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Hello im 21 female i met this guy ive been talking to for a while he really sweet and a gentleman doesnt pressure for sex and understanding and kind. Basically all the traits i look for in a significant other. Only dilemma is hes 18 and in HS he graduayes in May and workd at chic fil a. Meanwhile i live with a rommate and have a full time job as a ramp agent and just finished 2 years of trade scho. He think my job is cool and really likes me. Ive neber dated someone his age i kinda feel like a pedophile. Should i give him a chance and does it make ame a cougar if i do?

If I meet a man and he has a child its a deal breaker for me. Im talking about young children not teenagers. I feel like there would be drama and territorial issues with the childs mother. Also I am just not a big fan of children. I also believe there will be issues with the child accepting you as their step parent when it comes to that. And majority of the time single fathers usually still have feelings for their childs mother at least this is the issue with my age group 21-25. Theres also a dilemma with time managment and spontaneous dates and nights out. We cant just plan a trip out of town pack our bags and leave the next day, he has to plan around his child. Its a deal breaker for me. Does this make me cruel?

Im 21 Female I stay with my rommate her mom and brother. I just wanna have fun and explore, But my rommates mom said it makes me look easy no man will take me serious and i dont need a man to defy me... but i dont want a relationship. I dont want to run the risk of getting kicked out either. Then i have no where to go. My parents were strict growing up being military.. if i do get kicked out. My Parents wont take me back (as i have tried) i was dating this dude for 6-7 got pregnant and miscarried. My parents then gave me 2 options either A. Stay home with tough restrictions or B. Go to maryland, and i left went to school because our household was toxic at that point. Once i finished i went to stay with my grandma who barley wanted me there and i got caught up in dating there i actually wanted a relationship but no one wanted me i had a full time job was paying all my bills health insurance had a full room paying rent went to the gym i was working hard but had a slip up and stayed out til 5am with a dude i was seeing for 5 months on and off. My grandma got mad and wanted to ground me.i was also depressed and drinking heavily everyday in Maryland.. So then the idea of me moving to Texas aroused. Now im here its the same song and dance and ive been here since january had a couple hookups with guys i met on tinder protected of course and been on a handful of dates. How can i stop these feelings and desires? I think i need help.

Hi ive recently became a Vegeterian for health reasons and i simply love and enjoy vegeterian cuisine compared to meat filled dishes. Ive learned how to make homemade vegeterian dishes. For example...Yesterday I made;

Breakfast:Spinach,Tofu and Scrambeled Eggs w/a hint of Mozorella Cheese

Lunch:Mushrooms, Tofu, Pasta Sauce and Pasta noodles,

Dinner: Oven baked Black Bean quesidillas with Veggies and Diced Tomatoe Salsa.

I also had 1 serving of Oatmeal as a snack in between and lots of water. For some reason I constantly feel hungry. Am i doing something wrong? How do i curb this hunger sensation without over eating?

Hi im currently enrolled in Keystone Job corps PA but im originally from california im trying to do TCU in Los Angeles but i hear its rough and ghetto, theres a lot of gang activity and violence, is anyone going to LA job corps that can give me a first hand review or any alumni that can?

im 19 my boyfriend is 20, lately hes been posting porn on facebook of girls shaking their butts and walking around with no clothes on and even videos of people being caught having sex in the bathroom, he'll comment on the video and based on his comments i can tell he likes what he sees. hes also been checking out other girls in front of me and play fighting with girls too hes even hanging out with this girl who sleeps around a lot. when i asked him about it he makes up a lame excuse. Would it be stupid if i break up with him because of this? what should i do?

