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This guy I've been talking to says he likes me but his actions tell otherwise. He is 9 years older than me, met him online a few years ago. We lost touch for a while and we started talking again about 3 months ago. He says he likes me and that I'm the only girl but he won't even make a trip to come see me. He lives an hour and a half away. We made plans about 2 weeks ago to meet up and spend the day together and he seemed pretty sure we were going to meet. But then he flakes and says he ha made other plans. He said he felt bad but this is like the 4th time he has flake. He says he likes me but I rarely get any contact from him but when I do he doesn't chat at all. I have only talked to him on the phone twice and says he doesn't like to talk on the phone. And before I kind of pushed him away but then he comes back to me and I don't understand because he seems like he has no interest yet he comes back . I mean he is a cool guy and all but whenever I make steps he just doesn't make them and yet he says he still wants to date. WTF? Lol I don't understand guys sometimes. I think I know the answer but I need some additional Words of wisdome and I need to know a way of speaking to him about these issues because at times he seems to get offended when I advice things to him. Thanks!

This guy friend is older than me..we have known eachother for a couple years now, but it wasnt unitl recently that we really began to talk more often. we still have not met in person. About a month ago we planned to meet. He backed out because he said he was sick. Then we re scheduled, and then he backed out again and said sorry and that he still really wanted to meet me (although i just didnt see any actions that told me)..well recently we planned to meet this weekend for valentines, and i even asked him a few days ago if we were still up for the weekend and he reassured me that yes. So i mean i planned our meeting a bit...ive been excited all week until now. We were speaking on facebook and then i popped the question "Whats up for the weekend?" and he said "Im not sure" and then i said "are we still meeting up" and he then said "i dont think i can" and i then asked him "how come?" and he said "because i need to coach for a friend thats sick" and i said "oh okay thats fine" and then he said "sorry". and after that , thats were everything started to go really bad. i ended up saying " its okay..i see everything clear now" and the reason why i said that is because it feels to me like he has no desire to see me...because if he had the desire to see me, he would make a way..and he was the first one to initiate our meeting anyway, which doesnt make sense as to why he keeps backing out...but anyway he then replied "really, what ever" and so i said "why do you say that?" and he said it was because of what i said...and so i said "oh okay, i just really wish you would be honest with me" and he said " ok i have been honest with you, i dont know why you dont believe me, and its very irritating".....after that it just didnt go well...i asked him if i could call him on the phone because i felt that our messages to eachother were being conveyed wrong over chat...and he said "no not right now no"...and then he asked me "you don t call me all week, why do you want to call me now?" and i told him it was because i didnt really have the guts to call him before and that the reason why i wanted to now is because i felt i was interpreted wrong..and after that he logged off...i then realized that everything i said came out soooo wrong..so i texted him this " im sorry for saying what i had said..and i never stopped to ask what you feel..and thats very selfish of me because this is not about me but about our friendship. ill be honest with you, i was a bit upset, because i really wanted to meet you this weekend, i had plans for us to do something. none of that matters now becasue i do care about our friendship..hope to hear from you" ....and i have not heard any reply from him....

i really feel like i messed everything up..and i dont know what to do anymore..i mean i really like this man...and i opened up and was giving it a chance for once in my life and it just surprises me how quick you can ruin something but building back up is what is going to take time..how do i approach this? im soo bummed and confused..i really need some honest advice please..just anything..thanks!

i just finished watching the goosebumps marathon on cartoon network a couple hours ago...

and i absolutely love that show...

made me wonder why they still havent come out with a dvd set of all the episodes ever made...

does anyone know the reason for this? (oh and if they're going to come out with it or something i can do so they can come out with the dvd set of episodes?) lol

cause i am absolutely tired of waiting certain times and times of years to watch these episodes ya feel me? i would love to just pop it in any time and watch the episodes over and over and over again when i want...

My ex and I went out more than a year ago for a long time. After we broke up, he got into a relationship that lasted about a year or more. There was alot of drama between me and his girlfriend so i told his girl that out of respect for her i would not talk to him. and i recently found out they broke up. I have been having repeated dreams about him and i feel like i want to message him on myspace or something but i dont know what to say. just to see how he is doing. Just to start all over. we have not talked in like a year and i dont know if this is a good idea. What do you think i should do?