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Connor Ratonhnhaké:ton Kenway
My girlfriend hangs out with her ex boyfriends?
So I met this girl about 3 months ago through a friend and this friend told me of her past (she's quite open with her past as well, long story short we're both 17 and she's had sex with a few different guys). Knowing this even still we decided to date after about a month and literally its the best relationship i've ever been in. no fights, no arguments, not even a minor altercation, NOTHING. we hung out 14 days in a row and both agreed we could do another 14 days no problem. We've had sex many times, and its the best sex i've ever had (i lost my virginity before her). But I have one small problem...
Her ex boyfriends constantly text her, saying things like "I miss you" and "We should hang out soon!" and she'll tell me they say that and she'll say yes to them. Then they say "If anything happens, its not my fault". Literally two different guys said that to her, implying they were gonna get with her even though she told them she has a boyfriend! She replies with "its not my fault if I stab you, so keep your distance at all times" because she has a knife in her purse, which gives me a good laugh. I know I can trust her, she's a great girl and she has stopped drinking alcohol because my dad's an alcoholic and she's stopping smoking weed because of me, saying "if this doesn't show you how much i care then idk what does babe" so i feel like she's loyal, but...with her ex bf's feelings can come back, anything can happen.
im probably overreacting, but what are your thoughts?
1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years agogirlfriend takes hours to answer back, even if i respond immediately. should i worry?
So basically my girlfriend and I text every day. and every day there is usually a period when she'll stop answering for a little while...a lot of the time we'll be going back and forth and I'll answer within 30 seconds of her saying something. then, she takes up to 2 hours to respond. Like, what? I just sent you something right after you sent me something and you take 2 hours to reply?
For instance today it's been about 5 hours since she's replied to my last text so I sent her something else about 20 mins ago, no response. I very well know she could be busy (she usually does this later at night when she does her homework) but it doesn't take more than 10 seconds to send a text back. I know there's nothing she's doing that is preventing her from texting back, she very well has probably seen my text and has not replied in 5 hours. I also worry when she does this, sometimes I feel she's ignoring me on purpose or something idk...
I know this is silly of me and that its probably nothing, but does anyone have an answer for why she does this and if I should be worried? BESIDES THE FACT THAT SHE'S BUSY. I can usually tell when she's busy, but it's been 5 hours, you think she could find 10 seconds to reply...no hate guys, just looking for an honest answer to an honest question. this stuff bugs me.
5 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years agoTalking to a girl, but got asked to winter ball by another. What do I do?
Okay, so basically I've been talking to this girl since July, and we're definitely more than friends, in fact we'd be dating if not for the fact that her parents HATE me for no reason. Seriously, they hate me. I've never spoken with them, met them or anything. They don't know a single thing about me and they hate me simply because I'm a guy and no guy is good enough for her I GUESS. Anyways, 2 months ago her parents took away her "privilege" to talk to me, so now we resort to texting and skyping in secret (I also visit her at work in secret as well).
So one of my friends pretty much asked me to her winter ball dance today over text (thank god it wasnt in person) because we go to different schools and hardly see each other. I explained my situation to her like I did to you guys and she said she'd understand but she really wants to go and wanted to take me. So i said i'd think about it.
im stuck in a dilemma. I dont know whether i should tell her i'd go (forms are due this wednesday and there's no way i'd be able to talk to the girl i talk to about it bc of her parents, we only talk once or twice a week), or if i should say no. I value everyone's feelings here, she really wants to go with me but at the same time i dont wanna hurt her feelings or the girl i'm talking to's feelings. and theres no way i can talk about it with her! we're not bf and gf so i mean idk...what do you think!
any answer appreciated, nothing negative. thanks!
3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years agoIs she hiding from me? (Girl responses appreciated!)?
This is tricky so I'm gonna try and be brief while not leaving anything out.
Talking to a girl since July, we're both 17. She grounded rn.
This girl told me she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. We have amazing chem and I'd be damned if I didn't want the same thing, too. Words cannot describe how much we like each other.
Well one night we were hanging out after her work (like in the parking lot waiting for her ride because they allowed me to visit her at work) and her parent's friend came to pick her up. being suspicious that we were outside she told her parents, and this girl got grounded even longer.
