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I sent this woman I've been talking to flowers to work for valentines. She responded with 3 different texts:

1. OMG!!!! They are sooooo beautiful!!!!!!!

2. Thank you sooooo very muchhhhh!!!!!!

3. 😘😘😘😘😘

And then later said this: You don't know how much I appreciate it! I can't begin to tell you 😊 Is it safe to say she is into me? That this is more than just a "we are friends" response?

I had been seeing a woman going through a divorce. Her husband is a control freak and has been putting her through hell. She started getting distant. Her best friend is married to my best friend and talked to her last week, at which point she told her friend she wasn't interested in a relationship, and said she was going to text me, but she never did. I texted her on Sunday saying I heard she was going to tell me something. She lit into me, saying not everything is about me and I need to be there as a friend right now BC she is overstressed. But she never said anything about never wanting a relationshiplike her friend said and I wondered why not. Then wed., that same friend told me more. She said that she enjoyed my company but never wanted a relationship, and that she thinks this girl was talking to someone else or getting back with her husband. That pissed me off. So I msgd her and said I was done. She got upset wanting to know why and eventually I told her. That's when she told me she has literally been lying to everyone. That she is making her husband think she's getting back with him. Their court date is in two weeks. He's been threatening to go after custody of their daughter and she is leading him on,making him think they might get back together, to get the custody she wants. So now I know the truth about why she told her friend what she did, know what she's up to & understand why. She apologized for not telling me. I feel like complete **** for reacting the way I did

I have a movie date later today. Its our third date. She is an extremely independent woman, and I was considering offering to buy the tickets while she buys the popcorn. IMO, the guy should always buy, but she takes pride in being able to pay. Should I offer this, or should I just pay unless she offers?

Being in love with a woman that is going through a divorce?

We were introduced by mutual friends and started out just as friends. The divorce was going on before we even met. Then we developed feelings for each other and we have gone out a couple times. We have not had sex and we aren't going to go any further with the relationship until the divorce is final. But I'm watching what the divorce is doing to her and it is tearing me apart. Her husband puts her down daily. Calls her every name in the book. And he did such a great job of separating her from her friends when they were together she's still afraid to use them for support, even though I've tried telling her to. Add to that it is very tough having to hold my feelings back and this is hard as hell. But she's special in my eyes and I don't mind waiting. Just hoping someone that's been through this and had it work out can give some advice....

The woman im dating is going through A LOT of stress right now, on top of being a single mother of two. We talked everyday but all of a sudden she ignored my texts for a few days. I took her lack of response a little personally when I shouldnt have given her situation, and she said this:

That's exactly what I'm talking about. Don't pout. I'm not asking you to go away. I'm saying I can't handle any insecurities at the moment. If you want to be in my life you can but you have to be there without any expectations at the moment.

I apologized for pressuring her, said I didn't mean to and she said she knew that. So I decided to back off for a few days. She was supposed to have surgery this week so today, against my better judgment I texted her to say hi and wished her luck for her surgery on her toe. I love this girl and wanted her to know i still care. She responded and was actually pretty personable and chatty with me but I cut it off cuz in trying to give her space. Told her I didn't want her to think I forgot about her. She responded by saying " thanks for thinking about me ;)". Does it sound like she was glad to hear from me, maybe even felt a little bad about our last discussion? I'm trying to give her space while she sorts things out, so how long should I wait before I contact her again? I was also thinking about sending her some fudge to make her feel better after the surgery. She LOVES fudge. Would this be ok, or too much pressure?

Ok so the girl im dating is going through A LOT of stress right now. We talked everyday but all of a sudden she ignored my texts for a few days. I took her lack of response a little personally when I shouldnt have given her situation, and she said this:

That's exactly what I'm talking about. Don't pout. I'm not asking you to go away. I'm saying I can't handle any insecurities at the moment. If you want to be in my life you can but you have to be there without any expectations at the moment.

I apologized for pressuring her, said I didn't mean to and she said she knew that. So I decided to back off for a few days. She was supposed to have surgery this week so today, against my better judgment I texted her to say hi and wished her luck for her surgery on her toe. I love this girl and wanted her to know i still care. She responded and was actually pretty personable and chatty with me but I cut it off cuz in trying to give her space. Told her I didn't want her to think I forgot about her. She responded by saying " thanks for thinking about me ;)". Does it sound like she was glad to hear from me, maybe even felt a little bad about our last discussion? I'm trying to give her space while she sorts things out, so how long should I wait before I contact her again? I was also thinking about sending her some fudge to make her feel better after the surgery. She LOVES fudge. Would this be ok, or too much pressure?

Ok so the girl im dating is going through A LOT of stress right now. We talked everyday but all of a sudden she ignored my texts for a few days. I took her lack of response a little personally when I shouldnt have given her situation, and she said this:

That's exactly what I'm talking about. Don't pout. I'm not asking you to go away. I'm saying I can't handle any insecurities at the moment. If you want to be in my life you can but you have to be there without any expectations at the moment.

I apologized for pressuring her, said I didn't mean to and she said she knew that. So I decided to back off for a few days. She was supposed to have surgery this week so today, against my better judgment I texted her to say hi and wished her luck for her surgery on her toe. I love this girl and wanted her to know i still care. She responded and was actually pretty personable and chatty with me but I cut it off cuz in trying to give her space. Told her I didn't want her to think I forgot about her. She responded by saying " thanks for thinking about me ;)". Does it sound like she was glad to hear from me, maybe even felt a little bad about our last discussion?

