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Hey, please don't be negative, I'm asking for advise and I cannot help feeling the way I do.....

I've been hating my body for a while, at first it was just "eww I look fat today" a few days a month. Then I started declining offers of unhealthy foods (even at partys or on the weekends) now it has got to the point where I am weighing myself everyday and I count my calories down to the point.

I also run, I'm too scared to tell my parents but my cousin has started to notice (I have lost weight (1/2 stone) in 3 weeks or so) and I eat barley any food.

I know it is unhealthy and I know I need help, but I'm just wondering what kind of help should I get?

Thanks

Hey so

I was on 4mm and I had waited 3 months to go to 5 (because I had no time) but the 5 really hurt, then my mum told me to stop being silly and pushed it all the way through.

Minor damage and after a week I've put a earing in and I'm at 3mm

How long should I wait until 4mm, it feels fine now but I don't want to stretch yet.

Then how long should I wait for 5mm?

Thanks

I waited 5 months to go from 4mm to 5mm, using my taper it hurt more than normal I thought it was normal, anyway I be taken my taper our and there was blood on it and the ear is red and swolen... What should I do? What have I done? How long until I can out an earring back in?

Thanks