matty_2049

I have been to the hospital 5 times now, had blood work done a couple times, CT scan of my head, chest X-rays.. and nothing has come back. I have had severe fatigue that happens everyday, all day, from morning until I go to bed.

This had caused me to be laid off from work and has been consistent for 3 months. The doctors have put me on two separate sets of antibiotics and nothing has worked. 

I’m giving up hope that this will get better as no one has any answers.

The fluid in my ears will not go away either, and is accompanied by ringing when it’s quiet enough to hear. 

Does anyone know what could be causing all these symptoms?

Thanks!

For the last month straight (every day) I have been having loose bowels (diarrhea).. every single bowel movement has been this way... along with that, I am constantly dizzy, my ears ring, fatigue and I get the occasional minor aches and pains in my head (similar to a headache but not constant)

I have been to the hospital 4 times, no one has given me a straight answer.. I do not have a family doctor as mine retired. I am on a waiting list to get a new one.

The hospitals have done blood work, chest X-rays (for some reason) and everything has checked out good.

Does anyone know what I can do to relieve the dizziness/tired/ringing feeling to go away?

Or does anyone have an insight as to what may be causing this? I have been laid off work for the last month and i need answers so I can get better and get back to work!

Thank you in advance!

Ok guys so long story short, i was with her for 3 years, we had an on/off again relationship.. she still loves me to death but she jumped into a relationship with another guy literally days after our breakup last month (it was bad, i caught her texting this guy when i was at her house hanging out with her).. i ended up messaging him to find out what was going on, he told me everything.. it hurt so bad to know she was talking to him while we were still dating... now not even 2 weeks later, shes unblocked me from facebook.. i have a feeling its not going as well with this guy as she thought it would.. how do i react to this? don't say anything? I still love her very much and wish it could have worked out...

Details are in the question ! Thanks guys.

Basically I'm asking for a friend, but he got back together with his ex after a no contact order was up, but they remained in contact during the order as well.. they broke up after a fight recently and she is now threatening to tell the police about the contact they had while the order was in place still.. can he be charged even though the time has been served for the order? It's in Alberta, Canada so not sure on the laws and can't find it anywhere.

Ex and I had a bad breakup.. we had been on and off for the last year.. moved across the country together, she met someone in august during a break up but came crawling back and like a sucker I took her back.. eventually left her and moved out, but she kept wanting to see me and hang out/have sex and go on dates together. 10 days ago I caught her texting that ex while I was at her place. I was enraged, so I left in a fury. Never spoke to her since, or so I thought. She created a fake POF profile and everything about this person seemed fishy, hidden profile, no pictures, messaged me first, kept asking about my "ex" and wanting details, also knew things I never told her.. I caught her up in one lie that would have threw her under the bus completely and when I threatened to find out, she immedietly blocked me and called me. It was her the whole time. Why would she do this? She told me she loves me but doesn't want to be with me anymore. So why stalk me? Is she lying to me?

To save a long story, dated this girl for 2.5 years, had some rough patches but worked through it.. we broke up in June, we still hung out all the time and slept together every time.. then in late August, I find out she started a relationship with someone new.. caught me off guard as we slept together 3 days prior... so I left her alone... she called me 2 weeks later saying they broke up, invited me over so I went and we slept together... then I found out 2 days later they never broke up. I didn t tell him. She called me everyday after. Kept saying that they NEVER slept together.. She broke up with him 2 weeks later for real, so I went to her house and we started to work on our relationship again. We were not official, but I found out 2 days ago by catching her in the act that she still texts him and hides it from me.

