Bubbles!

I'm not exactly the best in picking up if someone is flirting with me, simply bc it's not something that happens to me often. But I give tours at my college, and recently I gave a tour to really cute guy, and usually I'm really awkward, but the conversation flowed really easily and we talked about everything (in between me giving info about the college) and he was so sweet. But I had an X on the back of my hand from the night before (my roommate turned 21 so we went clubbing) and he asked about it, and I told him, and he was like "Do you go there often." and I was like "sometimes, it just sort of depends on everybody's schedule, I'm actually going again in 2 weeks for another one of my friend's 21st". and he was like, hmmm i may have to take a trip there myself. Near the end of the tour, I mentioned that I got off at 2, and he said "oh, my tour was supposed to be at 2, but I got here early. So if I had had my tour at 2, you wouldn't have been my tour guide, guess I lucked out." and i just said, "No, but someone else would have given you just as good a tour as me." and he looked me in the eyes and smiled and was like "No, I got lucky", and I just smiled and looked at the ground and said thanks. at the end of tours we ask them to fill out surveys and when he finished his, on his way out he whispered to me, "I gave you all excellent on your survey, and Ill hopefully see you at (club name) (date I'm going to club)" Was he flirting or just being nice?

So one of my reallt close guy friends and i were hanging out Saturday night and he was being super flirty and touchy feely which is very unlike him. Hes not a touchy feely kind of person, and we were just talking like usual, and then like somehow we started cuddling and then he kissed me. And like he asked me if i would go on a date with him and i said yes and we kissed some more, and then he had to go. But like ive seen him twice since that night, and our convos have been really short hello, goodbye kinda things, and like i feel like hes avoiding me. Why? Note we are in college, and as sad as this sounds he was my first kiss, and idk the way things were going i figured atleast something would become of it. But what do i know? I just wanna know if you think its something i did, it maybe he just wanted to kiss once and nothing more. Ugggghh guys can be so frustrating.

My crush and I have a 93 day streak currently. And a friend of mine said something that got me thinking. When he asked me about my streak, I told him that me and this guy, were just friends. And he said that you dont have a 93 day streak with a guy you're just friends with. Is he right. does this guy like me? Becaue I've been crushing on him for a while now. He always snapchats me in the morning when he wakes up to say good morning (assuming I dont beat him to it) and sometimes he snapchats me just random parts of his day, just for the heck of it. we've been friends for a few years so its hard to tell if he's flirting or like just being friendly. sometimes he calls me toots, (which i think is funny cuz it makes him sound 80) but yeah could he like me?

I will forever have questions about guys liking me, because they are a species all their own. But this guy and I have been friends for nearly 2 yrs and he was my first friend I made when I started college. He transfered schools last year, but we still text and snapchat all the time. He's always so sweet. He has recently started saying "awwh that's cute" like he'll text me asking what I'm doing and usually it's something childish, that your average 20 yr old wouldn't be doing (playing just dance, jumping on my trampoline, buying new onesies, etc. I'm a big kid what can i say) anyway, he'll just be like "that's cute". And like he compliments me on how I look, and will tell me like I look pretty, or cute etc in my snapchats. We make plans to hang out all the time, and when I ask what he wants to do, he just says whatever I want is what he wants. And I really like him. And like he's always telling me that he likes talking to me cuz I make his day a little brighter. And whenever I forget to send him a good morning text or he wakes up before me, he'll text asking why he didn't have the joy of waking up to my usual cheery disposition. Does he like me, or is he just being really friendly. Like we've known each other for a while, so it's hard to decide whether he's just being a good friend, who enjoys my company or if he likes me.

