GEM84

my son wont sleep in his cot and its driving me potty, ive tried everything. it takes a good hour of crying and temper tantrums for him to settle. ive tried all the night time sleeping lotions in the baths, singing, music, etc. the room is at thr right temp and he isnt hungry etc. he just hates his cot. i dont know what to try-please has anyone got any advice.

im not sure if its the fact ive gone back to work and he is extra clingy. he would rather fall sleep in my bed or in my arms or his pram/car.

any advice please x

my mother in law works at the same company as me, i have been on maternity leave and Am due to go back to work shortly but my colleagues and friends are telling me that my mother in law is slagging me off and putting me down to tell. ive spoke to my partner about it and he says to ignore her but how can i?. she must know that i will find out.

problem is she is going to be helping me with childcare for when i go back to work, but how can i let her look after my kids when she is doing this?

she does it to everyone (slags them off) but i didn't think shed do it to me, she does it to her other daughter in law, but now as she has moved in the house with her, they are best friends it seems, even though her daughter in law knows what she has been saying about her.

sorry to ramble on, im just a bit sensitive.#

any suggestion x