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  • He sent me flowers four years after a break up on Valentine's?

    On Valentine's Day this year I received flowers from an ex-boyfriend. I wasn't expecting it, they came to my house, a beautiful dozen roses with a card intact. I read the card and it said that he missed me and he still loved me and that he was sorry & regretted everything he'd done to me in the past. I have spoken to him prior to Valentine's Day. We talked on and off, problem is our relationship ended rather sour.

    We were both 17 at the time and he broke up with me for another girl at the time. Shortly after he left me, it may have been two weeks he messaged me saying he'd made a big mistake and wanted me to take him back. At the time I listened to my parents who said if he was able to leave me that easily then he didn't deserve another chance. I told him that I wouldn't take him back and he became a bit over bearing, he kept sending me text messages and emails saying he wasn't going to stop until I took him back. At the time my mother contacted the police because I wanted to take him back but she wouldn't allow me too and she didn't want us to be able to communicate. At the time he told the officers that I was just as responsible for contacting him as he was to me. They said for us to stop talking to one another for the time being.

    Today is four years later. And I still love him and we are talking to one another again. I know he made those mistakes when he was younger, he is twenty years old now and he's had girlfriends after me all in which he would call them my name and they've gotten frustrated and broken it off with him. I myself had relationships which failed because I was told a piece of myself was missing and I needed to find it before I was going to be able to make anybody else happy. Also we never had sex, it was both of our first relationships, and that's why he left me at the time. I wasn't ready to have sex.

    He sent me this message:

    "You may not think I'm in love and want to have a future with you. But I do. I have always loved you, missed you, and always cared about you. I want you to have the same real feelings I have around you, and yes I have a lot of apologies."

    Would you take somebody back after four years, knowing you were unable to move on because you're feelings for them were too much to ignore, or would you keep that one mistake against them?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • He doesn't know what he wants?

    When I liked him he didn't want anything serious.

    Whenever I like someone else, he comes back into the picture and tries to make me confused.

    A month ago he told me he didn't emotionally have the means to be in a relationship with me. I took it well because I had met someone else and he seemed like everything that I wanted. He was sweet and he just was always happy and because I was always getting together with these miserable people he was just the person that i needed to get to know.

    Now as a late birthday present this other guy (he\s also a close friend, and he always will be) took it upon himself to make plans for my birthday paid for everything and let me know today the date.

    I am so mad about it. I have a date with the guy I've been seeing but now I feel guilty saying I can't go because he paid for everything in advance and I know he did it this way so I couldn't say no because he knows I'm the type of person who will feel bad about it and will go.

    I don't like him like that anymore......and he's being annoying.

    I don't even know if he likes me or he is just trying to mess things up?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • How do you feel if a woman gives you her number?

    If a woman gave you her number, without you asking?

    I went to get an oil change and was inquiring about some car accessories when I happened to get help from this guy. He had a beautiful smile and he proceeded to flirt with me while I was talking to him about the parts I wanted to order in and he even joked about keeping my car and trading someone else's keys for mine so I would have to go back. I eventually told him I would come back at a later date to purchase a part I wasn't sure about.

    I ended up going back to buy the part about an hour later and this time i scribbled my number down on a sheet of paper and held it in my hand, by chance I ended up getting served by him again and he ordered in the car part for me when he handed me the bill i said thank you and then said "this is for you" and handed him the small piece of paper. Needless to say he texted me the same night saying hello.

    I asked him how he felt about me giving him the number and he said " I was actually dumb founded that you gave it to me. I actually liked it, I liked the boldness in you. I had a bigger than usual smile on my face that lasted the rest of the night. Messaging you was the first thing I wanted to do."

    He already asked me to a movie, this was the first time I gave someone my number like that. He seems happy, but I'm just wondering if it made me look bad giving him my number. He just seemed like a happy person who is so upbeat.

    store was busy. I didn't want to ask him out and exchange numbers that might have gotten him in trouble, It seemed easier to just give him the number.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Guys, would you find it weird if a woman did this?

