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We've been engaged for six months. Before our engagement we both decided to try and pay off (or down) our individual debt, so we wouldn't enter into the marriage without the added financial stress.

He is aggravated, that I won't set a date for the wedding, and this is the reason why. I've been putting every extra dime on my debt, and he's been spending his money. He bought two EXTRA vehicles (for fun), expensive power tools (not work related), has taken vacations, and he shops like a woman. He love really expensive clothes. He is the spender of this relationship and I am the saver. Meanwhile he does not have much of a retirement, and I have invested in mine quite well.

He makes double the money than me, however he has the toys while I have the savings. It bugs me that he constantly spends and thinks nothing of it. We've had this conversation, and he says he will be better... and he is for a few weeks, and then he's off to spend some more.

Please tell me, am I wrong? I just don't want to live paycheck to paycheck. I've done it before.....

With all this going on, he still PUSHES me for a date to get married. Help!

My 2 1/2 year old has always jumped in his crib, then went to sleep. Now he jumps for hours... and I mean, hours. Sometimes in the middle of the night around 3:00 am. I always check on him, and he's fine. But lately it looks like he could be jumping in his sleep. Is that possible?

I know kids will sleep walk, but do they sleep jump? I can hardly sleep because I'm worried about it.