Hannah

Ok so I am currently on the pill and have been for a little over three months. I am a major hypochondriac and I am always panicking that there is something wrong with me. I have been late taking my pills a few times (but never the next day) like meaning that I take them up to 5 hours late. I haven't had actual inter course, but I have made out with my boyfriend where I had no underwear on and he had just boxers on and he also fingered me. I'm really nervous that I'm pregnant because my appetite has disappeared. I'm consciously nauseous and my lower back has been hurting. I got my period on Thursday (it usually comes on Monday) but it only lasted for 3 days when it usually lasts for 5... It was also lighter than usual. Am I being crazy? Please I could use the help calming myself. Thanks!

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months and I love him to death, but I feel like he is always worried about following his parents rules so closely. We are going to be in college in the fall and won't be living at home any longer. I feel like he always uses his parents rules as an excuse for why he doesn't want to do things. Like I understand when you are under your parents roof it's "my house, my rules", but i feel like things as intimate as sex should be decisions that we make together and should not involve our parents. At this point we aren't planning to have sex because I'm not ready, but the reasoning I give is for myself and my own morals, but he said he didn't want to because he knows his parents would kill him if he did. I just feel like when we go away to college and are living on our owns, he won't know how to make his own decisions. He really just seems to let his parents make every decision for him. And it is so frustrating because I feel like we can't ever make intimate decisions for ourselves because he is always doing what his parents want. Like he will say "oh I really want to but I know that my parents would find out". We are adults now and the decision should be for us. Btw I'm not saying that we should have sex while we live at home, but I am just scared when we go to college that he will still let his parents make all the decisions for him... And for some reason I am really annoyed by this.. Is that a normal reaction?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months and I love him to death, but I feel like he is always worried about following his parents rules so closely. We are going to be in college in the fall and won't be living at home any longer. I feel like he always uses his parents rules as an excuse for why he doesn't want to do things. Like I understand when you are under your parents roof it's "my house, my rules", but i feel like things as intimate as sex should be decisions that we make together and should not involve our parents. At this point we aren't planning to have sex because I'm not ready, but the reasoning I give is for myself and my own morals, but he said he didn't want to because he knows his parents would kill him if he did. I just feel like when we go away to college and are living on our owns, he won't know how to make his own decisions. He really just seems to let his parents make every decision for him. And it is so frustrating because I feel like we can't ever make intimate decisions for ourselves because he is always doing what his parents want. Like he will say "oh I really want to but I know that my parents would find out". We are adults now and the decision should be for us. Btw I'm not saying that we should have sex while we live at home, but I am just scared when we go to college that he will still let his parents make all the decisions for him... And for some reason I am really annoyed by this.. Is that a normal reaction?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months and I love him to death, but I feel like he is always worried about following his parents rules so closely. We are going to be in college in the fall and won't be living at home any longer. I feel like he always uses his parents rules as an excuse for why he doesn't want to do things. Like I understand when you are under your parents roof it's "my house, my rules", but i feel like things as intimate as sex should be decisions that we make together and should not involve our parents. At this point we aren't planning to have sex because I'm not ready, but the reasoning I give is for myself and my own morals, but he said he didn't want to because he knows his parents would kill him if he did. I just feel like when we go away to college and are living on our owns, he won't know how to make his own decisions. He really just seems to let his parents make every decision for him. And it is so frustrating because I feel like we can't ever make intimate decisions for ourselves because he is always doing what his parents want. Like he will say "oh I really want to but I know that my parents would find out". We are adults now and the decision should be for us. Does he seem like a mamas boy? Btw I'm not saying that we should have sex while we live at home, but I am just scared when we go to college that he will still let his parents make all the decisions for him...

My boyfriend I have been dating for almost ten months. We are both just out of high school and headed to the same college in the fall. Anyways, I haven't seen him in over a week and I really miss him. Our schedules are really opposite so it's really hard to talk during the day and sometimes even at night. I miss him so much and I feel like such a clingy and obsessive girl friend... Ah I hate when I feel like this because I don't want to be so clingy but I just miss him so much? Is this normal and do any of you ever feel like this? It's almost like I miss him so much it hurts.. I mean I know I will see him again, but the waiting is really hard for me😕 any advice?

So yesterday my boyfriend and I were just kind of fooling around and I was touching his penis (I have never actually seen a penis, just felt one and it is his, an uncut one) so I had no idea whether he had been circumcised or not. Basically I have never had any sexual partner/boyfriend before and so when it comes to touching down there I have no idea what I'm doing... Basically he has had to stop me the past couple times and just say not to pull on it so much. The last time he told me that he isn't circumcised so when I try to stimulate him by touching it all I'm doing is pulling on the foreskin... I would have never noticed if he hadn't told me, but now I am actually really scared to touch him because I'm scared I'm going to hurt him. He seemed really embarrassed telling me because he hasn't told anyone about it. I don't feel weird about him being uncut, but now I just really don't want to touch him down there out of fear of hurting him... (He told me the past couple times when I was moving my hand up and down the way I was pulling on the foreskin made it really painful.. I felt so bad and I couldn't stop apologizing, but he said it was ok because I was just learning and he was my first, but I'm honestly too embarrassed to try again😬 any advice?