    If a woman gave you her number, without you asking?

    I went to get an oil change and was inquiring about some car accessories when I happened to get help from this guy. He had a beautiful smile and he proceeded to flirt with me while I was talking to him about the parts I wanted to order in and he even joked about keeping my car and trading someone else's keys for mine so I would have to go back. I eventually told him I would come back at a later date to purchase a part I wasn't sure about.

    I ended up going back to buy the part about an hour later and this time i scribbled my number down on a sheet of paper and held it in my hand, by chance I ended up getting served by him again and he ordered in the car part for me when he handed me the bill i said thank you and then said "this is for you" and handed him the small piece of paper. Needless to say he texted me the same night saying hello.

    I asked him how he felt about me giving him the number and he said " I was actually dumb founded that you gave it to me. I actually liked it, I liked the boldness in you. I had a bigger than usual smile on my face that lasted the rest of the night. Messaging you was the first thing I wanted to do."

    He already asked me to a movie, this was the first time I gave someone my number like that. He seems happy, but I'm just wondering if it made me look bad giving him my number. He just seemed like a happy person who is so upbeat.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • He seems like one in a million?

    Good Evening,

    I have had terrible dating experiences, not to mention horrible relationships. All in which seriously made me loose faith in the male community, A couple of nights ago however I happened to run into someone that I went to elementary school/high school with. Mind you he's changed a lot I will be the first to admit he was the geeky kid who was chubby and i never paid much attention to him. We never talked but he's in University now and I happened to find out he's trying to get into motivational speaking, and he's really good at it too. We actually started following each other on Instagram and then I asked if he had attended the same elementary school as i did and he said he had, and then gave me his number and we've been talking ever since.

    I'll be the first to admit he's not really my type of guy, but obviously going for the bad boy is stupid and it's clearly time I grow out of that phase because it's only been damaging to me. He's kind a geeky in the way he thinks about school but he's got rid of the braces and grew up I'll be the first to admit the face is the same he just lost weight and he's really attractive now.

    Yet, his personality is what got me. We started off talking just trying to get back into what had happened in those years and then conversation just flew we hadn't realized how quickly the time had pasted. He's a huge sweetheart and he is 4 hours away from me at school but I wouldn't mind taking the train up to go see him every weekend. He's even said that he wants to kiss me and that he's not going to lie but he's thought about it and he also says I'm unique and an old soul.

    He came out of no where, but he's like the perfect man for me....

    Do you think he had an interest in me during school ?

    I'm two years older than he is.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • After horrible dating experiences, there is him?

    Good Evening,

    I have had terrible dating experiences, not to mention horrible relationships. All in which seriously made me loose faith in the male community, A couple of nights ago however I happened to run into someone that I went to elementary school/high school with. Mind you he's changed a lot I will be the first to admit he was the geeky kid who was chubby and i never paid much attention to him. We never talked but he's in University now and I happened to find out he's trying to get into motivational speaking, and he's really good at it too. We actually started following each other on Instagram and then I asked if he had attended the same elementary school as i did and he said he had, and then gave me his number and we've been talking ever since.

    I'll be the first to admit he's not really my type of guy, but obviously going for the bad boy is stupid and it's clearly time I grow out of that phase because it's only been damaging to me. He's kind a geeky in the way he thinks about school but he's got rid of the braces and grew up I'll be the first to admit the face is the same he just lost weight and he's really attractive now.

    Yet, his personality is what got me. We started off talking just trying to get back into what had happened in those years and then conversation just flew we hadn't realized how quickly the time had pasted. He's a huge sweetheart and he is 4 hours away from me at school but I wouldn't mind taking the train up to go see him every weekend. He's even said that he wants to kiss me and that he's not going to lie but he's thought about it and he also says I'm unique and an old soul.

    He came out of no where, but he's like the perfect man for me....

