Hazel

Our son Sihle was born the following morning April 28, 2015. He was 3.130 kilograms and 48 centimetres long. He was put on my chest and was a perfect pink, warm, gorgeous baby boy for whom I felt overwhelming love. Despite the tragic situation we were in. As there were no obvious signs as to why Sihle was stillborn. Unfortunately, no conclusive reason was given, which is perhaps the hardest thing to deal with. The nurse suggested he may have died because his umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck when he was born. Sihle remains an unexplained stillbirth at term. When we left the hospital we had no baby; instead we took home grief, helplessness and loneliness. Normal everyday activities were and still so incredibly difficult and I am scared to go out to the local shops for fear of someone asking where my baby was. I craved information and just could not understand how such a perfect baby could die for no reason.

Explain please

From a depressed woman: I never thought it would happen to me,but one day my eyes just opened up and I could see everything what he was doing behind my back I cried and cried and I knew my tears were not falling on the rock, they were falling into the hands and heart of someone who cares about me. We went to university together, we studied medicine. I was Dr Sue and he was Dr Joe. We were love birds at school until one day when we were working at separate hospitals. He worked at Phalaborwa and I worked at Namakgale. I was staying in my house and he with his parents. One day I decided to visit him on a weekend at his home. He told me he was attending a funeral at Polokwane, so I just decided to pass by and check up on my friend who stayed on the same street as him. Her mother told me to look for her down the street at a house where there was a wedding, as I was walking, I could see that the many cars on that street were beautiful. As I approached, I started to see cars that I know to be Joe's friend's cars and some of my friends cars were also there. My heart started beating fast as I saw my man's car outside wrapped in red ribbons and balloons. As I came closer I realized that the wedding was at MY man's house. It did not bother me because I knew their garden is beautiful and everybody wanted to take photos there on their wedding days. But this was different, it was him. As I got to the gate, I saw him with another woman wearing a ring, holding hands, the woman was smiling, the man was smiling, everybody was shouting " Mosadi wo mobotse so, O ne meile kae".Indeed she was beautiful, I wanted him to see me, so I rushed and stood in front of everyone,He just looked at me, and tears started rolling my cheeks as I tried to figure out what had happened between us. He just looked down as I wept. Why didn't anybody tell me about this wedding, my friends, his neighbours, everybody, at work??? I was shocked because on Friday he slept at home, we made love we were happy until