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We've just been dating 15 days but we've liked each other for a month and more. I just thought I'd write a handwritten letter about what I like about her and how happy she makes me and leave it under her pillow so she can read it when she wakes up in the morning. Too soon/too cheesy or would she like it? Honest opinions please!

My girlfriend and I have been dating for around 3 weeks now. The thing is we are at university and so practically live together, in the same building and so we meet a lot. It's not like a relationship where we only see each other once in three days, and go home after that. So even though it's been only 3 weeks, it sort of feels like 3 months.

We've obviously got physical and intimate as well.It progresses day by day and yesterday, we reached second base. She enjoyed it immensely and says I am great in bed but then said '**** we're moving way too fast' and then says 'that doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it', and 'I promised myself I wouldn't get carried away in the first month, but I'm obviously failing that miserably'. So there are a lot of conflicting statements which I don't really get. When she says we're taking it too fast, I say 'Okay I understand, let's take it slower next time' but then she initiates it and we end up going a step further the next time. And it's not like we have to force each other, it's very natural and passionate from both sides.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for around 3 weeks now. The thing is we are at university and so practically live together, in the same building and so we meet a lot. It's not like a relationship where we only see each other once in three days, and go home after that. So even though it's been only 3 weeks, it sort of feels like 3 months.

We've obviously got physical and intimate as well.It progresses day by day and yesterday, we reached second base. She enjoyed it immensely and says I am great in bed but then said '**** we're moving way too fast' and then says 'that doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it', and 'I promised myself I wouldn't get carried away in the first month, but I'm obviously failing that miserably'. So there are a lot of conflicting statements which I don't really get. When she says we're taking it too fast, I say 'Okay I understand, let's take it slower next time' but then she initiates it and we end up going a step further the next time. And it's not like we have to force each other, it's very natural and passionate from both sides.

Okay, so this girl broke up with her boyfriend 3 weeks ago. We've got pretty close since that, we were friends since the past 2 months, but we've been extremely close. She told me she really liked me since the past one month and we've got extremely close, we hang out a lot together, and we've made out, talked a lot, we have a lot in common and we really connect.

However, a common female friend of ours just spoke to me and told me that she thinks she(the girl I like) is on a rebound. She said that people feel very lonely once they break up and this is possibly just a rebound. i'm pretty sure it isn;t, because she's told her friends and family about me and well..it just doesn't feel like a rebound.

What do you think?

Okay, so this girl broke up with her boyfriend 3 weeks ago. We've got pretty close since that, we were friends since the past 2 months, but we've been extremely close. She told me she really liked me since the past one month and we've got extremely close, we hang out a lot together, and we've made out, talked a lot, we have a lot in common and we really connect.

However, a common female friend of ours just spoke to me and told me that she thinks she(the girl I like) is on a rebound. She said that people feel very lonely once they break up and this is possibly just a rebound. i'm pretty sure it isn;t, because she's told her friends and family about me and well..it just doesn't feel like a rebound.

What do you think?

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So tonight we went out drinking again, three of us, and she kept asking me again and again to tell me what was on her mind. I didn't because I was drunk and I want to tell her when I'm sober. However, towards the end of the night, she asks me 'Are you going to tell me that you like me or not?' So I reply 'Yes, but when I'm sober, and plus I've got something planned on how I'm going to tell you.'

I had actually got something planned but now I have to do it, tomorrow. What I've thought of is I'll tell her we're going out to dinner but will instead look up some recipes and make an entire meal for her(she knows I cannot cook to save my life), get some wine, have some good music playing and invite her to the room and then tell her.

Any other ideas? Be free to criticize

So, there's this girl at university. I've known her for about a couple of months. We started off as friends and then talked and talked and discovered we have so much in common and we connect on a completely different level. She broke up with her boyfriend two weeks ago and for the past four days, we've been like constantly talking to each other. We sit together in class, once class is over, it's almost non-stop texting, we study together at night so yeah we're really getting to know each other. And it's from her side as well, there is a bit of mild flirting and stuff as well.

The thing is, she's a psychologist. And last night, we were having a few drinks and she says 'I know you've been thinking about something lately. Why don't you just tell me what it is?" I refused because I'm pretty sure but still not 100% sure about what she wants me to tell her. She proceeded to ask me that question about ten times through the night and I said 'You know what I've been thinking, don't you?' and she replies with 'No, I don't.' Why is she acting like this and what's going on?

There's this girl I like and I think she likes me too. We are constantly texting almost the whole day and we meet and talk a lot in person as well. The problem though is, she's just broken up with her boyfriend a week ago. We have been friends for a few months and I think she's liked me all along, though I could be wrong.

Anyway, I do want to take this forward but I also understand she's just broken up and may/will need time. how do I handle this?

This has been happening for a few hours now. I can see people online with the green dot next to them. However, when I try to send them a message in a chat window, I keep getting the message , 'An unexpected error has occured, please try again.' I've tried and tried a number of times but I still keep getting that message. Also, I can't even use the inbox feature and message people, it says 'Message failed to send'. I've sent emails to Facebook describing my problem, but it's unlikely that they will reply. This has happened in the past as well but when it has, it's happened to everyone in my area. Now, it's happening only to me. Is there any way to fix this?

Thank you

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I'm the guy you can see clearly, with the checked shirt on. Not the guy with the weird moustache

Umm I'm in quite a situation with 3 girls at the moment. I'll try to explain it girl by girl so you'll can read it through and then give me some much-needed advice!

Girl 1: Girl 1 is a girl I dated for 2 years and who broke up with me a couple of years ago because she thought we were incompatible. We had a good relationship but a very messy breakup and things were bad between us for a year after, with accusations thrown about by both of us. We've recently got in touch again and she seems very friendly(she has just been dumped by her boyfriend). I don't want to ever get back with her and can't even think about dating her again but when I talk to her, I sometimes think of old times though those thoughts quickly go away. I want to tell her to stop messaging me but am afraid of hurting her feelings since she's probably turning to me as a friend since her boyfriend dumped her.

Girl 2: Girl 2 is a girl at university. It's only been 2 months at university. The problem was, when I got to university, I thought I must have a girlfriend(yeah stupid I know). I looked at this girl once and thought 'oh yeah, she seems nice' and decided to get to know her better. However, during one drunken night out, I ended up telling a bunch of people that I 'like' this girl and so now a lot of people know. However, after getting to know her better, she really isn't my type and we would be incompatible together. She's a good friend, but really can't be more than that.

Girl 3: This girl is a friend of Girl No.2 and one of the people I told about my feelings for Girl No.2. She is also a really good friend of mine and we connect very well. We have similar interests, values, she's pretty and smart. However, she was trying to help me get with Girl No.2 and also was in a relationship..till a couple of days ago. Even while she was trying to get me with her friend(after I asked her for help), she used to say things like 'I think you're going to stop liking her and probably like someone else soon' and 'You're really a hardcore romantic and such a decent guy'. We go to play tennis regularly and when she broke up, she made it a point to tell me she was breaking up with her boyfriend.

So, yeah, what do I do? :P

Umm I'm in quite a situation with 3 girls at the moment. I'll try to explain it girl by girl so you'll can read it through and then give me some much-needed advice!

Girl 1: Girl 1 is a girl I dated for 2 years and who broke up with me a couple of years ago because she thought we were incompatible. We had a good relationship but a very messy breakup and things were bad between us for a year after, with accusations thrown about by both of us. We've recently got in touch again and she seems very friendly(she has just been dumped by her boyfriend). I don't want to ever get back with her and can't even think about dating her again but when I talk to her, I sometimes think of old times though those thoughts quickly go away. I want to tell her to stop messaging me but am afraid of hurting her feelings since she's probably turning to me as a friend since her boyfriend dumped her.

Girl 2: Girl 2 is a girl at university. It's only been 2 months at university. The problem was, when I got to university, I thought I must have a girlfriend(yeah stupid I know). I looked at this girl once and thought 'oh yeah, she seems nice' and decided to get to know her better. However, during one drunken night out, I ended up telling a bunch of people that I 'like' this girl and so now a lot of people know. However, after getting to know her better, she really isn't my type and we would be incompatible together. She's a good friend, but really can't be more than that.

Girl 3: This girl is a friend of Girl No.2 and one of the people I told about my feelings for Girl No.2. She is also a really good friend of mine and we connect very well. We have similar interests, values, she's pretty and smart. However, she was trying to help me get with Girl No.2 and also was in a relationship..till a couple of days ago. Even while she was trying to get me with her friend(after I asked her for help), she used to say things like 'I think you're going to stop liking her and probably like someone else soon' and 'You're really a hardcore romantic and such a decent guy'. We go to play tennis regularly and when she broke up, she made it a point to tell me she was breaking up with her boyfriend.

So, yeah, what do I do? :P

Why do I feel the way I do about you? Why did I feel that way about you the moment I saw you for the first time during the lame ‘ice-breaker’ session during orientation? What is it that draws me towards you even after we’ve ‘known’ each other for a month and more? Maybe it’s the fact that you’re so bloody cute. Maybe it’s the fact that you have such an amazing laugh, a unique, ‘full of life’ laugh which I can identify in a heartbeat. Maybe it’s the fact that you’re so sensible, so ‘un-girly’, so sorted for want of a better word. Maybe it’s the fact that you’re smart, mature and responsible. Or maybe it’s just that head movement you make when you say something, that slight tilt forward and to the side the moment after you say something along with that crazy smile

It’s so frustrating that I can’t be myself around you. I wish I could. There’s so much I wish you could know about me. So many aspects of my personality that you haven’t seen yet, which I wish I had the chance to show you. Privacy here is a huge issue, I think we’ve probably had two conversations in this month when it’s only been you and me together(and about 2 minutes before someone else joins in). That night when I got to spend time with you was the best night of my b-school life so far. I just freeze in front of you. I want to get over that, I want to talk to you, I want to get to know you, because I’m sure there’s so much more to you as well, and I want to get to know that.

I know, I know I screwed up putting up that picture on Facebook that night. I’m not blaming anyone, we all took that decision to put it up, but it was just as a bit of fun. In hindsight though, it was such a dumb thing to do. I understand completely how you feel about it, and I don’t blame you for getting freaked out after that night which screwed up that simple but effective lunch ‘date’ we had planned . But we all make mistakes don’t we, that was just one of them, it happens, it’s over? Right?

Why haven’t I told you I like you yet even though everyone who matters and most importantly you already know? Is there anything to tell you anyway? But you don’t know me yet and I don’t know you well enough either. It would be stupid to even expect you to react without you knowing me. But I really want you to know me. I don’t know how but we need to do something about this. It’s crazy, I think about it everyday. One day, hopefully in the future, it will happen. Till then, I can only think. Damn

Yes, I like this girl at university. Yes, she lives three floors below me. But, she lives with 3 other girls whom she is ALWAYS with. We have a 'group' of around 15 people, 6 guys, 9 girls and when we go out, it's always as a group. It's hard to ever talk to her one on one. It's been a month now and the only time we get to talk one on one is through text or on facebook once we're done with class.

Before I get replies telling me to ask her out, you have no idea how hard it is here. It's just like there are always people around so it's very difficult for her to come out with me alone. Also, something very frustrating is that I can't be myself around her. I always find myself judging myself and thinking over what I should say to her and how she will react.

Anyway, through my sources, I've learnt that while she doesn't not like me, she feels that she doesn't know me well enough as yet. I want to sit her down and tell her that I like her(she definitely knows) and that I really want to get to know her better. But, again, there's virtually no chance to do that face-to-face.

Should I send her a facebook message/email to tell her that? A really nicely worded long post.

My ex and I dated for 2 years from June 2008 to June 2010. So it's been more than 2 years since we broke up. We had a pretty strong relationship, but she said she felt we were not compatible and so it ended. We had a pretty rough time after that, a lot of fights and accusations till it sort of leveled out last year. We aren't friends now, but we are civil with each other and occasionally check up on each other, like what we're doing now, what we've been upto and stuff like that. She has another boyfriend now as far as I know but I'm not sure if they're still together.

Anyway, the frustrating part is that I feel I have moved on from her but I'm still not sure. I feel like I would never want to be with her again but then again I can't seem to get over her. I have not dated since then, yes I have had a couple of flings but nothing serious. I've liked a couple of girls as well, but things didn't work out(no interest from their side) so I've just been single.

Now, I've joined B-school recently and I really like this girl. She's everything I look for in a girl and there is a fair bit of attraction between us as well. I thought I was going to ask her out but then my ex adds me on BBM today and just starts talking to me, being very friendly. We've just been talking for three hours but I'm already starting to doubt whether I actually do like this girl at B-school. It's complicated, confusing and frustrating. Please help!

My ex and I dated for 2 years from June 2008 to June 2010. So it's been more than 2 years since we broke up. We had a pretty strong relationship, but she said she felt we were not compatible and so it ended. We had a pretty rough time after that, a lot of fights and accusations till it sort of leveled out last year. We aren't friends now, but we are civil with each other and occasionally check up on each other, like what we're doing now, what we've been upto and stuff like that. She has another boyfriend now as far as I know but I'm not sure if they're still together.

Anyway, the frustrating part is that I feel I have moved on from her but I'm still not sure. I feel like I would never want to be with her again but then again I can't seem to get over her. I have not dated since then, yes I have had a couple of flings but nothing serious. I've liked a couple of girls as well, but things didn't work out(no interest from their side) so I've just been single.

Now, I've joined B-school recently and I really like this girl. She's everything I look for in a girl and there is a fair bit of attraction between us as well. I thought I was going to ask her out but then my ex adds me on BBM today and just starts talking to me, being very friendly. We've just been talking for three hours but I'm already starting to doubt whether I actually do like this girl at B-school. It's complicated, confusing and frustrating. Please help!

So I've just started university a month ago and as I've posted a number of times on this website, I have a crush on this girl. Her roommate and best friend is a good friend of the both of us, so I have told her about how I feel and she gives me a lot of advice and insight into what to do and how my crush is reacting to what I do.

However, off-late, I don't know why, but I'm thinking she probably may just like me herself. We talk a lot, not just about my crush, but about a lot of other stuff and we do have a lot in common. Infact, I end up talking more to her than my crush. She also says some weird things to me, like 'I don't know why, but I get the feeling that within a month, you're going to start liking someone else, I can just sense it. We also play tennis pretty often because we're the only 2 people in class(atleast as far as I know) who play tennis.

BUT, she does have a boyfriend. It's long-distance, because she's in another country now. Again, I'm confused about their equation. On one hand, she says stuff like how much she is missing him but then she turns around and says it's not working out, all the long-distance stuff.

What's the deal here?

I really like this girl at university. She, and a lot of our common friends know as well. The thing is, we have only known each other for three weeks and have not had much one-on-one interaction since we all live together and so it's normally interaction in a group, even when we go out together.

Anyway, I decided that I was going to tell her how I felt yesterday and told that to her roommate who is a good friend of mine. Her roommate then went and told her that I'm probably going to tell her I like her today.

Anyway, I met her roommate in the night to talk about this. She said that her reply to that had been 'I don't not like him, but I can't reciprocate at this point because I don't know him well enough'.

So what should I do? Try to get to know her better? How?

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God it's killing me. I just can't talk to her. I can talk to everyone else. When she comes in front of me, I just can't talk to her. I freeze and think of what I should say. And it's getting progressively worse