I got mad and left her apartment, and messaged him on FB and told him everything.. how she cheated on him and I didn t know they were together.. he told me they have been talking for a month and they slept together last week. Called her a **** too.. did I do the right thing by telling him? I would want to know myself so just wondering others thoughts

Hi everyone

I'll lay it out there. I was charged with assault today because I grabbed my girlfriends arms during a dispute after she made a clenched fist like she was going to swing at me. There were marks left on her arm from my hand holding her but she started to try and shake free violently. I am not a violent person, nor do I have anything on my record at all.. I'm a thirty year old man living in Canada, wanting to know what happens next? What should I do? I made a statement to the police today telling them what happened. She obviously failed to tell the officer she made a fist and was going to swing at me. We also have a court order not to have any contact with each other. She has been calling and texting all night and I have not responded to anything. She has been apologizing and said she didn't really want to call them, and that she loves me blah blah whatever. The last thing I need/want is a criminal record for defending myself.. She will not be at my plea on court day, I asked the officer... Will I just have this dropped? I'm trying to leave the province and go back home to get away from her but have to stay in Alberta until my court date..

I was with a girl for over a year.. some bad times, some good, but we vowed to give it one more good shot at being who we said we were at the beginning of the relationship. We were on and off for a few months, but when we were "off" she wouldnt leave me alone, give me any space, none of that.. so we kept getting back together because i am a sucker for punishment i guess....

tuesday we went to a friends house, we cuddled up on the couch, i rubbed her feet, and thats when her phone rang. was a guy i never heard of before.. i questioned her and she said it was a guy who she went on one date with and she has no idea why he called. i got suspicous.. checked his facebook, seems he was just newly "in a relationship" 10 minutes prior. questioned her again, she said she knew nothing about it. i gave her the benefit of the doubt... later that night we showered together, slept together and i took her home the next morning. thats the last i heard from her since... she also deleted her facebook and so did he... i want to tell him what happened, but i also still miss and love this girl... what should i do?? I was really trying hard to please her more and more... :( how or should i win her back? i have not sent one message or called her since because she knows i figured it out..... will her new relationship last or is this just a rebound? help/advice is appreciated :)

thanks guys!

Hey guys.

I'm a 28 year old man. Tall, slim, good looking guy.... But there's something I am very self-conscious about... Since I was 15 (when I didn't know the dangers of shaving an area like that) I have been shaving between my eyebrows, everyday... I have had pretty much no choice, since my hair is somewhat thick, and dark.

It really weighs down on my conscious sometimes when meeting new people. I always have hats of on hide it in case a "shadow" shows... I've only been asked about it twice, and it hurts when I get asked, it's embarrassing...

My question is, I don't want to stop shaving it because of the embarrassment of it, but what are my options to get rid of it WHILE it's below skin level? Again, letting it grow isn't an option for me, for my sanity that is lol... I'm fair skinned with dark brown/black hair...

someone help! Is there anything I can do at home, or do I need to get laser hair removal/electrolysis? I've done a bit of research but I figure I'd get others opinions too. Thanks everyone.

Ok so, bit of a story... I have a lot of history with my ex.. left a girl for her, she left a guy for me etc.. we broke up a year later, but reunited about a year after the break up, she left her ex for me.. we basically ran away, moved across canada, started a life in alberta.. things happened in my life which led to mood swings, some were pretty bad... i said a few things to her i shouldnt have, and she ended up leaving me in alberta, which i dont blame her for because i know i messed up. anyway, she stayed in alberta, and i went through a serious stage of depression as i was about to propose to her... i know ill never get over her because i know deep down we are meant to be together, something has always told me that. anyways, we stopped talking for 5 months while i was back home in nova scotia, but i ended up getting a great career back in alberta, so i decided to move back. i now live about 4 hours from her. i decided to get the balls to text her and tell her i was sorry for everything i had said and would just like to be civil with her. she was actually happy to have that happen... which was a bit of a shock to me because of what i had said to her... so we texted for about 6 hours off and on while at work, just chatting about old times and such.

tonight, a friend of mine told me to come to red deer this weekend (where she lives) because we both had days off together to party. so i said sure. i will be leaving in 2 days for red deer. i told her i was coming up to party this weekend and she asked if i would hang out. i told her i would for sure. so we decided we would make plans in the coming days.

at the same time, we decided to talk on the phone, which lasted about 3 hours. chatting about everything from old times, to future endeavors, to hanging out on the weekend. what does all of this mean... i was so used to getting the cold shoulder from her after the break up that i had pretty much given up hope.. am i over analyzing things or does it seem like shes coming around to me again?

