zainab shah

I don't understand why the military has separate physical standards for males and females. All it does is keep the weak ones in and frustrate the hell out of the ones who can beat male standards. It doesn't in anyway promote equal opportunity, and it actually the does the opposite.

Before you start crying "OMG ABUSER!!!" I'm female and I'm not talking about guys going around and beating their gfs.

I am 26, a college graduate, I am successful at my job and generally get along with people and work well in teams, but I have a hard time making close friends and I can't figure out why. There's something that I feel is off-putting about me, but I just can't figure out what it is. I do have asperger's, so sometimes it seems that I don't feel emotions as strongly as others, and I just don't understand why people are as emotional as they are, but it doesn't mean I don't care. I try to be friendly to people. I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong and no one will tell me. Friends whi get close to me usually end up keeping a distance from me. I have a friend (with benefits) who wants to be my boyfriend, and I like him, but am cautious because I don't want to lose him. I feel like I'm at a roadblock because, I can't improve if I don't know what to improve.What do I do?

I started dating "Adam" 6 months ago. I have been upfront with him, but lately he has just been more and more withdrawn. We used to spend more time together and have sex (I have been upfront about my high sex drive), but lately I don't get to see him much (I know we both work and have our own lives, but I haven't spent time or had sex in a couple months. I've tried talking to him, but can't get a straightforward answer. What should I do?