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I am 25 and fell in love with a 34 year old woman with two kids 9 and 3 years old. Her husband died in a car accident years ago, with whom she had the 9 year old boy. She also has the little girl 3yrs, from her recent ex. They had been living in separate rooms but she kicked him out for good a few weeks ago.

Within the course of a few weeks i finally got her over to my house for breakfast, the breakfast went great and for the first time we had body contact when she decided to warm her feet under my leg as we were talking on the couch. She also noted to me at some point that she could not come at night because her kids might wake up.

That night she decided to come by and left her kids home, but of course telling her older son she was gone. The lights were turned down and we got cozy and talked for about an hour, then i went for it and kissed her.. and lets just say, her tongue came into my mouth first. Other than my naughty hands, I did not take it any farther.

Since our kiss she has come by my apartment the past few days briefly between her nail studio appointments (she has a small but nice nail studio, shes owner and runs it by her self). We talk and have already discussed the fact that she has kids and that it will take a long time before she is or ever will be ready to "take me home". shes "just not sure" and needs time...

But, I love this woman, she make me happy inside. When we hold each other on the couch and look into each others eyes i know shes the one i want to hold at night, forever. If that means becoming a step-dad I'm still up for it because I think shes worth it.

How can I make her see that I am genuine? What can I do for her? I'm all out of ideas... it's been really hard to even get to this point, shes a real lady..=) Please HELP! Any tips!

I am 25 and fell in love with a 34 year old woman with two kids 9 and 3 years old. Her husband died in a car accident years ago, with whom she had the 9 year old boy. She also has the little girl 3yrs, from her recent ex. They had been living in separate rooms but she kicked him out for good a few weeks ago.

Within the course of a few weeks i finally got her over to my house for breakfast, the breakfast went great and for the first time we had body contact when she decided to warm her feet under my leg as we were talking on the couch. She also noted to me at some point that she could not come at night because her kids might wake up.

That night she decided to come by and left her kids home, but of course telling her older son she was gone. The lights were turned down and we got cozy and talked for about an hour, then i went for it and kissed her.. and lets just say, her tongue came into my mouth first. Other than my naughty hands, I did not take it any farther.

Since our kiss she has come by my apartment the past few days briefly between her nail studio appointments (she has a small but nice nail studio, shes owner and runs it by her self). We talk and have already discussed the fact that she has kids and that it will take a long time before she is or ever will be ready to "take me home". shes "just not sure" and needs time...

But, I love this woman, she make me happy inside. When we hold each other on the couch and look into each others eyes i know shes the one i want to hold at night, forever. If that means becoming a step-dad I'm still up for it because I think shes worth it.

How can I make her see that I am genuine? What can I do for her? I'm all out of ideas... it's been really hard to even get to this point, shes a real lady..=) Please HELP! Any tips!

Im gay and have a boyfriend, who is a virgin, he claims he is to tight for sex, we tried it one time but it ended up with him squirming away in pain holding his behind after i got halfway in.

I talked him into giving it another shot, but I want to be prepared this time, is there anything I should know about or be doing differently? I have held out on sex for 6 months now and its getting harder to do, I dont want to ruin his perception of sex forever.. any help is appreciated. ..thanks!

Well im a hardcore mw2 player on xbox and I have been wanting to buy black ops for a while. Should I buy it or should i save my money?

*Please don't post negative comments about fasting, im aware of what i'm doing, thanks for caring though!*

This is my third day water fasting, so far so good, very mild hunger pains if any, but I have one problem, heartburn!

Drinking a tall glass of water calms it down a little bit, but does anybody have a remedy for heartburn while water fasting?

Thanks in advance, any advice will be much appreciated.

Please do not comment to tell me your opinion on fasting in general, i'm aware of the reprucutions. I only need an answer for the specific question I asked... Thanks!

I know it's not good for you, I can live with that.

I know there is a certain period where nothing happens and then all of the sudden it starts working?

For example Madoff.. Why isnt he locked up right now????

I bought a Trek 7.3 fx about a week ago and love it so far, I try to do about 6 miles a day but i'm really new at biking and wonder if anyone knows any good warm ups/stretches or excercises to strenghten the leg muscles bikers use most?? thanks in advance.

I started taking these pills, as an attempt to reduce my depression anxiety organically.

Domino's Pizza, I like their pizza but there marketing Campaigns kill me.

The "555 Deal" - 3 medium pizzas for 5.55 each, no coupon required, they actually tell you about it when you call.