So yesterday my boyfriend and I were just kind of fooling around and I was touching his penis (I have never actually seen a penis, just felt one and it is his, an uncut one) so I had no idea whether he had been circumcised or not. Basically I have never had any sexual partner/boyfriend before and so when it comes to touching down there I have no idea what I'm doing... Basically he has had to stop me the past couple times and just say not to pull on it so much. The last time he told me that he isn't circumcised so when I try to stimulate him by touching it all I'm doing is pulling on the foreskin... I would have never noticed if he hadn't told me, but now I am actually really scared to touch him because I'm scared I'm going to hurt him. He seemed really embarrassed telling me because he hasn't told anyone about it. I don't feel weird about him being uncut, but now I just really don't want to touch him down there out of fear of hurting him... (He told me the past couple times when I was moving my hand up and down the way I was pulling on the foreskin made it really painful.. I felt so bad and I couldn't stop apologizing, but he said it was ok because I was just learning and he was my first, but I'm honestly too embarrassed to try again😬 any advice?

So yesterday my boyfriend and I were just kind of fooling around and I was touching his penis (I have never actually seen a penis, just felt one and it is his, an uncut one) so I had no idea whether he had been circumcised or not. Basically I have never had any sexual partner/boyfriend before and so when it comes to touching down there I have no idea what I'm doing... Basically he has had to stop me the past couple times and just say not to pull on it so much. The last time he told me that he isn't circumcised so when I try to stimulate him by touching it all I'm doing is pulling on the foreskin... I would have never noticed if he hadn't told me, but now I am actually really scared to touch him because I'm scared I'm going to hurt him. He seemed really embarrassed telling me because he hasn't told anyone about it. I don't feel weird about him being uncut, but now I just really don't want to touch him down there out of fear of hurting him... (He told me the past couple times when I was moving my hand up and down the way I was pulling on the foreskin made it really painful.. I felt so bad and I couldn't stop apologizing, but he said it was ok because I was just learning and he was my first, but I'm honestly too embarrassed to try again😬 any advice?

So yesterday my boyfriend and I were just kind of fooling around and I was touching his penis (I have never actually seen a penis, just felt one and it is his, an uncut one) so I had no idea whether he had been circumcised or not. Basically I have never had any sexual partner/boyfriend before and so when it comes to touching down there I have no idea what I'm doing... Basically he has had to stop me the past couple times and just say not to pull on it so much. The last time he told me that he isn't circumcised so when I try to stimulate him by touching it all I'm doing is pulling on the foreskin... I would have never noticed if he hadn't told me, but now I am actually really scared to touch him because I'm scared I'm going to hurt him. He seemed really embarrassed telling me because he hasn't told anyone about it. I don't feel weird about him being uncut, but now I just really don't want to touch him down there out of fear of hurting him... (He told me the past couple times when I was moving my hand up and down the way I was pulling on the foreskin made it really painful.. I felt so bad and I couldn't stop apologizing, but he said it was ok because I was just learning and he was my first, but I'm honestly too embarrassed to try again😬 any advice?

I am definitely not dry down there when he goes to finger me because he has been touching my boobs and we have been making out for a while. But whenever he goes to finger me he like jams his fingers in there like he is trying to reach my insides.. I always tell him to be gentle because it hurts when he jabs his fingers in so far! What exactly could he be doing wrong and what advise could I give to him to do a better job? I don't masturbate so I can't show him myself... But any advise I could give him?

Every time I try to give him a hand job I always seem to be doing it wrong... The first couple times he would give me advise I felt ok about it because I was new at it, but he is always telling me that I'm pulling on it too much, grabbing too tight or not tight enough, I was going too fast/too slow... Basically just everything I did was wrong... It's just a huge blow to my confidence and I get really awkward about it. It just makes me feel like I won't ever be able to do a good job at it and so I just don't want to try. I always apologize after he says something about me doing something wrong, and he always says it is ok. I am 18 years old and a virgin (and planning to stay like that until I am with the man I am going to marry) I am planning to talk to him about it, but is he just being too picky? Or is it just because he feels he can get the job better himself? I also really don't want to give him a bj at this point... I just don't feel comfortable with it yet (we have been together 10 months btw). What can I do?

Ok so my acne is not necessarily out of control, but it is more than your average teenager (or at least the ones I know). I do all of the necessary things to keep my skin clear. I wash twice a day with panoxyl (face and body) 10% benzoyl peroxide wash, I use a salicylic acid oil free astringent at night, and an oil free moisturizer morning and night. And then on the spots where I get acne I use tretnoin cream at night. I had also been taking minocycline for a while and it seemed to work for a while but now it doesn't seem to be working anymore... I am very frustrated with my skin because I used to be so confident without wearing makeup and loved just hopping out of the shower and going out. I still don't wear face makeup because I am just scared my skin will breakout more, but I am not confident! Why is it that I get acne even though I am doing all of the right things to try and prevent it... Any advice or helpful stories? Thanks.

