Barbi T

My husband and I love each other very much, and have a good relationship. Our daughter is married, so we have no distractions at home. We are both healthy and active, and both have full-time jobs. The problem is, I have no desire for sex. It has nothing to do with my love and affection for my husband. I don't have ANY desire at all. Period. I know my husband does, but he is very good about not pushing me to have sex. He never asks why, and I know he doesn't cheat on me, because we are together except when he is at work. It never used to be this way. I always loved sex and the intimacy with my man, and never had any problems with reaching orgasm. I think it all started with the birth of our daughter at age 34 and just got steadily worse over the years.

I really hate to feel this way. But I can't seem to help it no matter what I do. I went thru menopause about 5 years ago, but I know that has nothing to do with my problem.

Can I fix this, and how???

My '89 computer is near death. I want a new system, but am not well-versed in this field. I do a lot of internet surfing, & I want to be able to create/copy CD's & DVD's. I also need to have a program that even an idiot can use to do so. I have Nero now, but don't understand how to use it (As you see, I'm the idiot). I also need a 3.5" floppy drive, as I have MANY of them, & it seems it would be easier to have the drive rather than do all that sorting & saving. Also, my digital camera records on them (yeah, it's old, too, but works fine). Finally, how do you transfer all your data to the new computer? UGH! Please advise....I'm hopeless (and helpless?)

Or is it just me? Or is it just younger people being insensitive to people's getting older? Or is it that younger people just have no respect any more for their elders? Or is it ALL of the above? Case in point, I've worked at my job 16 years. New, younger women were hired here, with a fraction of my experience, and treat me and other "saged" women here like the place couldn't run without them. I wonder who they thought ran things before they graced us with their "expertise"?

Your answers are my therapy...please make them good!