Was with my ex for 3 years but have known her for about 10.. we are both in our mid 20's.. she left me due to emotional instability in myself due to major losses in my life (my grandmother passed away, lost my best friend sticking up for her). We had moved across Canada from ns to Alberta and had everything together including living together, joint accounts and bills.. she owes me $500 that I put down on a trip to Cuba that I didn't get to go on because of this and i owe her $200 for a cell phone bill... I tried to talk with her and get her back but nothing worked... it all came back to "how horrible of a person and how selfish I am..." which is beyond bull ****... she texted me twice in the last month asking for the $200 because her phone was going to get cut off and that she couldn't believe I was going to keep her from "speaking to the ones she loves".... couldn't believe she's blaming me for that but oh well... I had to move home from Alberta due to suicidal thoughts, depression and having no family around. (Doctors orders) I was going to propose on new years, had a ring and she was all for marriage and kids not even 3 days before she left... she even brought it up a lot... She didn't care one bit after she left about anything.. what should I do? I feel things are getting easier for me, I don't text her at all, haven't for a month... and I have to move back there in march for work... what would you do if you still love the girl but hate that all she is caring about is money or other things/people?? I'm going back and will be making amazing money on the rigs so I will be set financially... just looking for a little insight...

Was with my ex for 3 years.. she left me due to emotional instability in myself due to major losses in my life (my grandmother passed away, lost my best friend sticking up for her).

We had moved across Canada from ns to Alberta and had everything together including living together, joint accounts and bills.. she owes me $500 that I put down on a trip to Cuba that I didn't get to go on because of this and i owe her $200 for a cell phone bill... I tried to talk with her and get her back but nothing worked... it all came back to "how horrible of a person and how selfish I am..." which is beyond bull ****... she texted me twice in the last month asking for the $200 because her phone was going to get cut off and that she couldn't believe I was going to keep her from "speaking to the ones she loves".... couldn't believe she's blaming me for that but oh well... I had to move home from Alberta due to suicidal thoughts, depression and having no family around. (Doctors orders) I was going to propose on new years, had a ring and she was all for marriage and kids not even 3 days before she left... she even brought it up a lot...

She didn't care one bit after she left about anything.. what should I do? I feel things are getting easier for me, I don't text her at all, haven't for a month... and I have to move back there in march for work... what would you do if you still love the girl but hate that all she is caring about is money or other things/people?? I'm going back and will be making amazing money on the rigs so I will be set financially... just looking for some insight....

Had a great relationship, she left me because I was an emotional hotbed at the time, lost a lot of close people to me.. we contacted for a while after, she had nothing nice to say really, so i stopped messaging her.. what's my next step because I still love her even after all of this...

Basically I had a great relationship for 2 years, we even moved across the country together.. we ended up splitting up.. had joint accounts, bills, lease etc... I do still live this girl, we've known each other for 10 years and dated for 4 total... I was depressed after the break up, tried to get her back for a month .. but i haven't messaged her in 3 weeks... it might sound cruel but i want to show her a changed me and make her see me in a new light... what would an ex have to show/say to you for you to take notice again?

PS.

The break up was my fault, I had emotional problems dealing with a close family members death and losing my best friend sticking up for her... no excuse I know but i said a couple things I didn't want/mean to...

