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I got matched with a girl on Tinder who I sort of knew through my friends. We decided to have casual sex and for a while it was fine. After about a month she told me she had strong feelings for me, which was a problem because I told her I wasn't looking for a relationship. We kept seeing each other and we still are now, but I'm wondering if I should maybe try to go for something serious with her.

The problem is that I never felt romantic feelings towards her like I usually do with girls I see or crush on. And probably the biggest thing getting in the way is that I'm not at all attracted to her. I've really tried not to be shallow about this, but I think it's a problem whether I am or not, I don't look at her and think "I don't want to be seen with her", it's just that the attraction isn't there.

The truth is I really like hanging out with her and she's a really nice and fun person who I feel really comfortable around. She likes nerdy things like I do, I enjoy spending days watching Netflix and Youtube with her, she's done wonders for my self esteem. I never thought I'd be lucky enough to meet someone who wants to watch me play video games but she does and she swears she isn't just saying so to impress me.

Basically there are a lot of great things about her that I'd kill to have in a relationship, but I just don't feel romantically interested. Is it worth trying and risking breaking her heart by getting into a relationship when I don't know if it's what I really want?

About 3 months ago i got matched with a girl on Tinder who I sort of knew through my friends. We decided to meet up and keep seeing each other for casual sex and for a while it was fine. After about a month she told me she had strong feelings for me, which was a problem because I told her I wasn't looking for a relationship. We kept seeing each other and we still are now, but I'm wondering if I should maybe try to go for something serious with her.

The problem is that I never felt romantic feelings towards her like I usually do with girls I see or crush on. And probably the biggest thing getting in the way is that I'm not at all attracted to her. I am in a sexual way but not anything to do with the face. I've really tried not to be shallow about this, but I think it's a problem whether I am or not.

The truth is I really like hanging out with her and she's a really nice and fun person who I feel really comfortable around. She likes nerdy things like I do, I enjoy spending days watching Netflix and Youtube with her, she's done wonders for my self esteem. I never thought I'd be lucky enough to meet someone who wants to watch me play video games but she does and she swears she isn't just saying so to impress me.

Basically there are a lot of great things about her that I'd kill to have in a relationship, but I just don't feel romantically interested. Is it worth trying and risking breaking her heart by getting into a relationship when I don't know if it's what I really want?

I bought the Elder Scrolls Online today and the day one update is 15gbs (ridiculous). If I take out the game disc, will the update stop or will it keep going? I don't want to lose my progress but I'd rather play something else rather than watch a progress bar.

I know there are bigger health concerns to worry about when drinking it. But if I mix rum with coke zero, will that make me gain much weight? I figured it wouldn't, rum is just rum and coke zero doesn't have any sugar in it.

I'm not saying I'm a player (although I feel myself going that way) but I've been on Tinder for a while and slept with a few girls on there, but what I'm wondering is would players/guys who sleep around as often as possible sleep with someone they barely find attractive? Is that what they do or do they only sleep with attractive girls who are kinda slutty?

I ve only had two blowjobs or so from the same girl, and honestly it didn t feel nearly as good as i thought it was. i hadn t masturbated for about a week leading up to it, and after having sex for about 40 minutes she started to give me one. i don t know if she just wasnt putting much pressure on and not making her mouth tight enough or if having sex beforehand somehow ruined the senses (i didn t ejaculate during sex btw) but when she was doing it it just didn t feel all that good, i remember it hurting the tip more than anything. is it likely there s something wrong with the sensitivity in my penis or is she just not very good at it?

Also it was the same while having sex with her, although i think she may have just been a bit loose, she s had quite a history.

This girl I've been sleeping with seems pretty loose. She's the only girl I've slept with so I don't know the difference, but basically when we have sex I only get enjoyment out of the movement rather than the feeling on my penis. Is this normal? I'm 4.9 inches in girth so I'm not small, but is it normal that sex would be like that, or is it likely she's just especially loose?

This girl I've been sleeping with seems pretty loose. She's the only girl I've slept with so I don't know the difference, but basically when we have sex I only get enjoyment out of the movement rather than the feeling on my penis. Is this normal? I'm 4.9 inches in girth so I'm not small, but is it normal that sex would be like that, or is it likely she's just especially loose?

I've been sleeping with a girl I met on Tinder but I can't say I find her heaps sexually attractive. When it comes to wanting to give girls oral sex, I only seem to want to do it if they are thin and haven't had much sex in the past. This girl is carrying a bit of weight and has had a lot of sexual partners, and the difference between how much I want to give her oral compared to some other girls is huge. Some of those others turn me on so much when I think about it. Is there anything I can keep in mind while doing it to not feel like it's disgusting?

Also, this girl seems pretty loose. She's the only girl I've slept with so I don't know the difference, but basically when we have sex I only get enjoyment out of the movement rather than the feeling on my penis. Is this normal? I'm 4.9 inches in girth so I'm not small, but is it normal that sex would be like that, or is it likely she's just especially loose?

For about a month or so I've been seeing a girl I met on Tinder. We haven't done much outside of our houses, it's mostly been that we go to each others place and watch movies and sometimes have sex. The other day she told me she doesn't see it going anywhere and she thinks I might have stronger feelings for her than she has for me, but I explained to her I felt the same way which is true, so for now we're just going to keep seeing each other like we have with no strings attached.

