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I have 2 kids 6 year old and 3 month old . my elder one just started kindergarten. one of his classmates mom ,she constantly bugs me . here is the problem she joined her son in after school extra circular he goes to play guiter on mondays, karate on tue,tennis on wed,swim on thursday,speaking language and arts class on friday,singing lessons and soccer on saturdays and dance classes and spelling bee on sundays. my son goes to soccer on mon,tues karate and tennis wed i give some rest the remaining days. she talks to me as if i am the stupidest mom leaving your kid not joining in all other days in extra circular . well, come on i have a newborn at home and i don't want my son to be tired of all this stuff . she constantly bugging me to join my kid in this and that . can any one help me what i am supposed to to . is it true we need to enroll kids in different activities all 7 days a week??? what are you all doing ? are they mandatory or just crazy??? please all your suggestions are wecome

let me tell you whole story .i am married for 6 years and i have a child..my husband and i quarrels for very petty things like not mixing coffee well,not washing bathrooms cleanly,always cooking vegetarian dishes(he loves to eat chicken)i always cook vegetables and rarely cook chicken.not doing laundrry properly,not giving nice balaoaw job etcc.i fed up with him he always quarrels for these things.i will be perfect at these things but once in a while they go wrong .he shouts at me that why they are perfect sometimes and bad sometimes.he thinks that i am being neglient sometimes he shouts,shouts and torturer me by not talking to me for days,and not eating food at home and calling me names etcc .in this whole story i sometime gets depressed.and wen i start conversation with him he shouts at me as such a way i sometimes loose my cool and hit him .dear people whoever are reading this plzz tell how to get out of this situation after all that he just calls me names and say that i am an physical abuser wat to do .i am thinking to die any painless ideas?

ok now i need to attend a get to gether in a park many families are attending but i don t like to attend .the reason is no one cares or talks to me there they just say hi and move i really feel frustated with this group .wat should i do i can t avoid attending as those are my husband s friends

i am married to my husband 4 years ago we stay in london we built a house in bombay my brother in law (husband younger brother) ha sbeen working in bombay staying in our house without paying us any rent.now he is getting married still wants to stay in our house .i am worried we built that house with lots of money and he wants to stay there ? wat to do now any solutions?my husband never wants to tell his brothre to get out of the house ?

i went out in sun without sunscreen and my face ,neck,arms and legs are totally tanned .how to get rid of this i need to attend a weddind within 1 month please help any home remedies

i am trying to buy a used lexus car which has a theft in the history .it is showing that it has been under theft the same day the previous owner bought.can i buy it ? will i be in problem in future.it has been 2006 year which the report shows theft and now its 2010

i have planned to visit india in first week of october .i am planning to take my kid with me???? i am afraid of swine flu there what should i do should i cancel the tour .i am really confused please help

have you ever heard about indian marriages? i am an indian and my marriage is an arranged marriage my parents decided the groom and made me married to one most unfaithful person.he always cares his parents theres nothing wrong in it he never allows me to work because my husband fears that i always question about his income i always stay at home,unfortunately i became mom and i have a kid now i am stay at home mom he never allows me to work.he hates even if i call my mom.he is such an asshole never allows me to eat good food.i have to spent all the day at home looking after my baby gal .i can t runaway leaving my husband because my society never accepts an women who lefts her husband.now what should i do i have only one solution death

i need to lose weight so i brought a pair of dumbbells .which weigh 2 lbs.is it ok for a fe,male to work with dumbbells especially if we need to lose weight?

i am a married women i was wondering for everywork we do we get paid .if we work as chef we get paid,we baby sit we get paid but y are this stupid husbands never pay us we cook,clean house,take care of laundry everything (we all do this we care)y not they not even lend hand .so i think he should pay me for everything.he never gives me a penny nor take me to vacation thank god he is allowing me to eat the food y is this do i need a theraphy to stop thinking all this?

i am 24 female ht 5.5 wt 176 lbs trying to lose weight my diet plan is below

morning breakfast halfcup oatmeal

1/2 cuo vegetable juice

snack 1 orange fruit

afternoon lunch vegetable sub

evening 6 srawberries 1 mango

night 1 vegetable sub

now am i taking a good diet any advices wat to eat please please advice me

how to remove colour paper stick to wall with gum without effecting the ppaint

yeah its true h ewill leave me i want to lose atleast 40 pounds by march 2009 .currently i am 180 pounds my height is 5ft 5 inch .please dont tell good diet and exercise please suggest me the fasest way even if is healthy or not plz guys plzzzz

my baby boys hair is rough and fuzzy he is 14 month old i m using johnson baby shampoo right now is there any remedies to get rid of dry hair any god shampoo for babies

i used to eat eggs and chicken with soy milk and yogurt with veggies and fruits,rice and bread in my diet .now i want to stop eating eggs and chicken and stop dairy products is this ok can i get all the essential nutrients in my daily diet being a vegitarian.can any one give good research answer,because i heard that being an vegitarian diet we can t get all the nutrients is that true can any one tell what to eat

i suspect that my husband is spying on me i think he is fixing some sort of machine to hear my conversation with my mom .is there any instrument to hear the land line telephonic conversation

i had a small fight with ma husband and in that fight he pulled my shoulder and i got hurt now i m not talking about abuse he caused i am worried about my exercise is it ok to exercise with painful shoulder i can t able to move it up and down it hurts a little.is it ok to run on thread mill(i know i am a jerk) but this question is serious

i used to breast feed my baby till 10 months now my milk isn t enough to feed ma baby s hunger so my doctor suggested me some formula the problem is he never drinks that from a botlle nor sippy cup.i m so worried.how can i make him drink from a bottle or sippy cup.we ever i keep the bottle in his mouth he presses tight the nipple with his upper and lower teeth and stops the milk flow how can i get rid of this .all advices are welcome