    Do you think he had an interest in me during school ?

    I'm two years older than he is.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Am I making the wrong decision?

    I met a guy a little over two months ago. We started getting to know each other and slowly he started showing more interest in making us a couple. At first I was okay with the idea but as I got to know him better I realize I didn't want to be in this relationship. I found out he smokes weed, I know from past experiences that once you do smoke weed and you tell the girl I can change that they don't they will continue to do it behind your back because it's a habit. Secondly, he wanted me to tell the whole world a few weeks into knowing him we were together and he didn't want me talking to my guy friends, that was something I didn't like either. Overall he quit his job in the short time we were getting to know each other, not to mention sold his car (he live 45 minutes almost an hour away from me) and then told me why I couldn't come up every other day to see him and would get mad if I couldn't or if I asked him why he couldn't take the train down? Also I have a sister with special needs and he always refers to her as your sister the sick one, why you always babysitting her. He doesn't understand it, and it bugs me!

    In between all this drama I reconnected with someone I went to elementary school with. Mind you I'm 20 years old now, and it was a fluke. He was promoting for his motivational speaking campaign and I happened to stumble across his page because it got tagged in my anti bullying movement. We got to talking and then we exchanged phone numbers to talk about the possibility of joining together to make a big campaign (as we both want to make a difference in our community) but as we started talking we realized we had a lot in common. More than we were willing to ignore. So the conversation drifted and we started talking about family and school, what we wanted in life and not to mention our dating life.

    Long story short I really started liking him and his way of life. His motivation in life, not mention his over all personality was amazing to see. We understood each other's point of view and he was VERY understanding of my sister who has a special need. He didn't shy away from her, he actually asked about how to communicate with her, and asked other things he needed to know if he ever met her. He asked me out on a date and said he would love to catch a movie and a coffee when he comes home for Christmas from University, and I agreed to it. He also said his mother would love my character, because we are very much alike. The problem is this guy and I hit it off naturally, no faking it nothing ever felt forced. We can talk for hours and then we only realize it when it's time to go to bed.

    Am I making the bad choice of leaving this first guy behind?

    Thanks

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Your opinion on soul mates?

    I was wondering what you're opinion is on soul mates?

    I feel that I met my soul mate 3 years ago. We had a love/hate relationship for the most part. But just as much as we could not stand each other, we also couldn't be without each other. We tried dating but it failed because I became impatient with his inability to commit at the time so we drifted for about two months, slowly we started speaking once again and tried to be together once more. This time financial issues drove us apart and we stepped back. We still talk on and off, but we both haven't been with anybody since we met each other, today I messaged him as I usually do and asked him how he was doing, throughout the conversation we were talking about how we both feel emotionally distraught in life, and he mentioned this.

    "Do you know what is frustrating? Having a good girl who likes you but not being able to emotionally reciprocate those feelings right now and being lonely all the time."

    We decided that we wanted to keep seeing each other, some what friends with benefits type of deal. The thing is he says he doesn't want to hurt me, because we are very close and he couldn't live with himself. He was abused as a child and I was in an emotionally and physically abusive relationship before I met him. After everything we have always been there for one another.

    In my heart we both know we can't forget one another....

    What's you're idea?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Arguments with my mother over my choices?

    I am 19 years old.

    My mother is my best friend & I tell her everything.

    I am a CSR for a bank, have my own SUV on my name, I have a college degree under my belt and if I wanted to I could have a house of my own (but I choose to stay with my parents, because I don't see why I would move out at 19 just because I can afford it.) I pay for everything and I'm not living pay cheque to pay cheque I have the ability to spend on myself if I really want too. I've never smoked, or drank to the point where I have been drunk. I don't go clubbing it's just something that doesn't appeal to me.