Ok so the girl im dating is going through A LOT of stress right now. We talk everyday but allnof a sudden she ignored my texts for a few days. I took it a little personally when I shouldnt have given her situation, and she said this:

That's exactly what I'm talking about. Don't pout. I'm not asking you to go away. I'm saying I can't handle any insecurities at the moment. If you want to be in my life you can but you have to be there without any expectations at the moment.

I apologized for pressuring her, said I didn't mean to and she said she knew that. So I decided to back off for a few days. She was supposed to have surgery this week so today, against my better judgment I texted her to say hi and wished her luck for her surgery on her toe. I love this girl and wanted her to know i still care. She responded and was actually pretty personable and chatty with me but I cut it off cuz in trying to give her space. Told her I didn't want her to think I forgot about her. She responded by saying " thank you for thinking about me ;)". Does it sound like she was glad to hear from me, maybe even felt a little bad about our last discussion?

I'm dating a single mother with two kids going through a bad divorce, and lots of other stress which I won't get into. The other day I talked to her about what was going with her when she I hadnt heard from her in a few days(we usually talk every day. )I even asked her if it was me, if she wanted me to go away. This was her response:

That's exactly what I'm talking about. Don't pout. I'm not asking you to go away. I'm saying I can't handle any insecurities at the moment. If you want to be in my life you can but you have to be there without any expectations at the moment.

So what is she saying here? That she just can't handle a relationship at the moment(understandable), or doesn't want to be with me period or ever? Does it sound like we could pick it back up when she gets things sorted out? I'm more than willing to wait, as long it is still a possibility down the road. Should I just completely back off now til she contacts me?

I've never believed in playing games. Been a bit of a nice guy. But, that hasn't seemed to work I need to change it up. I always hear "let her come to you." When you're dealing with a woman you've already gone on a few dates with, where should the line be drawn in terms playing hard to get versus a guy just flat out ignoring you and being a jerk? That line between keeping you interested or you thinking he doesn't care?

I've never believed in playing games. Been a bit of a nice guy. But, that hasn't seemed to work I need to change it up. I always hear "let her come to you." When you're dealing with a woman you've already gone on a few dates with, where should the line be drawn in terms playing hard to get versus a guy just flat out ignoring you and being a jerk? That line between keeping you interested or you thinking he doesn't care?

I've never believed in playing games. Been a bit of a nice guy. But, that hasn't seemed to work I need to change it up. I always hear "let her come to you." When you're dealing with a woman you've already gone on a few dates with, where should the line be drawn in terms playing hard to get versus a guy just flat out ignoring you and being a jerk?

I asked this question once and got good feedback, but I'd like a few extra opinions: I've been dating a woman who is going through a contentious divorce, and has a lot of other things going on I can't get into. Out of nowhere she stopped responding to me. After a few days I finally got her to answer me and tell me what's wrong and she said she was stressed, tired, fed up with everything(not with me). I asked her if she wanted me to go away and she said she just couldn't handle any pressure from anyone. And I said I'd back off and leaver her alone. This was her response: That's exactly what I'm talking about. Don't pout. I'm not asking you to go away. I'm saying I can't handle any insecurities at the moment. If you want to be in my life you can but you have to be there without any expectations at the moment. To me this means just put everything on hold until after the divorce, she can't handle a relationship right now. Tell me what you think

I asked this question once and got good feedback, but I'd like a few extra opinions: I've been dating a woman who is going through a contentious divorce, and has a lot of other things going on I can't get into. Out of nowhere she stopped responding to me. After a few days I finally got her to answer me and tell me what's wrong and she said she was stressed, tired, fed up with everything(not with me). I asked her if she wanted me to go away and she said she just couldn't handle any pressure from anyone. And I said I'd back off and leaver her alone. This was her response: That's exactly what I'm talking about. Don't pout. I'm not asking you to go away. I'm saying I can't handle any insecurities at the moment. If you want to be in my life you can but you have to be there without any expectations at the moment. To me this means just put everything on hold until after the divorce, she can't handle a relationship right now. Tell me what you think

I've been dating a woman who is going through a contentious divorce, and has a lot of other things going on I can't get into. Out of nowhere she stopped responding to me. After a few days I finally got her to answer me and tell me what's wrong and she said she was stressed, tired, fed up with everything(not with me). I asked her if she wanted me to go away and she said she just couldn't handle any pressure from anyone. And I said I'd back off and leaver her alone. This was her response:

That's exactly what I'm talking about. Don't pout. I'm not asking you to go away. I'm saying I can't handle any insecurities at the moment. If you want to be in my life you can but you have to be there without any expectations at the moment.

To me this means just put everything on hold, she can't handle a relationship right now. Tell me if you agree

I'm dating a single mom going through a contentious divorce(this started before we even met). We talk every day and then a couple days went by and she wouldn't respond to my texts. Til Saturday she finally responded apologizing for being distant and said she is overly stressed right now. I told her I'd be there to listen if she wants to talk. I'm sure it has to do with her husband. He constantly puts her down and threatens her. I'm just wondering if I should just completely back off while she is this stressed and just let her text me when she is ready...