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Hi, I'm a 24 years old straight guy & two years ago this month my ex left to be a lesbian. She told me that she was bi & wants to leave me to be with women & said some hurtful stuff to me. It hurted me but some people & some family member even told me that I should support her & be happy that she's happy. I wasn't, I felt like a loser & unattractive.

I have a question that I want to ask everyone. Lets say when a guy comes out of the closet & leaves his wife to live a gay lifestyle, do you ever feel bad for her? Or is the gay community just happy that a guy came out of the closet & lives a life style like thy are that the gay community doesn't care about his wife & kids???

Thanks for answering

Hi, I'm 24 & I always thought that knowing how to cook amazing food, be independent & live on your own & be responsible would be a huge plus to women.

But I've learned that, that's every guy to a woman. To ask, what is a big plus or a must have that a guy has to have?

Hi, this has happen to me a couple times now since I've gotten older now.

Years ago the women I really liked or had feelings for wanted nothing to do with me & didn't care about me but now years later those same women now see me & are super interested & now want me to be interested in them. But I don't care about them & I like & want to be single & when I don't show any interest they give this sad face....

Has this happen to u?

Hi, I've seen men who have money or successful & handsome, who meet & find a woman they love & want to make them happy but the women reject them & go for way lesser men who are losers & jerks.

My older sister did the same. Went back to her loser boyfriend & turned down a guy who owned his own business & was successful.

Last Saturday night, I'm 23, have a stable job in the school district. A woman I thought was really cute & we both had chemistry & both enjoyed talking to each other but when I asked her out she said "I know u can make me happy." But she ignored me afterwards & went after a guy who was really junkie.

I don't know it's just to me I see women always rejecting men who want to make them happy & instead go for loser.

Okay, I'm 22 years old & there's this 20 year old girl that's been showing signs that she's interested. But her dad is the elder of my parents church & so is my dad. I know this won't workout. I am not a religious person at all. To be honest, I don't really care if there is a god or not. But she is really religious & reads the bible.

I mean we also have a lot in common in movies & stuff. Every time I'm at a gathering she always want to talk to me. And she is very attractive. But something always tells me this won't work since her dad is VERY bible base & I know I am not on his list for his daughter.

So can this work or should I just move on?...

Let's say a little girl came up to you & told you that you were the father & the DNA proved that you were. What would you do or say or feel if you had a child & never knew it until NOW???

Every time I meet a woman that is attractive, funny or as we both share chemistry. After a couple of days or after awhile I don't feel good enough for them or that I deserve them or a lot of times I feel like they can find somebody else who's better then me or that can make them happier....

So I walk out on them or stay away from them. They get frustrated, angry & they don't want to see me every again & when they do they some times spread rumors to their friends about me that aren't true or they just ignore me.

It happens all the time. I have a great carer in the school district full time. Everybody likes me (don't know why) & people tell me I'm attractive even though I never thought my self as a attractive person. When I do watch tv of couples I don't feel I can have that romantic relationship with a woman? Why do I feel this way when I meet a women that eventually never feels good enough for??? Thanks

Every time I meet a woman that is attractive, funny or as we both share chemistry. After a couple of days or after awhile I don't feel good enough for them or that I deserve them or a lot of times I feel like they can find somebody else who's better then me or that can make them happier....

So I walk out on them or stay away from them. Then they get frustrated, angry & they don't want to see me every again & when they do they some times spread rumors to there friends about me that aren't true or they just ignore me.

It happens all the time. I have a great carer in the school district full time. Everybody likes me (don't know why) & I'm a down to earth guy. Why do I feel this way when I meet a women that eventually never feels good enough for??? Thanks

Just curious, what would you say or do or feel right now if you husband or wife told you they were gay or want to be with someone of the same sex???

Okay, I'm a male 21 years old working in the school district in maintenance. I met this teacher two week (Susanna Hanna) who is of course older then me (40 years old). Every time I see her or come in her classroom she always smiles & is always happy to see me. She even waves & smiles at me. We have a lot in common & have great conversations & chemistry. She's white, blonde VERY nice & I think she's cute & funny....

So last Friday I was going to ask her out for a cup of coffee but got NERVES & walked out of the classroom instead of asking her. So before I left that day I left a note on her desk about my feelings & how I want to know more about her & how I want to take her out for some coffee.