I was talking to my guy friend recently. And he an i cuddle, and play fight, and call each other babe, we re practically a couple, but he insists we re just friends who are very comfortable. But he admits to being turned on by me, and he gets very jealous when i talk about other guys, and if im honest, i want us to be more, but hes white and im black and he made it very clear to me when we first met and i admitted to having a crush on him that he doesnt find black girls attractive. Anyway he tells me all the time how much he loves my legs and my butt, so a few days ago we were talking about something idk and i said what would he do without me, he needs me. To which he responded "no i dont need you, i want you, but i dont need you" he then spanked me and walked out the room (note: he likes to hit my butt everytime he walks by) im pretty sure he just wants me sexually, (im a virgin, and he says he wants to be the first person to ever finger me, i wont let him tho) but hes always telling me he and i are mostly likely to date in our friend group, and that itll probably happen eventually and like idk. But hes also had several opportunites in which he could have kissed me and he never took a single one. So im just feeling a little conflictef with all these lixed signals. Either he wants me or he doesnt.

Ok so were really close. Like we cuddle and stuff but lately he's been asking if he can finger me, and making way more sexual references than usual. And i told him i was buying a unicorn onesie and he was like hmmm id f*** you in a unicorn onesie. ;) but i mean im used to him jokingly saying stuff like that all the time, but like in lieu of the recent events it made me think. Ive told him for personal and religious reasons im not going to let him finger me, but like lately when we cuddle (i spend the night with him sometimes, nothing happens tho) but he usually just kinda draws patterns on my outee thigh buy recently hes startef inching closer and closer to my downstairs area and ill move his hand away anf he'll eventually creep back to it, and ill move his hand again. He also told me, when i asked why he wanted to finger me so badly, he just simply said he wants to be my first. I mean its obvious that he was to finger me. But, and youre probably gonna think im stupid for asking but i need a 2nd opinion to prove im not crazy. Does he wanna have sex with me? Not he is also always trying to get me to drink with him, cuz im more relaxed as he says.

My guy best friend and I are really close. We have established that neither of us sees the other in a sexual way. I mean we have a pact to get married if neither of us is married by 40, but still. Anyway, we cuddle alot. Like were both single, so we spend the nights together on weekends and cuddle. Never anything sexual, just cuddling. Except last weekend. We were cuddling as usual, and we had had a bit to drink (were in college btw) and like he was rubbing my upper thigh, which wasnt all that unusual, but he kept inching closer and closer to my vagina, and then the next morning he texted me and was like i could have fingered you, would you have let me? And like hes been talking about what a great couple we would be if wd dated, and how we practically are one now. And we were talking the other night and he was stroking my arm with his finger and we were facing each other on the couch and he kept getting closer and closer and i feel like he might have kissed me if my roommate hadnt walked into the room. But when someone asks why we arent dating he always days he doesnt see me that way, yet he always wants to play couple when we go shopping. I just want to know if hes caught feelings or not. I mean i wont lie im hoping he has, cuz ive always secretly sort of liked him. Thats acrually how we met. He was in my english class and i thought he was cute so we started to hang. But he said he didnt like me like that. But now i feel like im getting mixed signals.

Im 19 (I'll be 20 in July), and my crush just turned 24 in august. And I was wondering if 5 years seems like too large a gap. I mean it doesnt seem that bad for when your like in your mid 20s, but for some reason it seems like alot with me just entering my 20s. I don't forsee anything happening with us for at least a year anyway, but still 20 and 25, seems kinda big. I really like him, and I'm totally willing to overlook the age thing if he actually likes me back that is. Im just more so thinking about how my overprotective parents will react. What are your thoughts?

