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This is going to be a bit long, thanks to anyone that reads it.

I've been seeing someone for about 9 months now, he still isn't my boyfriend but he may as well be. We're exclusive and act like boyfriend and girlfriend. It's complicated, he's funny about the label of girlfriend, and won't ask me out and isn't in love with me yet. He says that when he falls in love with me that's when he thinks he'll be ready to ask me to be his girlfriend. He told me he nearly said I love you and asked me out back in August, but he never did and still hasn't. He has told me a few times that he is 'falling in love with me' over the past 5 or so months but again, no development, and now I just feel like I'm being taken for a bit of a mug. He's told all his friends he's going to ask me out a few times, and has for whatever reason changed his mind every time. He is very "busy" and doesn't really have much time for me. We see each other for a few hours a week yet we only live 10 minutes away from each other, again I feel like he just isn't that interested, but if he isn't I don't get why he is keeping me around. I know he isn't seeing anyone else and isn't interested in anyone else and he isn't using me. I just don't really know what to think anymore. None of our mutual friends understand what's going on. I think he is scared to ask me out and stops himself falling in love with me as we are both going to uni in october and I think he doesn't want to keep the relationship going, but then what's the point?

I just feel stupid and helpless. I'm in love with him and he knows I do, and I've never been fussed as I know people fall at different times, but I'm starting to question whether I'm actually waiting for anything at all and if it may just never happen?

Any opinions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.

I go to the gym 4-5 times a week for 1.5 - 2 hours, mainly running, bike as well etc

Today I got a tattoo on my leg and on my back, the tattooist told me to try lay off the gym for a week

He's a reputable artist but I really don't want to have to stay off the gym for a week and was wondering if anyone has had any experience themselves?

I realise I wouldn't be able to wear a sports bra as it would cover the one on my back or leggings, i would wear a normal bra (quite flatchested anyway haha) with an open back vest top and shorts so nothing would be touching them, does anyone know if that's ok, or will the sweat genuinly effect the tattoo?

Thanks

I have stretched ear lobes ones at 12mm one's at 7 but I haven't got a plug/tunnel for the 7

I have a 2nd job interview at waitrose tomorrow and I want to take the smaller one out just in case they judge me over it but I've never taken them out before and I'm a bit worried it'll shrink which I don't want to happen? I'm sure it wont within a few hours but was wondering if anyone knew?!

My ears have been stretched for years but only recently this size

Also before you ask why I didn't take them out for my last interview it's because I wore my hair down that time so I don't think they saw them, at the same time they probably saw the tunnel but you can never be to safe I guess!

Thanks in advance :) !

I'm 5ft 2,

I'm 132lbs, size 8

27 inch waist, 35 inch hips, bra size is 32b

Am I too heavy/large or whatever, I feel like I'm too big but maybe a lot of its down to the fact that I'm heavy, is that weight a lot for that size? HELP :(

I usually go to the gym 5-6 days a week and burn 700-800 calories each session.

I'm going to a music festival and won't be going to the gym for 5 days and I'm super paranoid I'm going to put on weight, I've only just lost it?!

I'm 5ft 2, 126lbs, so not the skinniest person in the world hhaha! So am I going to gain weight?!

I mean, are there still gentlemen. Not the stereotypical, open the doors do everything for the woman kind, I just mean, polite, well presented, mature?

I'm still young but from the way everyone speaks, they've died out, and that gives me no hope as the future

I think I'm never going to get married and adopt by the sounds of it! Haha

But really, are they out there?!

We've been together a year and a half, and I'm lost.

His parents are really controlling and I to be honest have lost all interest in anything to do with them, he never stands up for himself and just lets them dictate to him how to live his life etc. I've been to his house for dinner twice in the past year and a half and never get invited there, it used to bother be a lot but I just kinda gave up. I don't care if they like me or not, I'm not a horrible person and I'm a straight A student, I don't need their opinions of me.

He's a year younger than me and I'll be going on my gap year soon, I'll be going to different countries to do volunteer work with children and animals. I'm scared that the fact that he gets treated like a baby is just going to put me off because I'll be a lot more grown up. I'm sick of it.

I try talking to him about problems, he stands there in silence. He doesn't think about what to say and doesn't care if you ask me, although he says otherwise.

I put everything I can into our relationship to try and keep us from falling apart but he never talks to me about anything and never puts anything back.

