TJ

I wasn't aware that I was supposed to have supreme English skills over the internet, but apparently grammar/English Nazis love to give me crap about the way that I write. I know I am intelligent but people doubt that I am! That's not something that angers me but if I write a personal story and people are accusing me of 'stealing' my own work, is that wrong, even with proof that I did write what I did?

I'm an introvert that doesn't exercise I like I should. I used to be a little over 300lbs and ended up losing weight through dieting without exercise (besides walking). Of course, its still possible to tone up my body, but I don't think it's right to be body shamed by strangers over the internet. I'm not planning on dating anytime soon-it may even be years before I decide to date anyone. I'd like some advice, especially from women as to how I can deal with the body shaming. My body isn't perfect in my eyes but I am getting a lot of hate over something that I can't really change at the moment. I get hate over the loose skin on my arms, my own vagina that no ONE ELSE should be seeing in the first place..but I am being recorded in my house 24/7. I'm not going to get into specifics but Its draining me emotionally because I need a sympathetic ear. Maybe I need tough love...who knows. Well all in all, I just want some advice on how to deal with the hateful comments about my body, in what I thought was the privacy of my own home and how I can go about being more confident. My feelings, initially made me angry but it stings sometimes. Being bullied all my life, I got to the point where sometimes I don't even defend myself anymore and just learn how to ignore the rude comments...I'm not angel and I don't want a pity party either