Ok so my best guy friend and i cuddle alot. Hes 20 (almost 21) im 19 and he and i cuddle all the time. Like when we watch movies both alone and with friends. I spend the night with him almost every weekend and sleep in his bed (nothing sexual). Anytime we go like more than a few hours without talking one of us texts "i miss you". He and i have decided that if we arent married by 40 we marry each other and we talk about our fut ur e kids all the time. A few weeks ago in walmart wd pretended to be a coupld and imaginarily picked out christmas decorations. Whenever he comes back to his apartment if im there with his roommates (also friends of mine) he'll say "honey im home". People also think we're a couple and when we say were just friends they say things like not for long. My roommates arw making a prezi on reasons why we need to be a couple. Hes white and im black and he calls me bis chocolate partner in crime and whenever i havent seen him he says he needs him some chocolate. I have always liked him, we became friends cuz we were in englisg together last fall and i thought he was cute. But i just wanna know if its possible that he might like me. Even a littlw and him just not know yet. He said he doesnt like black girls though, so....but idk what to think. All ik is i love cuddling with him and hes one of my closest college friends and i love him and out friendship to death and i wouldnt want to mess it up at all

I am 18 and i m sort of flexible. like its there because i used to dance, but i m just super tight. and its been almost 11 years since i danced. I just finished my freshman year of college and i went to yoga like 3 times a week, or at least i tried to. but i usually went at least once a week. so i m a little more flexible. but i started streching with this video online (blogilates: 9 steps to the splits) if i stretched once when i woke up, holding each pose for 30-60 seconds and then stretched again before i went to bed, do you think i could reach my goal of doing my splits by the end of the summer?

Ok so im in college and i have this friend, Danny, and im not sure if hes flirting with me. Or if im trying to see something thats not there. So like i was about to leave my dorm building for church and he was working at the front desk like he always does kn sunday mornings and he gave me a balloon, signed his name on it and said if i brought it back after church unpopped he and i would hang out. And so i did. And i texted him and he said we would hang when both our schedules were free. (we're both very busy people. Hes a nursing major. Im a computer science major). anyway Whenever he texts me he always uses smiley faces and winky faces and stuff like that. And recently like a few days ago he texted me and was like "you hungry" and i said yeah. And he said he was coming over to my dorm building to use the downstairs kitchen and cook spaghetti. so i was like cool ill come help. And so just me and him cooked spaghetti and shared a plate and what not. But heres what i found weird, im a freshman, hes a sophomore. He lives in an apartment, with a kitchen, that i know works cuz he had snap chatted me the day before a pic of him making sausage alfredo pasta. so he really had no reason to come over to my dorm. so im just curious as to whether hes just being friendly or if he wants to be more than friends. I also sit with him every friday and saturday nights when he has office shifts at the front desk of my dorm building. And we play games and watch movies together and what not.

Ok so last night, some friends and I watched mean girls in our dorm room lounge and I sat next to this guy I know, Jacob. Ive always thought he was really cute so when I sat down next to him I had all the intention in mind to cuddle with him, I just had to be sneaky about it. Which i was. (ladies you know what I'm talking about, the way you start sitting and then slowly through re-positioning yourself you can end up with you head on his lap.) anyway so I slowly worked my way to this and by about 2/3 of the way of the movie I was laying my head on his chest and he didn't object, and he had his arm resting on the back of the chair. Well when the movie finished, i walked him down stairs so he could check out, and we were talking about how he had never seen Mean Girls 2, (although its awful, I told him he definitely needed to see it) and so he asked for my number so we could make plans for later. so my question (although I think its obvious) is do you think he's interested or was it just a one night spur of the moment kind of thing, like he's in my English class so I'll see him tomorrow, but I want to know if this is something worth pursuing

Ok, so I met this guy, at my college orientation a few months ago and we've been texting a lot, and I really like him. (He has literally almost all the qualities I find attractive in a guy.)

Like First off he's cute, he's a Christian like me, he drives a motorcycle, wears a leather jacket, and plays guitar, and has a tattoo (soon to be two). But anyway this guy and I text a lot and I have a lot of reasons to think he does like me, but then I also have enough to possibly match that in why he doesn't.

Reasons he could like me:

- If he does respond to my texts/snap chats he is always very timely (like in a minute or 2)

-When we text he always says haha and lol. and uses winky faces.

- He calls me kid, like one time I texted him "good morning! get up the days a wasting.' and he responded "Haha I've been up since 6:00 kid"

-He teases me playfully a lot.

