Bob Lob Law

I've been dating this guy for a while and I like him more than anyone else I have ever liked/dated. One time he tried to have sex in public and it made me feel uncomfortable so we didn't but he got blue balls.As the relationship went on I started to become more ambivalent about us. The last 2 times we hooked up, I didn't even kiss him. I made him go down on me then made him get out of my house. He got blue balls again and I really hurt his feelings. I realized what I did and the next time we hung out he said we needed space. He said what I did made him feel like it was his fault, like he was doing something wrong and I didn't like him. My "friend" who is whore (she brags about hooking up with 75 guys..and she's 18) hooked up with him while we were on a break. I don't know if they just made out or if they had sex. After our break I called him on his birthday today :) and he said he's down to hangout and catch up again. Do you think we'll be able to make it work? What should I do or say to him? If they did have sex, then its going to VERY DIFFICULT probably impossible for me to forgive him but I don't think they did. He is a good guy, he is really sweet & nice to me ALL the time and always tries to make me happy. He isn't the type of guy to just mess around with girls. so finding out that he hooked up with the whore actually makes me concerned. like i really hurt him or he's going through a rough time.

HELP :(

I hang out with this group of people who are pretty rude and we aren't very close but we do like to party together. One girl got her septum pierced last March & another got hers done last August. I just got mine today and I'm afraid they're are going to think I'm copying them. I really do like the pierce and I think it looks so awesome! I know real friends won't care, and they aren't my real friends but we are going to LA for my mutual friend's birthday(who is a true friend). Any advice? please don't comment if you don't have a legit answer. It may be stupid but I just want help not judgment.

Thanks :)

I'm mixed, and people can't really tell what i am. can you..

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he was actually trying to kill me, and i was begging him not to. then he said to me "alex, its because of your depression" (which i've been suffering with for a while). then i just gave up. he threw something at me. then i woke up. my body, in real life, felt out of place, it took me a few minutes to get up.

WTF does this mean!?!? lol