mama_of2_2007

i was pregnant until 11/28. where i was induced. they couldn't get her heart beat to stay in the normal range so talked me into an epidural. this was my 4th kid and i had an epi with the other 3 so i went with it. the epi made my blood pressure drop so much that i was pale, couldn't sit up, my lips were blue, and i kept blacking out. every contraction i had strangled my baby cause the cord was around her neck. the anesthesiologist stood in my room and gave me a shot every 1 minute or 2 to boost my blood pressure. during this time i passed out long enough that the epi numbed my entire body, not just my lower half, and i couldn't move anything. (babies fine) but ever since i left the hospital i have gotten worse and worse. i never really bled, it hurts my back to walk, and in the middle of walking i get dizzy. a few times have blacked out while walking. the first time i blacked out while walking i fell and messed up my back more. my daughter was born 6 weeks ago, and i fell a month ago. my back is killing me daily, and pops when i stand up. if i sit straight, or lay straight, my back hurts even more, and my hips. i crave salt constantly and can't really taste anything else. i.e. cheese has no taste tome anymore. as it has been more then ample time to heal i want to know what is going on. should i ask my dr about everything or is some of this normal?

this is really weird for me but we can't for the life of us figure out wear he learned this. whether he saw it, was told it, or someone did it to him we don't know either. but when we watch movies (disney movies) and he sees a "pretty" girl he says that he has to hold his peepee. he has stated that he is supposed to hold his peepee when he sees a pretty girl cause that is what guys do. he is 4 about to turn 5. i don't know what kind of questions to ask without giving him answers.

he also states that he dreams of killing his family, and that bad guys kill us. or chase him. i am just a little worried. how much of this do i need to take to imagination?

my daughter is 6 month and she has a fever, drooling, wants to be held all the time, (i breastfeed) wants to be latched on but won't eat, and if she is not latched on she is sleeping. she was only awake for like a 3 hours total today. she has a rash on her chest and her back but that could mean that her sheets need to be washed, or that she is allergic to a food we have been giving her. any ideas? she loved popcicles so i could let her suck on an icecube in a rag. bus wanted to know should i go to the dr's or is it just teething.

she doesn't have anything that you can see and i can't feel anything but that doesn't always mean it isn't coming. right?

my daughter is 4 months old and every month we are bringing out bigger clothes. she is now wearing 12 month clothes. i wish she would slow down b/c we have to buy clothes when she hits 24 months. we received free clothes till then, but is it normal for her to be wearing such a big size already. she doesn't seem fat to me. my other 2 where always twice there age. but stopped at 12 months. they both wore 12 months for 2 years. but she is already in 12 months and i doubt she will quit growing.

My daughter is leaking greenish drainage from all four corners of her eyes. it is a constant drain, and is sticky. it seems to be gluing her eyes closed and i am constantly cleaning it off. her eye lids, top and bottom, are strawberry red and seem a little swollen. I was trying to look up drainage online and all I can get is pink eye. Could it be anything else? I planned on moving her Thursday appointment to tomorrow, but should I wait till Thursday? anything I can do to help her out?

my upper back hurts like around the shoulders, it feels like there is a 50 lb weight on my chest, i am nauseous, my legs go numb, and sometimes my stomaches cramps. it tends to start after i wake up choking, i can't roll over without sitting up and even then it hurts like hell to roll over. which is weird this is my third kid and this has never happened before this one. why am i in so much pain and why can't i breathe? i can feel the baby moving like it is already dropped so it is not on my lungs.

i haven't heard it in a very long time. but it was about 4 different girls and the hardships they went through. one got pregnant, one was beat and some other stuff. i think it was a girl singer that song like she was telling her mom about some of her friends in school but like i said it has been a while so i can't remember. but really want to hear it. if you know the title or the artist i would love it.

my car is acting up really bad. i can barely get 3 miles to work and back. the car does not accelerate or stop right. it is jerking. i could be coasting 30 and all of a sudden it jerks like i am missing a gear, but it is an automatic. when accelerating it makes the noise like it is but takes the car a sec to actually accelerate. the brakes jerk too. i will be at a stop then i move forward(car does it automatically) and then jerks back to a stop. all of this is recent and was a vary good car till this started. passed safety at the end of july so i am concerned. it is a 1195 buick skylark. tried to get a reading from autozone but they can only read 96 and newer. any ideas? anyone in st louis mo email me.

i am 6 months pregnant so limited on carrying time, have to bomb the place for roaches so need to be out of the house for at least 5 hours. he loves being outside but won't stay in the yard. the park is fine for a while but then he gets bored. what else can we do? LIMITED MONEY SO NEED FREE IDEAS