    Ok

    My mother says that I've accomplished way to much in my life to settle into dating just a "normal" guy. We have been arguing left and right about my choice in a guy who is just a friend right now, but we have been hanging out and the idea is there that we might want to get to know each other on a different level. She says that I've accomplished too much in my life to be with someone who I'm going to support and that I am way too pretty for him. He has a past involving the law, he's been in jail when he was 18 years old. He hasn't been in trouble in five years. And he is 25 years old, he has a job and he is hard working he does smoke however and sometimes he will smoke weed here or there. He's finally going back to school and trying to make things better for himself. My mother said I can do better for myself, but I don't know if she actually has a point, or if she's just being an over protective mother.

    In all honesty, I do want to date someone who's accomplished things as I have (older than me) I don't date people my age, but most of those guys are douche bags.

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Would you react the same as my boyfriend?

    Good Morning,

    I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have known each other for about four years and we had always been on and off between those years, we bounced back and forth between trying to make it into a relationship and then we would just settle back into being best friends. He was never one to tell me what to do, or how to do things, which is why I really liked him to start because he is amazing at giving advice but he never criticized what I was asking about he would just give his opinion and tell me it was up to me in the end.

    Now, recently I ran into a bit of trouble. I got into a car accident and it ended up being an at fault accident because their wasn't any witnesses. A van ran a red light and t-boned me. But because no body was there to back up the story, and he had a passenger in his car it went me being at fault making a left hand turn. Regardless, my insurance covered the repair cost for my car but it was already five years old, it was a hand me down from my parents and I just took over the loan payment, because it was financed. The problem is since the accident my car has never been the same, sometimes it has trouble getting started, not to mention the wheel baring shake now and it is very scary to drive. The problem is we have REALLY bad winters where I live and I am thinking that how am I going to drive this car in the winter when it barley wants to move forward while it is raining?

    I had a conversation with my parents, I saw a very nice SUV crossover and thought it would be perfect. Its a little over my price range, with my insurance going up but my mom told me she would be willing to help me out if one month I was short or whatever. I agreed, and this is what I told him everything I am telling you.

    He told me it was a bad choice to do this, that "Last time I checked insurance fixed your car, did they not? So why do you need a new one?"

    Mind you my bf doesnt have a car, and yesterday he was trying to tell me how to do my job so I can move up in my company but we both work in the same line of work and I'm already higher than he is in my company and I started after him....

    Why is he so concerned with how much debit I'm going to put myself in? It's a car payment

    8 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • What do you think of my novel opening page?

    Prologue I had no intentions of ever coming back. The only thing on my mind was the pavement underneath my feet, leading my to everything I was told was normal. I was finished playing a game I would never win, it was clear the past two weeks had been a good opportunity for me to realize my life was normal—boring—but at least it was normal. The air was cold, and my teeth were beginning to chatter from the cool October air. A year ago I would have been pumpkin picking with Samantha. This year, I was busy running from a past I never knew I had. My heart pitched; I would by no means ever see Samantha again. “Crap.” I muttered, wiping the tear that escaped my eye. Everything was unerringly how it was never supposed to be, but how could I complain? I was still breathing, my heart was still beating and I was still able to whine about stupid things. Samantha couldn’t breathe, her heart wasn’t beating and the only thing she would be getting for Halloween would be a few flowers on her grave. Shaking my head, I mentally tried to grab my bearings. There was no point in making myself sick while trying to run away. Everything around me was dead, nobody seemed to be outside, although it was just a few after eight PM—it seemed as if everybody decided to stay indoors. The sun was just about to set as I passed the old cemetery. My house wasn’t too far from here, at least from what I can remember—just as I was rounding the corner I stopped dead in my tracks. On the floor was the symbol. That damned symbol, the one I saw right before the accident. I rubbed the tip of my boot over the marking, nothing it was etched into the pavement. Meaning it had been there forever, or for as long as I could remember—I just never noticed it. This wasn’t funny anymore, my heart lurching out of my chest I began to sprint down the sidewalk, and that’s when I saw it, him, he was standing in the middle of the side walk. “I told you I didn’t want to see you anymore.” I called out, wrapping my arms around my

    2 AnswersBooks & Authors8 years ago
  • What do you think of my story?

    Prologue

    I had no intentions of ever coming back. The only thing on my mind was the pavement underneath my feet, leading my to everything I was told was normal. I was finished playing a game I would never win, it was clear the past two weeks had been a good opportunity for me to realize my life was normal—boring—but at least it was normal. The air was cold, and my teeth were beginning to chatter from the cool October air. A year ago I would have been pumpkin picking with Samantha. This year, I was busy running from a past I never knew I had.

