Chica8411

Any advice..

Is it cool to use other ppl as your rebounds in order to move on? What is the best way to deal with a broken heart? What to do? Where to go? How to stay happy, and not worry about yesterday..

Ok..

So i haven't been in a relationship in a while.. I will be 24 soon, in about a month.. Am I doomed to be a lonely woman with a bunch of pets as friends.. Or someone help, I need to date, have fun, and enjoy my twenties

I met this guy about two years ago. I like him, and I told him soon after we met, but he said he didn't know me that we should be friends. I totally got the point, but after that things were different. We have kissed.. and he hasn't said he's interested.. and he probably isn't

But should I just tell him that I don't want to be friends with him? Or should I just keep him around? huh?

Do second chances really exist.. In love, friendship or trust? or do they disappear?

I mean.. If the person wants to redeem him or her self, is it possible to get others to give them a second chance?

Okay, I've been single for quite a while.. But when people say, when you find someone, you'll know, what do they mean by this? And what's the best way to meet guys? ..

I know there are different types of kisses. A friendly kiss, a motherly/fatherly kiss.. a passionate kiss...

But do kisses mean something? Or can kisses just be given at random by random people and never mean anything?

I met this guy through a dating site, we decided to meet. He is older than I am, I'm in my early 20s and he's in his 30s. Is this a reason why he might be holding off?

I mean, we have good conversations, the attraction is there from both sides. But is he the type that doesn't want to settle? He wants to have "fun" but I don't think I'm that type of person, I deserve something more than just "fun."

Sometimes he says the right things, and other times, he's just a guy...

so the guy who I was dating, and liked stopped talking to me for about four months, and all of a sudden he wants to come back.. I mean I am not in a relationship or seeing anyone else.. but why talk to me, and want to go out with me again? huh?

Ok.. so about a month ago my guy was really into me. Plus my guy is my brothers best friend. I knew nothing would be formal because he is in the marines, and he is going to Iraq in about a week now.. But all of the sudden..

He didn't call me to tell me he was coming home before his departure.. and he invited my brother (obvious because they are friends) to a get together. But then he decides totally ignore my dumb *** while I am at my parents..

WTF!!! then he says its because he doesn't want to hurt me.. how ironic!!!! Guys are idiots sometimes!!

Ok.. I know it may be a silly question to ask...

I am 23 yrs old. I am still a virgin. I haven't been in a serious relationship with anyone. I feel like there is something wrong with me. I use to be overweight. And I thought that by loosing the weight things would change.

I've become obsessed with my physical appearance. I feel like I should just go out there and have sex.. or just fall for someone. I feel like I'm getting old, and getting nowhere in life.. meaning my love life.. and it just makes me feel like I'm bitter.. I dunno!!!! What do you people think?

Ok.. So there is this guy.. my brothers friend.

I like him, and he is a nice guy, he just told me this past christmas that he liked me, and that he would like me to wait for him. The thing is he is out in North Carolina, doing all the training for the marines, and next month he'll be deployed.

What am I suppose to do? I want to be able to support him.. but I don't know how..

Ok.. I'm a Scorpio

so I met this guy.. the first taurus guy.. I really like him, he seems like quite a charming guy.. But there's some tensions sometimes.. and either I get my way.. or he does.. it's just even though we disagree.. it seems like we like this.. like we can't get enough of each other.. Am I crazy or what???

Or should I search elsewhere?

Ok, I went out with the guy from AZ, and Iive in CA. He came to CA, and we hung out, and things got a little hot, we kiss, we were so close, but nothing did happen. If we were alone, no one to bother us.. is he just being respectful, or not at all interested in getting some? IS this a nice guy, or a guy who is not interested....????

OK... so we get into this stupid argument while texting and I do not respond, and he calls me to see if everything is "cool"... I don't understand... why would he even care?

I am totally head over heels this guy...

I am 22 he is 31, maybe the age is a big difference, but I don't care... He invited me over, and I went over, We hugged, and we were just sitting there, hugging, and he kept touching my hand, rubbing my arm.. (arm only ppl).. he didn't want to let go... and then he went in for the kiss.

I felt like he did like me... he wanted me to stay longer, but I had to go to work the next morning.. the thing is he livez in AZ and I live in CA... He has his work out there, I didn't think because of what happened we were actually an item... or seeing each other. It kept bothering me, so when he told me we were just hanging out and messing.. it bothered me, because he knows I am better then that, plus I had told him before that I like him...

Is he seriously messing with me? Or what is he thinking? This is the same guy who said likes my toes.. who is now in AZ saying he wants to see me again.. what is his deal.. he is confusing me or playing with me?

Ok.. so this guy thinks I have pretty/nice toes, but then again, he hasn't said he is into me, what is wrong with this picture? he likes my toes, but not me? funny stuff

ok.. ok.. I am going to admit to this, I am head over heels over this guy. He is older than me, 8 years older than me, which to me is not much of a big difference. Does anyone think that this might be the reason why he is holding back? I am still going to school, trying to figure out my future... and he has everything figured out pretty much. So we went out, he seems interested. We have good conversations. He sometimes says things that make me believe that I might have a chance with him. So this last time we saw each other we kissed. I felt like I was in heaven. We cuddled... then he says we are just "hanging out" what the heck? Am I suppose to be fine with this? He lives out of state, and he is older? wouldn't he know exactly what he wants??? I know I do....

I been talking to this guy since Oct 2006, we are friends, and he came from out of state to visit his family, and we went out. This last time he came he asked me to come over, so I did. He knows that I am not the type of girl to have a one night stand, and so on, so this last time we saw each other we cuddled, and he went in for the kiss, and I kissed back. I being the girl that I am thought something else would develop, and what he says is we were just messing.... and now that he left he says he wants to see me.... what is his deal???