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  • What is wrong with me? Relationship Advice!?

    Only serious answers please.

    I began college in August of 2012. I met this girl during my first week of college. She comes from a dysfunctional family (mostly her father) but she is different than the rest of her family. At first, I didn't really like her that much but she liked me from day one. We began hooking up and about one week into hooking up and having fun together, she wanted to be something more than just friends. I didn't really know how to take this so I asked her to be my girlfriend the very next day.

    We began dating and I broke up with her five days later because I wasn't ready and was stressing out about a lot of things like school stuff, making friends, etc. We didn't talk for a week after that but I started missing her a lot. We talked about things and took things slow from September. We became exclusive shortly after that until the end of October. We had a mini freak out (pregnancy scare) and after she got her period, I ended things once again completely. Coincidentally, a few days later, I missed her more than ever. We talked about things and got back together again.

    Everything was more than perfect until the beginning of December. Her friends started asking her and I questions about why we aren't dating and why we are still friends but act like more than friends. It all became too much and one day we just started screaming at each other. I, yet again, ended things officially with her. As you can guess, a few days later, I really missed her and wanted her by my side. We talked about things and started the whole process over again. Now at this time, it was time to go home for five weeks for winter break. She cried when I left college but I didn't show any emotion.

    We continued talking and Skyping every night. She lives in Florida and I live in Connecticut (about 1200 miles). Long distance relationships are tough but I knew she was worth it. When I was away from her for awhile, I really began falling in love with this girl. I decided to fly down to see her in Florida for five days in January. I never visited her before and I was meeting her dad and her brother for the first time. This was the probably the hardest thing I ever had to do. I wanted to make a good impression which I did, but I was still nervous. At this point and time, I asked her to be my official girlfriend and she said yes very fast. We had a great couple five days together and when she drove me back to the airport, I began crying for the first time since I was a baby. I didn't want to leave her. I loved her more than anything. I never felt this way about a girl or anybody before. Eventually, I left but thank God, our spring semester started only a week later. When I saw her again a week later, everything seemed more than perfect.

    Everything was going perfectly. We were going out to dinner, going to concerts, going to her house for weekends, etc. I never was happier. Then in mid-March, out of nowhere, my first semester feelings came back out of the blue. I didn't want to be with her any more. Instead of ending it right there and then, we talked about it and everything went back to normal. About two weeks later, we had another pregnancy scare. We were both stressing out about it so much that it was unbearable. I didn't know what to do so I held all of my feelings in until I finally exploded. Once again, her period came and everything went back to normal for about a week.

    Then, out of the blue once again, I wanted to end it all and be single. We talked about everything and we both were going home again soon for summer that we stayed together as a couple for the time being. Since we have been home, we have broken up twice and they have both been because of me. So, if we count all of this, I have broken her heart five times. We are still broken up but this break up has been the worse out of all of them. I have screamed at her and swore at her. I told her friends to go f*** themselves. I feel so guilty about doing all of this. But in the end, after every time we break up, I ALWAYS MISS HER! I have never cried so much in my entire life. However, no matter what, she always comes back to me in the end. I don't know if this is a sign or if this is suppose to happen.

    She is my first serious girlfriend and I don't know if it is hard to say goodbye because she is my first love or if I'm just lonely. I have never been this confused in my entire life. Maybe I don't know what I have until its gone or maybe it is the fact that I don't cherish what I have. Maybe I have too high expectations or maybe I always want something more. I just don't know what is wrong with me and it is eating me up inside. I can't stand making this girl cry any longer. She is the most beautiful, amazing, nice, and outgoing girl you will ever meet. Just please help me before I go crazy. Why are my feelings so flippy-floppy? Please help me.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • What should I do about my relationship status?

    I have been going out with my girlfriend for about four months now. I really enjoy spending time with her. Lately, I have been getting these thoughts of leaving her. She is literally the perfect girl. She would bend over backwards for me. I just don't know if I am feeling the same way anymore. We have been on and off before we got into a four month relationship. I am a college kid and I don't know if it is the stress but I am not feeling the same way about her anymore. I live in Connecticut and she lives in Florida. We both attend a college in Florida. I am going home soon and will not see her for four months. I just don't know what to do because this girl would do anything for me. Every time in the past (on and off) when we left each other, I always missed her like crazy. I know summer vacation is going to be rough with or without her. I just don't know what to do at this point. We rushed our whole relationship by having sex within the first two months of meeting each other and saying I love you right away. I don't want to lose her but if I'm second guessing this, doesn't it mean that I don't love her. I don't want to be that guy who goes out and parties every night and finds a new girl every night. I want a relationship where both my girlfriend and I like each other the same amount. I feel like she likes me more than I like her. However, when she's gone, I miss her like crazy. Please help.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Integrate with respect to t?

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  • Is she pregnant from pre ***?

    So my girlfriend and I have been having sex with a condom since October 2012. This past week we decided to get rid of the condom for a couple of times. I never ejaculated inside of her and when we did have unprotected sex it was only for 30 seconds and then I put the condom on. She is suppose to get her period tomorrow and is already feeling bloated. Do you think she is pregnant or no? I just get worried because this would ruin both of our lives. Thank you very much.

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    Random Fish Kid: "I had 4 biscuits and then I ate one. Then I only had 3!"

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    2x^2 - 3x - 12

    1 AnswerMathematics1 decade ago
  • Translate each verbal expression into an algebraic expression.?

    1. Twice the value of a number plus three

    2. Three times the difference of a number and 4

    3. Seven less than one-half a number

    4. Four times the sum of a number and two

    5. The quotient of five and the square of a number

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    3 AnswersMathematics1 decade ago
  • Is being funny all the time a bad thing?

    I try to make people laugh all the time but only sometimes they laugh. I think I'm kind of immature in a way. I have a lot of girls that are my friends but I wonder if they would like me more if I was only funny half of the time and not all the time. Please help because I would like a girlfriend.

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