Lately my boyfriend has been so stressed out about trying to find a job for the summer. His parents have been putting a lot of pressure on him about money because we are going to be going to college in a couple months and so they are pressuring him about finding a job. He has applied for at least a dozen and is still waiting to hear back on them and because of this he is super stressed. It is honestly starting to put stress on our relationship because he is being so distant. He allows the stress to overtake him and I don't know what to do about it. How can I help him when he is so stressed out?

We have been dating for 7 months and are just about to graduate high school. He is the first guy I have ever loved, but I am just scared to tell him I love him. I am wondering if maybe he is just feeling the same way. We haven't had sex because we are in high school and I just don't want to rush into having sex. I want to be sure that the person I share my first time with is someone I love and that loves me. He is constantly making an effort to show his affection for me and is always so sweet and kind and loving, but he hasn't ever told me he loves me. Could it be that he just doesn't think he has to because he thinks I know he loves me already? He always talks about how he can't imagine his life without me and that he would never want to experience things like prom and graduation and more with anyone else. I feel like that means that he loves me and sees a future with us. I honestly feel like I could have a future with him. I am definitely not ready for that kind of commitment right now, but I know that sometime in the future I could see myself making a lifetime commitment to him. He is the only person that truly sees every side of me and doesn't ever express any kind of displeasure. I honestly think that the flaws I see in myself are things that he sees as some of my best qualities. Would it be best for me to say this to him, or just wait for him to express it on his own time?

We have been dating for 7 months and are just about to graduate high school. He is the first guy I have ever loved, but I am just scared to tell him I love him. I am wondering if maybe he is just feeling the same way. We are both firm in our faith as Christians and don't believe in having sex before we are married because it is something that is very sacred to us. He is constantly making an effort to show his affection for me and is always so sweet and kind and loving, but he hasn't ever told me he loves me. Could it be that he just doesn't think he has to because he thinks I know he loves me already? He always talks about how he can't imagine his life without me and that he would never want to experience things like prom and graduation and more with anyone else. I feel like that means that he loves me and sees a future with us. I honestly feel like I could have a future with him. I am definitely not ready for that kind of commitment right now, but I know that sometime in the future I could see myself making a lifetime commitment to him. He is the only person that truly sees every side of me and doesn't ever express any kind of displeasure. I honestly think that the flaws I see in myself are things that he sees as some of my best qualities. Would it be best for me to say this to him, or just wait for him to express it on his own time?

My personal best date was the other night when my boyfriend and I went on a walk at 11 pm and just walked around for a while looking at the stars. We then found a grassy hill layed on it and just stared up into the sky and watched all of the stars. It was truly amazing😊 what about you guys?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and I have known that I am in love with him for a couple months, but I just haven't said anything because I really didn't want to scare him off. Everyone says that I should wait for him to say it, but I'm really having a hard time not saying it. Like he has been in New York for the past week and he calls me on the phone every night before he goes to bed and whenever we hang up I just want to say "Goodnight, I love you!" Because I really do!:) I know that he does care about me and is serious about our relationship because he shows me in the way he acts and from what I have heard that he says about me to our friends, but he just hasn't said that he loves me yet. This is also my first serious relationship and his as well, so could it be because this is a first and he doesn't know how to do it? I'm not too concerned about him saying it or not, but I just want to be able to say it because I feel it... It's so complicated! But it really should be so simple... Any advice?

(We are both 18 by the way, seniors in high school)

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and I have known that I am in love with him for a couple months, but I just haven't said anything because I really didn't want to scare him off. Everyone says that I should wait for him to say it, but I'm really having a hard time not saying it. Like he has been in New York for the past week and he calls me on the phone every night before he goes to bed and whenever we hang up I just want to say "Goodnight, I love you!" Because I really do!:) I know that he does care about me and is serious about our relationship because he shows me in the way he acts and from what I have heard that he says about me to our friends, but he just hasn't said that he loves me yet. This is also my first serious relationship and his as well, so could it be because this is a first and he doesn't know how to do it? I'm not too concerned about him saying it or not, but I just want to be able to say it because I feel it... It's so complicated! But it really should be so simple... Any advice?

(We are both 18 by the way, seniors in high school)

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and I have known that I am in love with him for a couple months, but I just haven't said anything because I really didn't want to scare him off. Everyone says that I should wait for him to say it, but I'm really having a hard time not saying it. Like he has been in New York for the past week and he calls me on the phone every night before he goes to bed and whenever we hang up I just want to say "Goodnight, I love you!" Because I really do!:) I know that he does care about me and is serious about our relationship because he shows me in the way he acts and from what I have heard that he says about me to our friends, but he just hasn't said that he loves me yet. This is also my first serious relationship and his as well, so could it be because this is a first and he doesn't know how to do it? I'm not too concerned about him saying it or not, but I just want to be able to say it because I feel it... It's so complicated! But it really should be so simple... Any advice?

(We are both 18 by the way, seniors in high school)