But I want to use this as an opportunity to up my game. I know she's probably not interested in a relationship with me but she still seems to like me a lot. I want to try and make myself look like the dominant one, see if I can get her to chase me a bit and maybe let her see me differently. How would I go about doing that? I know it sounds terrible but I wouldn't be using her as such, if she did happen to really start liking me and wanting a relationship id seriously consider it and I think it would be likely on my end. But what can I do to get her thinking about me and wanting more from me?

I had sex for the first time last night, and even with no protection I outlasted the girl who has had sex multiple times. I'm not really sure why I couldn't climax, but I feel like it should have felt better. I thought that maybe it's because I masturbated earlier that day and the day before, is there some truth to that?

I had sex for the first time last night, and even with no protection I outlasted the girl who has had sex multiple times. I'm not really sure why I couldn't climax, but I feel like it should have felt better. I thought that maybe it's because I masturbated earlier that day and the day before, is there some truth to that?

I've been seeing a girl who Ive hung out with twice, two of those times being at her house (I posted a question about her just before). 7 and a half hours ago I asked her if she wanted to go to the zoo and apparently she never got the message. Here's how the conversation went after she asked what the message said when I used an inside joke about me being awkward to get a response out of her:

"Weird... I just said that even though I know you are probably busy for a while would you want to go to the zoo sometime?"

"Oh no I didn't get that?

But yes that would be nice 😊"

"Well I have no idea why that didn't send, by all appearances on my end it did haha. Well I'm free pretty much all week so when we go is up to you :)"

"Haha ok :) I'll keep that in mind"

To me that sounds bad because she didn't make an effort to actually make a time, she just said she'll keep it in mind which is kind of her way of leaving me hanging and not making plans without coming out and saying she doesn't want to see me. Up until this point she always came across as the one who's chasing and the one who's awkward, but she hasn't really been like that since the last time I saw her. Does it sound bad?

I started dating a girl a week ago who I've already seen 3 times with two of those times having gone to her house. For a few weeks up until the third time I saw her, we would message almost every day and she would come across as really nervous and awkward.

Everything seemed to be going really well, the last time I saw her she even said "so when am I going to get to see your room?" That was 4 days ago and it doesn't seem like there's been any bad indication since except that she's not messaging me first and coming off as nervous like she did before.

7 and a half hours ago I sent her a message asking if she'd want to go to the zoo sometime and I still haven't gotten a reply, which had really worried me because I know she isn't working today and she's been on facebook etc. so I figure she must have seen the message. I don't know why it's taking her so long to say something but it's stressing me out because she normally replies instantly.

An inside joke we have is that she would say "being awkward -1, me - 0" when waiting for a reply from me, and I already did the same thing once. I'm thinking that since its been nearly 8 hours, should I send another one saying "being awkward - 2, me - 0" or would that come off as too desperate despite how long it's been?

I got blocked by somebody on facebook a few months back and just noticed that, even though I still can't message her, her picture has started appearing in the messenger app which is wasn't before. What's the reason behind this? It still says she's "Facebook user"

It's easy to tell when an actor is really bad, but how can you tell if someone does a really fantastic job? I see reviews of movies I've watched and they say things like "blah blah did a terrific job" and so on, but to me the so called "best actors" don't really seem any different to other good actors. What are some traits and signs of good acting?

For the third time I've tried to have sex and couldn't get an erection. It's really starting to worry me because I don't know the cause or how to fix it. Basically during foreplay I'm absolutely fine, I'm hard for like an hour straight. But when it comes to taking clothes off and actually getting ready to have sex I just can't get up.

I've been told it's because I'm nervous but I never felt like I was, it just didn't happen. And now that it's started happening I feel more pressured to get it right each time. What can I do to stop having this problem? And is it worth seeing a urologist?

For the third time I've tried to have sex and couldn't get an erection. It's really starting to worry me because I don't know the cause or how to fix it. Basically during foreplay I'm absolutely fine, I'm hard for like an hour straight. But when it comes to taking clothes off and actually getting ready to have sex I just can't get up.

I've been told it's because I'm nervous but I never felt like I was, it just didn't happen. And now that it's started happening I feel more pressured to get it right each time. What can I do to stop having this problem? And is it worth seeing a eurologist?

For the third time I've tried to have sex and couldn't get an erection. It's really starting to worry me because I don't know the cause or how to fix it. Basically during foreplay I'm absolutely fine, I'm hard for like an hour straight. But when it comes to taking clothes off and actually getting ready to have sex I just can't get up.

I've been told it's because I'm nervous but I never felt like I was, it just didn't happen. And now that it's started happening I feel more pressured to get it right each time. What can I do to stop having this problem? And is it worth seeing a eurologist?

About a year ago I dated a girl who I ended up rejecting because I just didn't feel anything for her, but we stayed friends and I think I might be starting to like her.

The reason I didn't feel anything the first time is because when I met her I had only just had my heart broken by someone else, so I don't think it was ever likely to work then. Now I'm mostly over that heartache and I've kept in touch with this girl over facebook. We've just been talking as friends for a little while, although I haven't actually seen her in person since we dated.

Some days I get a strong feeling that I'm starting to like her and others I just feel nothing, although the former happens more often. I know she isn't the best looking girl I've dated and that tends to throw me off, but in recent photos of hers she looks better than I remember, but that could be misleading and I'm trying not to think about her looks.

I asked her if she'd want to hang out this week and she said yes, but I'm just not sure if I should be doing it. I rejected her once so I didn't feel anything then and I don't want to let her get her hopes up just so I can realise my recent feeling aren't valid. Should I see her or not?