    My heart pitched; I would by no means ever see Samantha again.

    “Crap.” I muttered, wiping the tear that escaped my eye. Everything was unerringly how it was never supposed to be, but how could I complain? I was still breathing, my heart was still beating and I was still able to whine about stupid things. Samantha couldn’t breathe, her heart wasn’t beating and the only thing she would be getting for Halloween would be a few flowers on her grave.

    Shaking my head, I mentally tried to grab my bearings. There was no point in making myself sick while trying to run away. Everything around me was dead, nobody seemed to be outside, although it was just a few after eight PM—it seemed as if everybody decided to stay indoors. The sun was just about to set as I passed the old cemetery. My house wasn’t too far from here, at least from what I can remember—just as I was rounding the corner I stopped dead in my tracks.

    On the floor was the symbol. That damned symbol, the one I saw right before the accident. I rubbed the tip of my boot over the marking, nothing it was etched into the pavement. Meaning it had been there forever, or for as long as I could remember—I just never noticed it. This wasn’t funny anymore, my heart lurching out of my chest I began to sprint down the sidewalk, and that’s when I saw it, him, he was standing in the middle of the side walk.

    “I told you I didn’t want to see you anymore.” I called out, wrapping my arms around myself.

    He shrugged, walking towards me. “Why do you always run? Running, it seems normal to you, no? Has it gotten you anywhere?”

    “What would you know about running? You’ve been following the same rules you’re whole freaking life. Don’t you dare start with me! You have no right to sit there and tell me anything. Yeah, I run. I’m running, but it’s better than putting on a game face and fighting something I know nothing about. You’re an idiot if you think I’m anything like you....”

    There he stood, leather jacket hanging loosely on his shoulders. His hair tied back into a pony tail. He looked like something out of Grease, but he was standing in front of me, blocking my only way out to freedom. My blood boiling I began walking towards him, as I reached his side he looked at me. Towering over me at least a foot his grim face turned up into a smile. His hand snaked out, finding my waist, his lips at my ear, making me shiver he whispered to me.

    “You can run from your destiny. I never said that you couldn’t. Just remember, it’s always going to be right on your heels. You can never run far enough, trust me I’ve tried.” He whispered. I glared at him, crossing my arms.

    He chuckled. “I’ve spent the last 3 years of my life running from this day. I could avoid it, because I wasn’t going to be myself when I came face to face with you. Yet, somehow...you ended up coming face to face with me. You can’t run from your destiny.”

    “Destiny is pretty messed up.” I growled.

    “Yeah it has to be, otherwise I wouldn’t be in love with you.”

    Then he kissed me.

    1 AnswerBooks & Authors8 years ago
  • What do you think about my story idea?

    It's about a group of people who each have been given a special talent. Each has the ability to be a witch but they have a human parent, which limits their abilities. They all are out casted by humans and feel that they don't fit in, but when they come together on the road they find out about a place (a society) for witches and they set on the road to find that place. They realize after they get there that they are no longer welcome at this place either, because they don't like hybrids, they feel as if they are unnatural and they are once again trying to find a place where they fit in. But when someone casts a spell that goes terribly wrong they find out only the circle of kids can reverse the spell, and they take them in, problem is they weren't growing up learning how to use their powers, they have to learn how to do it before the time wears out.

    This was a rush, and very brief explanation. I didn't want to put too much information so someone didn't steal my idea.

