Nikki

Ok first off I just recently have started a new relationship with this incredibly sweet caring guy let's call him Kyle. Well Kyle is very nice and I really really like him. But the other day I ran into my ex that left me for another girl. I've forgiven him since then. Let's call him Phil. So Phil and I just start talking and laughing like nothing ever changed between us. He asked for my new number and tested me as soon as I left. At first it felt weird texting him but then after awhile I started to enjoy it. Now Kyle like I said is very sweet but he's stopped doing a lot of the things he did before like sweet messages or long talks or just regular loving things. Phil and I talk and talk and he told me he regrets the decision he made to let me go and that it was stupid of him. We Skyped each other and we're talking until 3 am. After we ended Skype he texted me and we talked for more hours. I've realized that for some reason it's easier to talk to him than to Kyle. I have strong feelings for Kyle but I feel my feelings for Phil rising to the surface again like they never left. This morning Phil texted me and asked if I ever think about him and I didnt want to lie(he can tell when I'm lying) so I said sometimes and asked why he wanted to know. He said he was just wondering if I ever stopped thinking about him. I asked him if he thinks about me and he said yes, I don't understand why but I got this strange feeling in the pit of my stomach when he said yes. I'm just so confused. When I'm with Kyle I feel like I'm on top of the world but for some reason when I saw Phil and he started talking to me it's like all the walls I built came tumbling down. I don't know what to do anymore. What would you do? Why do I feel this way? Please no sleazy stupid comments.

Just wondering. Everytime I'm with my boyfriend he has one and I just want to know how it feels and what really causes it?

We've known eachother for a few months but haven't been like really close so he asked for my number a few days ago cause he wanted me to text him but I told him either he texts me or I wouldn't text him. So he texted me like 10 minutes after getting my number while I was in class..btw we're both in college. He was being all flirty and silly and kept asking when I was getting out of class and what I was doing after. I had another class and went home and he said aww darn. Then he texted me later out of the blue and was asking what I was doing and asked me what I was doing tomorrow. I told him my plans for the next day..was he just being curious or was he going to ask me on a date? Well later we had lunch with some friends and I tried talking to him but he wasnt really responsive and he was a little playful i.e pushing and looking at me while I was studying but when more of our friends came he just shut me out. Then today he texted me out of the blue..so was I just on his mind? I don't know if he really likes me ot if he just is being a friend. Help!!

So my boyfriend has been not initiating conversations lately. He used to text me every morning and we'd text all day until we went to bed but now it's like I have to text him first if I want to hear from him at all. A few times I waited to see how long it would take him to call or text me and one day he didn't even call/text and the other times he waited til like midnight to text me and see how my day was. It just feels like I'm more in this relationship than he is and like how we used to be is better than how we are now. Also, he been seeming very distant lately. So, I texted him today and we literally have only four messages..the last one beginning his message..normally we talk all day but this time he didn't text me back sometimes he'll stop texting me for awhile but then later in the day he'll text/call but this time nothing. We haven't really been spending time with eachother b/c of work schedules so I'm afraid I'm going to lose him. I just really want to know why he's been so distant lately and what should I do?

Ok so we had been friends for about a year and a half then we started talking and developing feelings for eachother so now we're dating (have been offically legit dating for almost a month now but we were pretty much together for a few months before we made it offical). Well now I'm super busy with work and he's super busy too and it's like we talk less and don't really have much to say to eachother and we barely see eachother so I feel like our relationship is starting to crumble but he says he is fine but I don't know. I really really like him and I don't want this relationship to end so how do I keep our relationship from falling and is it even falling or am I just paranoid (I've been hurt a few times and I've finally found someone good but I'm scared he's going to turn out like the rest). It seems like our relationship was way better before we offically started dating. I'm really confuses right now..help!!!