She'll read it today but I want to know & ask a personal question to older women. Would you go out on a date or be in a romantic relationship with a younger guy who's five,ten,fifteen or even twenty years younger then you even if you both had chemistry & liked each other & even if he's stable with a job??? Thanks

PS. Do you think that was dump of me to leave the note on her desk about my feelings for her or do you think it was sweet??? Thanks

Okay, I'm a male 21 years old working in the school district in maintenance. I met this teacher two week (Susanna Hanna) who is of course older then me (40 years old). Every time I see her or come in her classroom she always smiles & is always happy to see me. She even waves & smiles at me. We have a lot in common & have great conversations & chemistry. She's white, blonde VERY nice & I think she's cute & funny....

So last Friday I was going to ask her out for a cup of coffee but got NERVES & walked out of the classroom instead of asking her. So before I left that day I left a note on her desk about my feelings & how I want to know more about her & how I want to take her out for some coffee.

She'll read it tomorrow but I want to know & ask a personal question to older women. Would you go out on a date or be in a romantic relationship with a younger guy who's five,ten,fifteen or even twenty years younger then you even if you both had chemistry & liked each other & even if he's stable with a job??? Thanks

PS. Do you think that was dump of me to leave the note on her desk about my feelings for her or do you think it was sweet??? Thanks

Alright, I'm 21 years old Caucasian male & I just started last week working for the school district working in maintenance. Yesterday I met a asian math teacher (Elaine Lee). She of course is older then me but we had a great conversations about the weekend & as we were talking I got really nerves & she was very nice & also VERY HOT!!!

So what's a great why to ask a woman out? Or what are some good questions to ask her? To be honest I've never asked a woman out before.... Thanks

What would you do or say right now if your spouse told you they aren't happy being married or in a relationship with you & threatening to leave you???

What would you do or say right now if your spouse told you they aren't happy being married or in a relationship with you & threatening to leave you???

I'm a white male in my early twenties, so I haven't had a lot of experience with the women or dating. But I'm going to be at a gathering this evening. There's this woman (Tasha) I knew since I was a kid. My mom also was liked her & wanted me someday be with her but to be honest I never found black women attractive. But now I'm starting to have feelings for her & finding her attractive.

I have a career in the school district & planing to move out next year. So how do I or how should I come up to her? What's a good conversation starter? And how to keep the conversation going??? Thanks

I'm in my twenties & I work for the school district. I found a couple of places I like but what was it like when you moved out that day & did you like it or did you get lonely???

Also what did you eat for dinner to celebrate on your first day you moved out??? Thanks

I'm in my twenties & I work for the school district. I'm planing to move out year but there's an apartment called Copper stone Village. The rent is $650 a month. So how much are utilities??? Also how much should I save to move out & any tips??? Thanks

I'm in my twenties & I work for Elk Grove school district. Anyway I'm planing to save my money & move out next year to a one room apartment called Cooper stone Village.

So what was it like when you first moved out that day? Also how much stuff did you have? Also what did you eat & how much was the rent & any tips for me??? Thanks

I'm a male in my twenties & I met the woman that was really EVERYTHING I wanted in a woman. She was skinny, petite, funny, sweet, caring & long hair dark brunette. When I told her about my feeling & how I felt about her she wanted to hangout & such. But I was laid off for 6 months & it didn't felt right until I had a career to take care of her since she was going to collage. So as she was standing there waiting to talk to her, I walked out on her depressed & feeling like a loser as she could find somebody better. To be honest, drinking was another thing I did to escape my problems....

Skip three months later now, I just started working for the school district (I kept thing about her like She was my motivator to keep trying) & I'm really happy now. I'm planing to move out next year & I slowed way down from drinking. I saw her Friday at a gathering. I was so happy to see her as I came up behind her. She looked at me & smiled & then walked away & ignored me like I did to her. Now she keeps ignoring me & gets upset if I say anything to her now :( So, what should do or say? Do women give men another chance when they're insecure & let them down??? Thanks

PS. Every time I went to an interview or take a test or even had to clean my life up. I kept thinking about her & how much I wanted to take care of her but I couldn't until I had a stable job....

When I was a kid, my family would watch Gilligan's island on TV land. As I watched the TV I grew a huge crush on Marry Anne, a dark brunette. Now I'm 21 years old & most of the women I've been interested in are all dark brunettes. Even the actresses I like are dark brunettes like Mia Krishner, & Zooey Deschanel.

So my question is, Does what we prefer in a partner is what we liked or had type of person we had a crush on when we were children??? What do you think?

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