-And if we're ever texting and it gets to around 12AM and I tell him I'm going to bed he's always like "But its so early" (he's what you might call a night owl)

Reasons he doesn't like me:

-He doesn't always respond to my texts/snap chats. unless I start with a question. Like he wont respond to a simple hey how's it going most times.

-Like I said earlier, he calls me kid, not sure if it's sweet or if he really see's me as a kid, (by the way he's only like 2 months older than me.)

But my question is just, does he like me or not. I've started to text him less because I feel I'm starting to annoy him. Sorry this was so long.

So I met this guy at my college orientation and he and I have been texting and snap chatting a lot. Well recently he's been using like winky faces on some of his texts/snapchats. (I.e. we were talking about our guitars and when I asked if he was bringing his to college he said no and I asked him how would he ever survive and he responded "food, water. Like everyone else ;)" ) . and then yesterday I snap chatted him good morning. Get up. Days awastin. And he responded "I've been up since 6:45 kid".

I know its not much to go on but I was just curios as to whether its possible he could be starting to like me, because I really like him. And we talk about like everything. His tattoos, my shoe shopping addiction, what we would take on a desert island. Although he rarely texts me first (he's kinda shy) but he always responds quickly and send really happy to hear from me.

That is if u like them at all. But alot of the bw wm relationships I see in like movies the guy is into a light skinned girl. So I just wanna know for all the guys out there who like black women....do u have preferences. Also if u could tell me what it is about black women you like. (Btw im 17 so keep your answer...delicate...)

So im friends with a guy who goes to my church. And i have recently come to have feelings for him. Im 17 ( soon to be 18 in july) and hes 21 (yeh yeh I know its illegal...for now) we have a lot in common. Although we have more od a big brother lil sister relationship and he is majoring in computer science which is what I plan on going to college for as well. Ik I wont end up with him cuz hes like family. But we get along great so my question is do I stand a chance with a 21 year old?? (Btw he just turned 21 in nov.)

All my friends have either been out on dates or been in relationships and I just feel loke that awkward nun who doesn't date. And its not that j don't what to (cuz believe me I do) its just either no oned asked me, or anyone I've asked has said no. Is there something wrong with me?? I've also never had my first kiss. So I'm just that awkward chick who lives in the world of her books now. (Oh gosh am I'm gonna be the cat lady...am I'm doomed???)

So I like this guy, and last night I texted him asking him to describe me in one word. And I told him it was for a project survey I was doing (so it wouldnt completely sound like I was admitting I liked him. I started the convo by asking if I could ask him a question and he said I just did. So I asked if he could describe me in one word what would it be and he said "now that's a question I can't answer" and then stopped texting me. What was that about? Why couldnt he just tell me. I mean was it that hard to answer? If he only sees me as a friend then he should be able to answer (all my other friends answered just fine) and its not like we're strangers. Weve known each other for almost a year. So what's so hard about answering my question???

Ok so this i really like this guy who goes to my church. Lately my best friend and I have noticed that he seems to sit near us more. Like at church today he had all the options in the room to sit and he sat behind me to the right one. Then at youth group tonight he sat behind me again and anytime he does it he always sits where I'd be able to see him out of the corner of my eye. And also whenever he says or does something with his friends he always looks over at me. And when he and I were helping watch the little kids one evening he would laugh anytime I would mess around with one of the kids. And we had flirty banter and stuff. But our church has a rule against dating within the church. Even though it happens anyway. (They're worried about messy breakups and people picking sides.) But every year they take the teens to colorado for a church camp for a week so ill see him every day. I just wanna know if u think he likes me. And I feel like even if he does he won't act on it cuz of the rule. But just what's your opinion. Thanks. Btw I'm a senior (class of 2014 represent) and ill be 17 at the end of the week. And the guy I like will be 17 next wednesday.

I have $5 and I'm hoping its enough