Alex

My girlfriend of about a year and half

Contuines to break up with me . Last week was the 4 th time. The first 3 times she breaks up she tells me that she just doesn't feel the same anyways but admentltly wants to stay friends and hangout and we do but we allways end up being back tgther.

so last few months we've been togther again , and once again she's telling me how much she loves me and I belive it too like i it never adds up when she breaks up with me. It's like she despertly wants me around and time , and talks about like going to trips to saint thomas, to moving in and just how much she loves me. And then she does a 180 and it never adds up I don't get it. So she broke up with me last week and all she said is she just wants to be alone. And says she doesn't know why she changed her mind again she doesnt wanna do this to me anymore. I'm so annyoed, I don't get what's going on. She mentioned she's going to see a therapist because she's so ****** up right now. I think she's depressed but idk I wanna support her but idk why she contuines to do complete 180s for the way she feels about me. Is the common

Behavior for someone who's depressed

hello, I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder last year, it runs in the family. my anxiety was so bad last yr I had to drop out of college. so I came home last winter and met my boyfriend, it was great I fell in love with my funny supporting wonderful attractive boyfriend, and my anxiety suddenly wasn't really there anymore.

but a few months ago the anxiety kicked in again in big time and id be anxious and sad and unhappy and just scared, it was ruining everything. It started to effect the way I feel for my boyfriend. some days I felt nothing for him, and id start having lots of doubts about us, " do I love him do I not are we just friends all kinds of thoughts" my feelings keep going back and forth. i feel like i cant control my thoughts or feelings for anything. so for the last few months id pull away from him and become distant, because of these thoughts/feelings then pull him back in feeling so certain that I did love him and so on. its making me so sad and confused cause I really care about him ive convinced my self that I obviously love him. but I don't wanna hurt him anymore. I don't know if I should put him through this I don't think its fair . i guess im asking has anyone else gone through something like this. plzzzz help idk what to do.

ik ik don't blame yourself, but i do. my gf recently broke up with me cause she told me she kissed someone else and it wasn't fair. i was mad at first but then i asked why why were you unhappy,? am i not attractive anymore. and she said

"of course im attracted to you, and yes i don't think i was happy. i didn't want to tell you how to make me feel happy., i wanted you to care about the things I cared about. i loved you but i started loving you as a friend. and guys would tell me how lucky you were to be my bf. then that guy kissed me and he made me feel special and beautiful. lad da words la dad and other words and etc and stuff.

But now im mad myself. because as her boyfriend i should have been making her happy and shes right she shouldn't have to tell me how to make her happy. i don't think id blame myself if i actually put 100% effort into her like she did to me even if she did kiss anther guy she treated me so much better. it sucks tho that it took her cheating and breaking up with me to realize how im shitty lol.

am i right for blameing myself idk i don't no anything anymore.