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I love him so much says he loves me but haven't heard from him except for 3 2am calls. I didn't answer. I think he's back doing drugs. So my question is should I return those calls at a more appropriate time or try my best to forget him like I've been trying for years on and iff

I am looking for a self help book about trying to become a more positive person. I do not want the chicken soup for the soul books. they do nothing for me...tried already. Does anyone have experience with a book that really helped them with themselves? As far as self esteem, positive thoughts and just an all around "feel good" book?

See, I have been through a lot in my lifetime-which everyone has. And I haven't had the worst life ever or anything. Recently I have had several people tell me I am a really negative person. I never thought about it before but maybe I am. Yes, I am always waiting for the other shoe to drop. I sabotage potential relationships because trust is an issue. I just reconnected with an old friend and when I brought this up she said I have been like this since high school. So any ideas would be appreciated.

A very good friend who I haven't seen in years is coming back from living abroad she told me she has heart disease but insists on doing what ever we want to do. I would like to know whatkinds of foods to have on hand here at home for when she comes...also I don't smoke or allow smoking in my house so that shouldn't be an issue. What else should I steer clear from to make this very special visit more enjoyable??

He told me he was married and his wife had left him. I believed him because he never used to be a liar. Now all his FB comment are answered by her calling him honey and everything is "we" this and "we" that like they are still living the life of a loving married couple. I don't know what to think. I know what I will do and that's just let him go I just want your opinions. thank you.

I have been talking to "Joe" now for a few days through a dating site. Just basically text messages. He knew that I had sunday off and never contacted me. I sent him a text saying what are you doing today? And nothing. He said he lives in an area where cell service is shoddy I believe him because I know where abouts he lives and its close and I have the same problem. But you do eventually get the message. Should I keep texting or figure he lost interest. I really would like to meet in person but when I asked he avoided the question. Should I just forget about him?

I have depleted all my funds I can't pay my bills now and he had some girl call me today (from his number) and said to stop bothering her man. and when I asked him why he kept bugging me she said "we love the stuff you buy us"...I am so hurt. How do I let go of this relationship that is clearly not good for me?