Ross

So about 3 months ago my dad asked of it was ok if he date my mother inlaw. I immediately said no please don't do this it is not normal and will make things super awkward. My dad is the most loving father I've honestly had zero problems wit him other than just normal parent problems growing up. Mother inlaw on the other hand is a piece of work. Time and time again she proves to my wife how she can honesty careless about her numerous things times 100. While all the time treating her other 2 daughters like they are queens or something. Anyways sorry to ramble we told them both no please don't. And they were shocked we were not ok with it. So 3 months go by wife calls mother inlaw who is out of town but her car is parked at home. She asked I saw your car did go with Aunt Marsha or something? She said oh no I went with La**+y which is my dad on a 3 day trip to a casino. Come to find out they have been on several dates. I extremely dissapointed highly pissed off and feel extremely disrespected. I asked my dad what are you doing unsaid u wouldn't do this. Told them both this is creating problems and will create more. I understand they are older and grew up when maybe this wasn't so weird but seriously this is 2014 u have to adapt to the times tho isn't normal. So they lied and his it from us the entire time after they said they promised they wouldn't go there. I never have been rude to my dad like I was over thinking it would make him realize. They can care less we don't like it.