To sum up a long long story, my ex girlfriend and i just broke up a few months ago... we've known each other for 10 years, dated a few years ago for over a year, then dated other people, still hung out behind our mates backs (bad I know.... but never did anything) then she called me the day she left him... I called the girl i was with same day and told her it was over.... love this girl with all my heart... we decided to split town and start a life together so we packed up and took my best friend and his fiance and my godson and literally drove across Canada from nova Scotia to Alberta to chase the oil dollar. Well things started ok, but 5 people including a 2 year old living in one 2 bedroom apartment started to wear thin patience. We and my ex had our fights and sometimes we said very mean things to each other, we were a lot alike and shared a lot of similar interests. When things were good, they were great though.. then everything crashed and burned on me... I lost my grandmother who I was so dearly close to in august, I kicked my best friends fiance out of my apartment (my name was on the lease) because she didn't do **** around the apartment and didn't work, and she blamed my ex girlfriend for everything so i threw her out, which in turn ended my friendship with my best friend... a month after that my ex was becoming less and less interested sexually and i brought up the issue, she avoided it and I told her if she didn't start changing she could leave.. and she did... she packed her things and that was that.. had bills and joint accounts together too.. I was an emotional train wreck, tried so hard to get her back and nothing worked.. got fired from my job and had to move home... we've spoken here and there but nothing really positive... what do I do, do you think she will ever come back??? I am moving back for work next month with a great paying job.. (Was going to propose on new years already bought ring and there is money owed still from both sides....)

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Ok so ive known my ex for about 10 years.. we dated for a year about 4 years ago.. I messed up a bit by placing poker over her.. so she left.. completely understandable.. she ended up coming back to me after she was in a very serious relationship and left him due to a drug habit.. she called me the same day she left, and that's where this all begins.. We moved out west to Alberta from nova Scotia in March 2011.. we got back together in august 2010 just to clarify... started sharing bank accounts, bills etc.. things were going great... I went through a couple of losses in my life, grandmother died in august 2011, best friend defriended me in October 2011 as well... I was a little bit emotional over all of this and it showed sometimes... She had been talking about marriage and kids for a few months before the break up... in the middle of November 2011 I put $500 down on an engagement ring for here... November 30th we got in a verbal argument because I was upset she wasn't as sexually active with me as she once was and its something that I've asked her before not just hey you don't wanna have sex then get out type of thing.. I told her that if she didn't start making more of an effort she could leave.. the next night after receiving the silent treatment she told me she was going out with friends for the night.. but ultimetly ended up leaving me.. I was emotional and depressed... lost my job and had to move home. She stayed. I have texted her here and there expressing my love to her but she is so cold to me.. always talking about the past and tells me not to talk to her. Some says she is not over me but wants to be and others think ill have a chance when she realizes that she's out there on her own.. I'm being presented with an opportunity out west I might not be able to refuse.. should i go back and do you think I can win her back?

Here's the scoop.. I've known my ex for 10 years.. we dated for a year about 4 years ago.. I messed up a bit by placing poker over her.. so she left.. completely understandable.. she ended up coming back to me after she was in a very serious relationship and left him due to a drug habit.. she called me the same day she left, and that's where this all begins..

We moved out west to Alberta from nova Scotia in March 2011.. we got back together in august 2010 just to clarify... started sharing bank accounts, bills etc.. things were going great... I went through a couple of losses in my life, grandmother died in august 2011, best friend defriended me in October 2011 as well... I was a little bit emotional over all of this and it showed sometimes...

She had been talking about marriage and kids for a few months before the break up... in the middle of November 2011 I put $500 down on an engagement ring for here... November 30th we got in a verbal argument because I was upset she wasn't as sexually active with me as she once was.. I told her that if she didn't start making more of an effort she could leave.. the next night after receiving the silent treatment she told me she was going out with friends for the night.. but ultimetly ended up leaving me..

I was emotional and depressed... lost my job and had to move home. She stayed. I have texted her here and there expressing my love to her but she is so cold to me.. always talking about the past and tells me not to talk to her. Some says she is not over me but wants to be and others think ill have a chance when she realizes that she's out there alone now.. what do you guys think?