Andrea D

Hi! My Name is Andrea ... In October of 2010 i started dating a guy named Ian well it took me a month to figure out we were dating because i had my bff ask him for me and i thought she was lieing but we were .... I have had Boyfriends before but none of them were right for me ... He was really sweet and i loved being with him Then the worst thing happened i was stupid My Friend Autumn told me that he told her that he didnt really like me that he just didnt want to hurt my feelings and that broke my heart so all through winter break i was heart broken and i couldn't ask him because he was away for his birthday He had told me he loved me and that i was his first gf and that he could never replace me then January 18th 2011 we broke up i was scared that he was really goin to dump me and kids these days arent very nice .. I guess what im trying to ask is How can i talk to him about our relationship problems because after the breakup i was a total !@#$% to him and i really regret it but i guess i really want to know did he love me or was he lieing? Thankyou !!