jenna

ok so my husband was married before there marriage lasted really 2 years they got divorced after 5 years have 2 kids they just could not stop fighting .. that was 7 years ago i have been with my husband for 6 years and i have helped take care of the kids i love them as my own and the oldest wants to live us we dont sugar coat anything in my house or make it any different from hers . another key factor he is a soldier he has come along way with me and become a much happier person than he was but she now is complaining of that she hates the fact that he is a soldier not for what most people would but for her self because she cant control his life over the kids .she called one night screaming and complaining that she needs more help with the kids she gets child support his mother takes them every other weekend we take them for the entire summer and christmas vacation only right now because we are 24 hrs away stationed nothing he can change now she wants understanding that she raises them and then the convo went from that to the fact she is tired of babysitting them because she never gets a brake from them . then my husband told her look you can send the kids here and we would take care of them no problem since thats what we want she does not want to do that then she told him to end his army life so he can take them every other night . he wont ets out till 2012 so she got mad about that . then now she wants to take us to court she says that any judge would say he is a dead beat dad and take his rights away so we told her the truth no judge would say that any soldier was a dead beat just because he had to move then she said that we were in contempt of court because we didnt give her 30 days notice to the move i got 2 weeks notice to the move myself then it went on and on to finally we hung up on her what does she want i offered to move closer to help her out with the kids getting back and forth from school and what ever else and that wasnt good enough either so i just dont understand what we can do to make it any better with this ???????????

ok well i have a 10 year old daughter that was doing a family tree and she had a part missing her grandfather on her dads sisde she had his name so we went in and llok him up found him and tried to contact him .. of course talked to his wife and well she wont let him even talk to her she is against her husbands past which encludes his son my daughters father needless to say first question was were we married when we had her no after that i got told o never call again .. what do i tell my daughter? and what do i tell my ex about his dad he has spent years keeping pics to send. the wife is the whole reason of this action she claims to be cristian . i jsut dont get it does she feel threatend wht is it

my brother just got out of prison and see in aug our mother passed away

so yes i am his only living family im trying to raise 4 kids on my own while my husband is serving this country which im very proud of my hubby but hes never home for any help and when he is home its not much help cause i know it wont be long before hes gone again so before i was only helping my mom who also helped me then she passed away and now my brother and at this point i dont know what to do im lost i work 12 hr days and still bearly keep a float and now i have a 5th child you mine as well say how much more can someone take before just braking ?

well lets begin my husband has been deployed since feb of 09 and my mom passed away aug 29 on my sons 7th bday . i work all the time so i dont have a chance to think about anything but lately that isnt helping so now im changing the way i look and dress to the extreme my family says which isnt much my brother both our parents are gone and so im here to raise my kids and support my brother and try not to think of what my hubby is doing . but im loosing the battle so i began to drink and well now im not sure this is normal what should i do ?

i want to know why do husbands feel the need to talk to all females flirt with them and still think that it is ok .... my husband i dont understand i work a full time job i take care of his kids and mine which make 4 and i have supported him for 4 yrs he just now decided to get a real job he joined the army which now hes never home but what is wrong with me why cant he be afectinate with me like he is with his friends as he says they are ?

well i have only been married for a month ... we have been together almost 5 years and we have had our ups and downs he just joined the army so at this point hes not home i was on face book and found out that my husband had one which he told me he didn't i go and look at his wall and realize that everyone he is talking to are females no biggy but then i started reading what he had wrote one was before he left hey im getting ready to be single and 2 our relationship was complicated .. and the fact that hes talking sex and other things i find inappropriate to talk to other woman then i realized that these girls were the same girls that he use to work with and i left him over once because i was being told he was cheating on me they would call at 2am and on i confronted him about it and he got really angry and now he wont really talk and he says for me not to worry about who he is talking to hes mad because i found out

my boyfriend was married before me and she really messed him up ....they have been divorced almost 4 yrs weve talked and he says he dont want to get married i thought the same thing but now my thoughts are diffrent and he tells me i have to ask him ....he wont ask me well i did one night and he said NO but still tells me i have to ask him .. what do i do im not sure weve been together almost 2 yrs we are gonna buy a house together and everything so i dont know what to do ????????????

i rented this house out 7 months ago what we did notice when we looked at it they said they would have it fixed ..well 7 months later and becuse they didnt fix what the problems were then there worse mold covering my basement walls because my bathroom floor is falling threw and the water has leaked the whole time ..electrical wires show what do i do ? and the bad thing is im a single mom to 2 children.