans and rent with only restaraunt/cashier experience. I was offered to move back in with my exfiance near his base over 1k miles away from here but everything would be taken care of, he said he'd buy me a car and i have a full time and part time job waiting for me there. My family is ober controlling even now into my adulthood and would never approve, they are also plauged with illnesses due to their old age and I can't even take care of myself nonetheless them. I'm not sure if i should try to get two min wage jobs and attempt to take care of them as well while trying to afford everything on my own, just get a place on my own with the two min wage jobs and just barely scrape by anyway or take the offer leaving everything behind, including my daughter which i never get to see anyway and maybe build up some savings up there to get a lawyer and set things right. I'm so confused. What is the right thing to do? what would you do?

I've been through *VERY* rough times. It would take way too long to explain over seven years worth of stuff here for background, but the basics are: I had a bad life growing up, but my grandparents took me in but never legally adopted me, i was engaged in highschool to a man i still love and still loves me, but we had to break it off because he joined the military without talking to me and I freaked out about it (all said and done with now) I married another man and we had a child over a year into the marriage, it was abusive, crazy things happened he sent me to the middle of nowhere to start over with him and my daughter, i was tricked he has her now, i couldnt afford a lawyer nor did i know anything really about law so I only have her two days a week. I never get her. the town in which most of this happened is crooked and favored his side because of his family. I tried college and failed out... four semesters. I'm at the end of my rope and have less than two weeks to find an apartment and a job that i can afford 300/mo child support + student loans and rent with only restaraunt/cashier experience. I was offered to move back in with my exfiance near his base over 1k miles away from here but everything would be taken care of, he said he'd buy me a car and i have a full time and part time job waiting for me there. My family is ober controlling even now into my adulthood and would never approve, they are also plauged with illnesses due to their old age and I can't even take care of myself nonetheless them. I'm not sure if i should try to get two min wage jobs and attempt to take care of them as well while trying to afford everything on my own, just get a place on my own with the two min wage jobs and just barely scrape by anyway or take the offer leaving everything behind, including my daughter which i never get to see anyway and maybe build up some savings up there to get a lawyer and set things right. I'm so confused. What is the right thing to do? what would you do?

Does my secret FWB have feelings for me?

My recent ex and my fwb are best friends so when my friend became my fwb we had (still have to) keep it secret. We were all roomates at the time. (yeah i know) anyway so we're about to all go our parting ways and my fwb moved in with his brand new step brother. fwb his bro and i were all hanging out at my place and it was raining outside and his step bro gave me his jacket and even when it was nothing but huge chunks of ice coming down he still wouldnt accept it back saying he was a gentleman then later the topic of sex and sex stories came up. his brother and i shared stories of past incidences that were topic related but my fwb got really quiet and stayed that way for the rest of the evening (which he cut short within the hour) i didn't say anything about anything recent so i dont understand whats wrong. also with all the time we spend together we eat together, nap together, get on our laptops together, cuddle listen to music etc. am i just being very naive or does he like me? mind you he had an open girlfriend when we started fwb (we no longer speak of other sex/relationship type things) and he turns off his ringer all the time, never calls her back, may text her but other than that i never see them hang out. unless he doesnt req sleep he didn't hang with her for over 3 weeks straight. what do you guys think do you need more details if so ask them and i will answer them with the edit option

just to clarify, we both were unemployed living together. we spent like 99% of every day together.

on a side note, there are random yet frequent happenings of connection. like you know when the stare lasts five seconds too long etc i see it but i can't tell if its actually him having feelings or just the two of us connecting as individuals.

My recent ex and my fwb are best friends so when my friend became my fwb we had (still have to) keep it secret. We were all roomates at the time. (yeah i know) anyway so we're about to all go our parting ways and my fwb moved in with his brand new step brother. fwb his bro and i were all hanging out at my place and it was raining outside and his step bro gave me his jacket and even when it was nothing but huge chunks of ice coming down he still wouldnt accept it back saying he was a gentleman then later the topic of sex and sex stories came up. his brother and i shared stories of past incidences that were topic related but my fwb got really quiet and stayed that way for the rest of the evening (which he cut short within the hour) i didn't say anything about anything recent so i dont understand whats wrong. also with all the time we spend together we eat together, nap together, get on our laptops together, cuddle listen to music etc. am i just being very naive or does he like me? mind you he had an open girlfriend when we started fwb (we no longer speak of other sex/relationship type things) and he turns off his ringer all the time, never calls her back, may text her but other than that i never see them hang out. unless he doesnt req sleep he didn't hang with her for over 3 weeks straight. what do you guys think do you need more details if so ask them and i will answer them with the edit option

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My grandmother (who raised me and is southern babtist as they come) found out that I had a threesome with my highschool sweetheart and my (at the time) husband. It was several years ago, i am now divorced from him and things are starting up again between my old highschool sweetheart and myself (after a long break, he joined the military and I had my marriage, gave birth to my daughter college etc) ANYWAY: My grandmother is very upset and told me in all of her years shes never 'laid down with two men" how she holds a grudge and will never speak to either party (excpetion my exhusband on matters with my daughter only) and worries about how '(mydaughter) hopefully will never find out about my (shameful event)' What can I do? How do i even handle this situation other than what i've already tried (telling her it was a long time ago, i was young, it only ever happened once, and that my highschool sweetheart has also changed since the event, especially due to the military which has made him a better man) How do i ease the hate or disappointment in her heart, just simply how do i handle this?