*So, i go to the domino's website and see that if i sign register online with domino's online I'll get a coupon, nice. What was the coupon? the 555 deal..... that's not a coupon!!!! its misleading just to get me to sign up, what the hell kind of marketing is that. -they also attach "555 deal coupons to the pizza boxes upon delivery, ridiculous.

The "30 minute pizza tracker" - Advertised both online and TV. "you've got pizza tracker!!" they say... "no longer than 30 min, use our online pizza tracker". Ok, sounds good, so I use the tracker, 40 minutes go by, ok.. so I call. They tell me yeah sorry were running late, I said ok well what do I get, my "pizza tracker" is at 40 min. "nothing, that's just a timer" was the responce.

Laugh My *** Off! frickin ridiculous, an elementary student could come up with a more wholesome marketing strategy..

anyone else agree? sorry for the rant =)

I have a crazy Ex-Roomate that is claiming I never paid him for the last month I lived at his residence, and also other faulse claims against me like property damage and such.

The problem is, I gave the rent money for that month in cash, and did not get a receipt.

The apartment complex told him that I had to go because I was not on the lease, does that fact that he was illegally sub-leasing the apartment to me play a roll? can this help me if he takes me to court for this?

any advice is greatly appreciated, thanks in advance!

I have a crazy ex-roomate that is claiming i never paid him for the last month i lived at his residence and has also made other faulse claims against me.

Just a few days ago, on may 27th, he called my job and spoke to my uncle who is my boss. He told my uncle several lies about me, he told him that I am gay, that i cut myself and that i snort pills.

I believe he still intends on taking me to court for the money i supposedly owe him. Does what he did when he made that call to my boss play in my favor at all? is there anything I should do about this?

This is all so emotionally straining and I wish it would end, I thought I was getting away from him by moving but he is still causing me the same distress.

any advice is greatly appreciated, and thanks in advance. I will choose a best answer.

hi,

I've been taking lexapro, 20mg for about a month and a week now. just recently, i dont know if it has anything to do with it, i didnt take them for two days.

The first day i didnt take it, I was a little jumpy but not enough to notice this as being a side effect.

(first day), for "sinco demayo" or whatever some of his old friends came over, we had drinks ect. and i later found out that two of his friends did coke in his bathroom, when i found out i bursted into his room, and said i know coke is going on in this house and will not tollerate it. The two that did the coke left, without saying a word. so i kind of broke up the party.

(day two) Ever since i woke up i felt so enraged,at those two for having the nerve to do that, and not even ask, at least. I was so enraged all i could talk about what "fuhking someone up" and i really was ready to do that...my roomate hates violence so he told me to stop talking about it. i did, later my anger/anxiety (in the chest) ->

Hey,

I'm a big time tea drinker and am always brewing my own custom tea creations =)

but i was wondering, sometimes at work i put a Green Tea bag in a water bottle, cold water.. maybe add a pack of splenda and just shake it up, let it sit and enjoy in a few minutes.

Do I still get the vitimans/minerals i do from my warm water brewed tea? or am i just simply enjoying the green tea taste?

Thanks in advance, i'll give a best answer when it lets me =)

ciao

I have been taking 4 sleep aid pills 4-5 days out of the week to put me to sleep. the standard dose is 2 pills, 25mg.

I have a bad case of insomnia so these pills are a great help.

If i take 2, all it does is slow me down a little but 4 does the trick.

Some people say that you could wake up feeling crappy, and that is dangerous, but ive been doing this for a few months now and have yet to see these signs, i can take 4 and sleep then wake up 6-7 hours later and jump in the shower and feel fine.

I guess my question is, (why) is it dangerous?

To make a long story short, and skip through the stories of the emotional distress he has put me through.

After i told him a friendship would not be possible and that he should not contact me again, he totaly changed as if he was bipolar.

Now he is claiming i owe him $400, wich is of course, not true. He calls me constintly, text messages me as well.

Skipping past the drama, he is basicly saying he made two withdrawls of $200 on seperate dates which he gave in cash to me. He may have made a withdrawl but no cash was given to me.

Ive never had a problem of this nature before and dont know what to think or how to deal with it. He has no witnesses to backup his story, but if he does try to persue this in court as he said he is going to, do i have something to worry about?

It is all very emotionaly draining, any information or comments are greatly appreciated.

best regards,

Mike

if not who is?

Any ideas?