    2 AnswersBooks & Authors8 years ago
  • Names for Characters?

    Hi,

    I have decided to put together a novel idea. I've had the idea for this novel since I was about 17 years old but I was never sure how to put it together. I finally have the patience to put everything together. It's about a group of people who each have been given a special talent. Each has the ability to be a witch but they have a human parent, which limits their abilities. They all are outcasted by humans and feel that they don't fit in, but when they come together on the road they find out about a place (a society) for witches and they set on the road to find that place. They realize after they get there that they are no longer welcome at this place either, because they don't like hybrids, they feel as if they are unnatural and they are once again trying to find a place where they fit in. But when someone casts a spell that goes terribly wrong they find out only the circle of kids can reverse the spell, and they take them in, problem is they weren't growing up learning how to use their powers, they have to learn how to do it before the time wears out.

    I was looking for character names, I was just wondering what would be some names, you would want the characters to be named, if you were reading the book.

    Also please don't judge it based on that rush explanation.

    3 AnswersBooks & Authors8 years ago
  • Why are my friends being negative, making me feel insecure in this situation?

    Hi there,

    I just have a question, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now, but we've always been friends about 3 years now. The problem is that there was this one girl who was always adamant on making her presents obvious in the relationship, which none the less was very annoying to be honest. Regardless, I know my boyfriend cares about me, because of the history and things we fought against to be together. But a mutual friend, who also happens to be her cousin told me that she had a better chance with him and said they would make a better couple because she was closer in age to him and wasn't as independent and I am, not to mention I look like a dumb blonde and she's a sexy confident brunette. She is from a rich family and her parents buy her everything, she's got a part time job as a receptionist and is around 22 years old, if I'm not wrong. I am 20 and wasn't born into a rich family I am manager at a retail wear house and have my own company. I don't drive the nicest car or anything but I take pride on what I've accomplished. I don't like feeling insecure but somehow I do. She's a very smart girl she did my college program with me accelerated in Addictions Studies. Is her goal to make me feel insecure so she can make her move? My friends say that when it comes to looks we are at par with each other and I agree she's not ugly. But one of my friends today said they would make a better couple. I just want an outside opinion.....

    Thanks

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    11 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Do you think he wants to marry me?

    What makes you decide or chose between a girl you want to have a short term relationship with, or a girl you want to have a long term relationship with (that would eventually lead to marriage?) My bf and I have known each other for two years. We were those close friends who relied on one another for support but it wasn't until we both tried seeing other people that we realized that it wasn't those people we wanted but each other. I was engaged a year and half ago and I had a falling out with my bf (was a friend at the time) and we hadn't spoken but he picked up the phone and messaged me basically telling me to break off the engagement and that the guy I was with wasn't good for me. He isn't the type of person to beg and he kind of did, which lead to me thinking. Eventually I found out that my ex was cheating and using me for money, and 6 months later my bf and I talked and we realized fate was always pushing us together.

    He says to me all the time that he doesn't want to make fake promises so he's not going to promise me the stars, but he says over the last couple of years I was the only person there for him and we have to be together. He's also brought up having a child together as a joke but I could tell he was serious about it, and I can see myself marrying him.

    Also he's got lots of girls who want him and he tends to be very sarcastic toward them and doesn't blink and eye lash, also he's very jealous of men talking or even looking at me.

    What's your opinion on this situation? What would make you choose long term/marriage over short?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Difference between long and short term relationships?

    What makes you decide or chose between a girl you want to have a short term relationship with, or a girl you want to have a long term relationship with (that would eventually lead to marriage?) My bf and I have known each other for two years. We were those close friends who relied on one another for support but it wasn't until we both tried seeing other people that we realized that it wasn't those people we wanted but each other. I was engaged a year and half ago and I had a falling out with my bf (was a friend at the time) and we hadn't spoken but he picked up the phone and messaged me basically telling me to break off the engagement and that the guy I was with wasn't good for me. He isn't the type of person to beg and he kind of did, which lead to me thinking. Eventually I found out that my ex was cheating and using me for money, and 6 months later my bf and I talked and we realized fate was always pushing us together.