Don't get me wrong, I love him, but when other guys pop up and they treat me so much nicer and just generally are nicer, and I'd rather talk to them and see them because he's driving me crazy with all this "I caveman I no speak to girlfriend" attitude. I'm sick to death of this, I can't even be in the same room with him for longer than 2 minutes without getting frustrated at the moment.

Has anyone experienced this? What happened? I love him, if we broke up I'd be lost but I just, I really don't know what to do anymore, help:(

27-8 Inch Waist, 36-7 Inch Hips, 22 Inches round biggest part of thigh, 14.5 calf,

5ft 2, 135-7lbs

Don't sugar coat it please

In the past 5 months I've lost about 30lbs through exercise and eating healthy, so I'm not as fat as I was, but I feel it.

So honestly, are those measurements fat? Thanks

Okay, hair is currently very light peachy/pink/ginger blonde in my fringe

I need it to be blonde tomorrow for a job interview, I'm dying it tonight

I have toner, so that's no problem

I have bleach, it's 12% 40 vol or whatever way round the % and volume are haha, it's that one

I also have ash blonde hair dye

I'm not looking for a particular shade on blonde, couldn't care less, just blonde and not pink/ginger!!

My hair is not in bad condition but I'm worried the bleach will be to strong

I'm also worried that the hair dye will not be strong enough!

Any opinions or someone that's done it? Please help, I really don't know and I only have one shot at doing it as I have sixth form before the interview I can't sort it out in the morning!

Thanks in advance!

2 weeks ago I bleached a part of my fringe to a light gingerish colour and then dyed it pink

It's now faded to a cotton candy pink with gingery bits in some places

I was wondering what colour it would go if I dyed over it with a light-medium ash blonde?

Would it go blonde or a strange peach colour haha?

Thanks :)

My ears are stretched and my right one is a lot smaller than my left one. I got a spiral for the smaller one and it keeps falling out D: It's the right size, just not entirely sure how to stop it falling out, any ideas? I don't want it to fall out in my sleep and for it to heal or something?

So I'm currently exercising, eating better etc to loose weight.

I didn't loose weight for about 6 weeks, and I weighed myself yesterday and all of a sudden I'm 10lbs lighter? So how exactly does that work!

Also, why is it if you loose a few lbs, they come back and go and come back and go? Or am I the only one that experiences this!

I'm too fat.

I lost 2 stone when I started going to the gym a couple years ago. Last year I had no time or money to go. I slowly lost another stone over the year from walking everywhere as I didn't have time for the gym. I'm still too big and I'm sick of it. I've started going back to the gym. So currently:

I'm 17, 5ft 2, 149lbs.

My waist is 30 inches and my hips are 36.

I wish that ration was better!

I have really fat legs and absolutely hate them.

I've been back at the gym for a couple weeks and have lost a couple lbs.

I want to be in good shape for summer because I've never had a summer where I'm comfortable wearing shorts and just overheat in whatever else I choose to wear!

I wont go into detail of my diet, it's fairly healthy and is balanced, I don't eat tones, on average 1500 calories per day.

I go to the gym at least 5 times a week, more if I can. When I'm there I walk on the steepest incline the treadmill will go at the fastest pace that I can keep up for as long as I can. I usually burn 700-900 calories at the gym when I go and never less.

My goal weight is probably about 8 stone (112lbs)

I'm not bothered about hips, I quite like the look of bigger hips. But I want a small waist, I'd like to have a 25 inch waist which would require me to loose 5 inches.

How long would it take me to do this? Any tips? I just want to be comfortable in my own skin :(

Usually I take my last pill on a Sunday, but apparently today is my last one, I've never missed one so it's not that, I was wondering if it's because of the new year and the week being a day different?

Btw I'm on levest, it's the same hormone balance as microgynon 30

Is it possible for a 16 year old to leave home without parental consent into a friends home, if the parents of the friends agreed and had no problem, also the 16 year old would be contributing money wise and helping around the house.

I have read on a website that 16 year olds can move out without parental consent in most cases, but they can be taken to court by the parents to be forced to return home. However it also stated that it is rare that this happens, and rare that the judge would force the return if the person didn't want too.

I'm not looking for advice. The 16 year old would be contributing chore wise, and money wise and does exceptionally well in school. The parents of the new home are fantastic parents and lovely people. I was just wondering as there is much debate over if the 16 year old could just move out or if they would need parental consent.