I'm 19 female and I'm in college. Since the 8th grade , I've always had a dream to become a Flight Attendant but I've recently discovered a new passion for the medical field. Im currently studying CNA and want to continue to futher my education, but Im stuck between becoming a Doctor or a Flight attendant. I enjoy taking care of people and caring for the ill but I also enjoy traveling the world and being in airplanes. I can become a doctor after 8-12 years of studying but I can become a Flight Attendant at 21. Being a doctor will cost a lot more financially for school but being a Flight attendant doesnt require any school(except training) I also have a boyfriend that wants to get a apartment together after I finish my current trade. Does anyone have any ideas or advice about what I should do?

im 19 female and i was diagnosed with clinical depression a lot of it came from unfortunate events that occured throught my childhood early teens and as recent as a few months ago. I have been treating my depression naturally with exercise, good dieting, writing my feelings in a journal, conseuling, playing a sport and just having fun and enjoying myself. It has helped a lot I feel better without the anti-depressants they all made me sicker and suicidal, but my doctor keeps telling me to take them but my counselour said I can treat it without medication. Does anyone with depression feel like medication is necessary or can you just treat it naturally?

Would you loose respect for a girl who slept with you on the first date, or does that make her easy? Doesnt that make you easy too since you decided to sleep with her? Do you think she should wait and whens a good time to sleep together?

im 19 female and I have a curvy body shape but i think all body shapes are unique and beautiful in their own way. Ive notice a lot the media shames skinny women I think its ignorant and shameful that the media has to make skinny women feel bad to make curvey or larger women feel better. Why does the media shame skinny body shapes?

I'm 19 years old female and people tell me I look younger and its a major insult. Do you feel compliment or insulted when people tell you , you look a lot younger?

Im 19 female and I recent got a pixie cut. I use to have long hair that went to my lower back but I didn't like it, it was too hard to maintain. For once I love my shorter hair but the guy ive been dating doesnt like it. Everyday I see him he begs me to grow it back he said he doesnt like it and I look bettet with long hair. when i told him no i like this hair cut his made a vomit sound and yelled no! then told me i need to grow it out. Its making me angry and also self concious around him. Should I dump him?

Im in college working on getting a degree in medical assistants. Im currently 19 and im also taking a class in french and madrian chinese. When I turned 21 I wanted to be a stewerdess for Hawiian Airlines. I will have all of the qualifications by then. My friends have told me I should look into a different airlines because they probably wont hire me since im black. Is this true that

asian or pacific airliners wont higher black people?

im a female and i went to my friends house, he has a golden retriver , and while i was leaving to walk out the door, his dog sniffed my butt and crotch then tried to attack me, i was really scared so i started panicing and ran it chased me to the door and even jumped at me growling so my friend had to hold the dog down and let me leave out a few minites before him. He told me that shes never done that before and he doesnt know why she did. Why did the dog do try to attack me after sniffing me? Is this a bad thing?

im 18 female I just started college and working on getting established. My mom got pregnant with me at 15 and she was married at 19. Me and her dont get along well and she is eagar for us to have a better relationship. She beleives if i moved out itll get better. Lately ive been dating a man a bit older than me (26) hes christian and looking for a long term relationship my mom keeps asking me what i think about marrying him,or moving in with him and i tell her im not ready she even conffesed and said"sometimes i want you to get married and just get out" and cried while she said it. Im not here to complain i want to understand my mom, has anyone else been through this? What can i do to fix it?

Im 18 female I recently stopped taking the depo shot so ive been having a menstrual cycle for over 1 month because of that im also have digestive problems, i have gas and bloating and theres always a urgency to have a bowel movment when i do go its a small volume of stools and it doesnt feel like everything has came out i also have severe pain around my anus, and abdominal pain. Should I take a laxative and does this sound like constipation? Is there any other home remedies to fix this problem?

im 18 female and recently stopped taking 3 months worth of the depo shot I also have anxiety disorder ever since stopping the shot ive had headaches nausea cramps spotting pelvic pressure and fatigue. Can you die from stopping depo provera or is this normal?

im 18 female and im having a panick attack my doctor perscribed me Ativan ive taken it before and its never hurt me but im scared to take it now im scared if i take it i will die? im crying and i feel dizzy i dont know what to do!

My doctor perscribed me antibiotcis for a UTI but the test came back negative and I do not have a infection. He gave them to me for comfort. They are making me sick and inducing panic attacks I took them for 1 Day can i stop taking them especially since theres no infection?

i have anxiety disorder and i heard of weed increasing anxiety is that true?