    He says to me all the time that he doesn't want to make fake promises so he's not going to promise me the stars, but he says over the last couple of years I was the only person there for him and we have to be together. He's also brought up having a child together as a joke but I could tell he was serious about it, and I can see myself marrying him.

    Also he's got lots of girls who want him and he tends to be very sarcastic toward them and doesn't blink and eye lash, also he's very jealous of men talking or even looking at me.

    What's your opinion on this situation? What would make you choose long term/marriage over short?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Has your partners attitude made you question the relationship?

    Yahoo,

    I was just wondering something. Have you ever been very disappointed or upset with your significant other that you questioned wanting to be with them? In regards to their attitude, like they criticized you on something that they had no right too?

    For example, my bf and I are 8 years apart. He is 28 and I am 20. I have my own car, am manager at a retail processing company and currently just picked up a part time retail job just for extra cash. I still live at home because I'm saving up for a nice apartment. My boyfriend went on saying my job was crappy and that it was a dead end....where does he expect me to go? It's a 9-5, and pays the bills. It's not a forever job? It's a for now, to get me started.

    My bf on the other hand has three jobs, none of them he's a manager or a position that is more than a regular employee. He recently started as a teller at a bank and I think that got to his head a little, he lives at home and doesn't have a car and to be honest I have no idea what he does with his money. If you have no debit. how can you not afford anything?

    I think he's just being a hypocrite.....I care about him and I know he may be frustrated that I have more than he does....but that doesn't mean he can take his frustrations out on me. It made me question if I even wanted to be with him for the long haul, disregarding my feelings.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Why is he being a jerk?

    Hey Yahoo

    So last night my sister got put into the hospital for an infection. I have been seeing my best friend as a boyfriend for about three months now, and we were supposed to go out for coffee last night because I needed the support, my baby sister is like my daughter and I was very stressed out. So when I messaged him to see if we were going to go out for the coffee he replied this:

    Him: I don’t want to be an ***. But I haven’t really been sleeping well lately I really just want to go to sleep can we go tomorrow when I’m done work.

    Me: Don’t worry about it

    Him: Tommorrow is ok

    Me: I will let u know

    Him: Please tomorrow i do want too, i just haven’t gotten any sleep because im over exhausted

    Me: i will let u know tomorrow

    Him: ok:(

    So today I decided we could go out for the coffee, when we met up I could see he was tired from working three jobs, so whatever. We talked about my sister and about his job but then he came across as a jerk.....but I knew he was sarcastic when I got involved but the problem is he was being so rude today with certain things he had said. I know he was having a bad day so I didn’t make much of it because he’s always been sarcastic, but he had a nickname for me when we were friends he would call me “Kiddo” and he never had done it lately. So while we are having coffee we were talking and he asked about my job and stuff and he said.

    “I used to make two grand a month at my old job when I was full time. But what happens when I want a family? I can’t support a family on that....”

    Then he goes on about how he wishes one job would be enough instead of three that he has. Then he gave me a hug and when I dropped him off at home he gave me a hug and said “Be safe Kiddo, and keep your head up.”

    And I said “Kiddo? Really?”

    He replied. “Yeah kiddo, munchkin”.

    He didn’t kiss me good bye......either....like what the hell?

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Will he not accept this gift?

    I went to Niagara Falls this past weekend. I was there with my family and I happened to go into a souvenir shop and I saw a shirt that reminded me of the guy I have been seeing. It reminded me of him, and I texted him and asked If I bought you a shirt, what would you do, kick my butt.

    He replied with Probably

    I said, too bad i am getting it anyways

    and he said Id rather you not :(

    I got it anyways, I want to get it for him....would he not accept it

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago