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I will be graduating in two months from my B.A course. Currently I'm enrolled in a one year course to specialise in a subject I love- hopefully I'll get high grades and graduate next year (which I'll surely attend).

So all in all I have 2 graduations and thinking of skipping the B.A one. (Mum's ok with whatever I choose). The question is should I?

I started my part-time 2 years ago and my ex helped get me the job. We broke up almost a year ago now, but we were on and off speaking terms till 3 months ago. I now have a new girlfriend and she is not fond of the idea of my ex still working with me, even though we barely look at each other. We are also in different sections! My new girlfriend would prefer if I changed location as there are other places where I live, however I get along very well with my colleagues and my bosses and enjoy it, so I'm reluctant to leave.

So it comes down to this; should I stay knowing that my gf wouldn't be really ok with it or should I leave, even though ex is the only bad thing there?

I started my part-time 2 years ago and my ex helped get me the job. We broke up almost a year ago now, but we were on and off speaking terms till 3 months ago. I now have a new girlfriend and she is not fond of the idea of my ex still working with me, even though we barely look at each other. We are also in different sections! My new girlfriend would prefer if I changed location as there are other places where I live, however I get along very well with my colleagues and my bosses and enjoy it, so I'm reluctant to leave.

So it comes down to this; should I stay knowing that my gf wouldn't be really ok with it or should I leave, even though ex is the only bad thing there?

The past few months I have been feeling super lonely. I do have a good amount of friends, but they all happen to be in a relationship, straight and work different shifts. I'm a lesbian and I find it so difficult to meet a girl I like. (I live in a very small country so it's difficult meeting people even though they're out). When I'm out, I'm confident, I have had flings and a very brief yet intense relationship with a committed person. I have always seen myself as positive, but when I look around and see people together, not only as a couple, I just become very wistful.

I am working out and usually am quite cheerful, but the lack of contact with my friends and the fact that I cannot find a girlfriend are bringing me down!

I've been single for 4 months now. Lately I met this girl through a friend of mine. She has a nice personality but I don't think I'm that into her. Problem is I still flirt with her and we're supposed to be meeting next week. I have this thing where I flirt with anyone I find interesting or attractive and don't really stop myself or actually realise. She told me she's into me, should I just try getting to know her better or just tell her I'm unsure about myself?

I am 20 years old and lesbian. I've been out for 3 years. So far I have had some flings and a sort of relationship. I live in a rather small area and I am getting a little frustrated of not finding a girl I like. I personally am into femmes, and those I like are either in relationships or the single ones are butch, who aren't my type. I am surrounded by straight friends and it gets difficult seeing them get and leave a guy one after the other. What should I do? Am I taking this too seriously? P.s- I m quite confident and not bad looking.

I am here waiting for a friend of mine. I make it a point to always be on time and if there's one thing I really dislike are late people! They always blame their hair/make up/traffic or siblings.

Lately the fact that most lesbians know everyone has really started to bug me. If say a foreign gay girl comes to my country (which is very culturally diverse) and I get to meet her, 2 weeks after I learn that she knows almost all my gay contacts on facebook. I do like the community but this incestuous kind of group is getting to me. Is it the same for you and how can i avoid it? Can you still meet a considerable amount of lesbians who are not IN the gay crowd? (I am always around straight people which I do like)

In all earnest, I have yet to meet a lesbian who doesn't like dogs or cats in my way. I personally am allergic to them but even so I was brought up to treat dogs and cats just as animals not as family, my cats and dog live outdoors and we have shelters/kennels for them. It doesn't mean I didn't cry when my kitten died. They never come inside. I would never hurt them mind you. I prefer horses and dolphins. Are there lesbians who see animals like I do? Just as pets that is and not family?

I'm 20 and a gay girl. At times I find myself getting lonely as all my straight friends and even my lesbian friends are all in relationships. I hang out more with the 'straight' crowd as I feel very comfortable. I have been out for 3 years now and though I have had flings I have never had a relationship and at times I get slightly frustrated.

Thing is I'm looking for something real. I am looking for an intelligent girl who goes to university like me or has some sort of degree and someone earthed and moving towards a goal. I know the uni part may sound snobbish, but I consider myself a good student and looking for someone of the same level. The girls I have met so far aren't interested in education and have a job with seemingly little ambition, and many players. The girls who I liked on the other hand, are already in relationships. I am starting to just stop looking for love.

Well basically, my ex told me some days ago that her current boyfriend and herself are polyamorous. What I couldn't accept is when they asked me if I could have a threesome with them. I told them no as I found it very disrespectful towards me!! We don't talk anymore which is good for me. I cannot help think about her situation..do you guys accept polyamory? What do you think of it? Should I accept her decision? (I m very liberal but this seems to cross my line)

Well basically, my ex told me some days ago that her current boyfriend and herself are polyamorous. What I couldn't accept is when they asked me if I could have a threesome with them. I told them no as I found it very disrespectful towards me!! We don't talk anymore which is good for me. I cannot help think about her situation..do you guys accept polyamory? What do you think of it? Should I accept her decision? (I m very liberal but this seems to cross my line)

I found myself in a very peculiar situation. I am a 21 year old girl. Well story in short, I was seeing this girl behind her boyfriend's back (for around 2 months however we were interested and flirty with each other for almost a year) and 2 months ago I asked her to choose between him or me and she chose him. I moved on having no remaining feelings whatsoever (as i had doubted us from the very start) and continued being polite to her (i meet her daily as we run in the same circles, common work and friends) but brisk.

2 days ago she started texting me and was very suggestive and yesterday her boyfriend (she told him about us) asked me if he could be a voyeur. I turned it down because I am not ready to be their toy. If I do it, I do for me, to experiment.

What would you do? I know the situation is crazy but should I do it, or should I just stop contact all together and never talk to them again?

I found myself in a very peculiar situation. I am a 21 year old girl. Well story in short, I was seeing this girl behind her boyfriend's back (for around 2 months however we were interested and flirty with each other for almost a year) and 2 months ago I asked her to choose between him or me and she chose him. I moved on having no remaining feelings whatsoever (as i had doubted us from the very start) and continued being polite to her (i meet her daily as we run in the same circles, common work and friends) but brisk.

2 days ago she started texting me and was very suggestive and yesterday her boyfriend (she told him about us) asked me if he could be a voyeur. I turned it down because I am not ready to be their toy. If I do it, I do for me, to experiment.

What would you do? I know the situation is crazy but should I do it, or should I just stop contact all together and never talk to them again?

Well im 19 and well I ve never had a bf or a gf. Mind you first I am a gay girl and realised this 2 years ago. I am very sociable and outgoing and I have kissed many guys and females. Thing is I am petrified of losing people. People I care deeply for especially my mum who is my everything. I have 3 very close friends who know most of me. I want to feel needed, special in someone s life. All my friends have had relationships or are in ones, and this makes me feel extremely left out!

I have no idea what to do. I mean i have had many chances to have sex but I just don't want that. I want something meaningful.

Anyhow..no rude comments pls! And thanks for the advice! :)

Well im 19 and well I ve never had a bf or a gf. Mind you first I am a gay girl and realised this 2 years ago. I am very sociable and outgoing and I have kissed many guys and females. Thing is I am petrified of losing people. People I care deeply for especially my mum who is my everything. I have 3 very close friends who know most of me. I want to feel needed, special in someone s life. All my friends have had relationships or are in ones, and this makes me feel extremely left out!

I have no idea what to do. I mean i have had many chances to have sex but I just don't want that. I want something meaningful.

Anyhow..no rude comments pls! And thanks for the advice! :)

I met this person late last year and we hv clicked immediately. We flirt a lot even though she has a bf nd most often it is her that starts it! Some days ago i confronted her to see what was happening as lately we hv become really affectionate and physical (nothing bad)!

What is confusing me is that she admitted that she s attracted to me (she s supposedly straight but has questioned her sexuality a lot). Her bf s really nice nd she tella me she s happy with him, however she still flirts with me a lot!! What should i do pls? (i like her too yet i never initatiate any flirting)

There s this girl I met almost a month ago and we ve been texting each other almost everyday! I find myself attracted to this girl, however I ve never met Anyone as touchy as her! I can hardly say or ask nothing that she goes all defensive And accusing! We have a great deal of differences, it's like we re complete opposites! Her behaviour is driving me nuts, also she never opens up, I know she's been hurt in the past nd such but still.. What should I do? Should I go on talking to her or should I tell her? We re arguing on the most basic things almost every day aargh, yet shes so beautiful!

I believe that every section should be reserved for that specific section!

No rude comments pls

Currently there is a lot of talk of me being gay! My country is not the most open minded one unfortunately! I'm starting to get looks, whispers nd that and it d really bothering me! I dnt know what to do! It's true that I'm a gay girl but I don't want this to rule my life! Pls help