That was last sunday night, and it was the last thing she has said to me since then. Figuring a few days after that she must've gotten her phone taken away I was like "ok I'll just wait til the weekend she'll probably get it back then"...nope. Well today i get a text from my friend (who is friends w her) that she liked one of his pics (but then disliked it). I was like "why didnt she text me as soon as she got her phone" because wouldn't that be the first thing you'd do if you got your phone taken? He DM'd her and got no response, and so I checked her friend's instas to see if she liked anything and she didnt...texted her today no response...do YOU think she's hiding something and not texting me? There is a decent chance my friend messed the name up, but...i just dont believe this is something she would do. She loves me and does anything to get me to come visit
2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years agoGIRLS, I can tell she likes me when we hang out, but over text she's quite brief and never goes into detail, what does this say? description?
When we hang out she's fun to be with, is funny, and gets touchy. Met her at a football game (my friend's girlfriend's friend) and we instantly started talking. all went well and when we went to eat afterwards she sat next to me in the booth and a little time passed and my hand was rubbing her leg. within a few mins of that she slid her hand down and we were holding hands. Mind you, we only knew each other for about 2 hours at that point and we weren't talking nonstop from the time we met. She touched me more throughout the night and hugs were warm, etc. Got her number, she told me to text her.
Well, i text her and everything is okay, but she answers weirdly. Most of the time her responses are brief (Although she usually answers within a minute) and usually she doesn't go into detail. Im pretty sure this girl likes me, but is she just trying not to be too forward with me? She's always the first person to see my snapchat story as well, Idk if that has anything to do with it but...any opinions?
2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years agoShe's grounded for god knows how long (how to get her ungrounded?)?
So I met this girl at work, we've been talking ever since and she is THE GIRL for me. She helped me out of a bad relationship and I've come to cherish this girl and we want to be together. Only problem is, she's grounded for an unknown amount of time. I'd go visit her after she got out of work (her parents allowed it) and we made out both times. Last night her ride came and we were outside (not making out) but her ride told her parents we were outside. They suspected we've kissed before when i visited but they've still allowed me to visit. But today i get a message from her telling me she's grounded even longer because they've sorta caught onto us.
She's tried everything to get ungrounded (great attitude, help around the house 24/7 etc etc) but nothing helps. her parents know im a respectable and gentleman-like guy, which is very true. But since she was already grounded for an unknown period of time and now she's grounded even longer, it worries me a lot. She knows I'd wait a long period of time for her, but is there any way we can cut this down and get us out to explore the world together sooner? THANKS
1 AnswerSingles & Dating6 years ago(ex) girlfriend hung out with her ex (behind my back while we were dating)?
so we broke up last week over college and i been trying to get her back since. long story short a girl from work gave me her number and i decided to take the opportunity as my girl was pushing me away and i figured all hope of getting back was lost. me and this girl just talked but we flirt. anyways tonight my ex texted me and said she missed me and asked if i was talking to anyone. being honest i said yes and she wasn't happy (keep in mind i was single with no evident hope of getting her back). so later she tells me that once while we were datung she hung out with her ex behind my back (and they've had sex before) but she told me they didnf have sex that time ans fhat after that she realized she needed to stop talkojg to him and that it was a mistake to be with him becausw he is just a friend now.
i want her back and shes agreed to get back together, but should i worry about this? to her this is equal to what i did but to me what she did totally blows what i did away. im still willing to give her a second chance because we all deserve a second chance and i believe that. this is MY second chance to make it right for good. but should i worry? she tells me they didnt have sex that night and i believe her i have no reason not to, but...
what do you think of this guys? thanks! :)
1 AnswerSingles & Dating6 years agoWhy does she always talk about other guys when she's with me? Is she just immature? (description for full)?
I ask that you read the description in FULL before answering, thanks :)
Okay, so my girlfriend (to keep her identity private, we'll put her name as 'Emma') and I have been going out for a month now, and everything is good. I love her and she loves me, and we both know we mean it.
Emma is 15 and I am 16 (soon to be 17 in a month) so we are close in age (she is a grade below me, I'm a senior, she's a junior). When we hang out (ESPECIALLY when she brings her friend along and us three hang out) she talks about different guys they know. When an attractive guy or pair of guys walk past us they're like "omg they're really cute", etc etc. They talk about their guy friends that they know of that are attractive. This in itself doesn't get on my nerves too much, but here's what REALLY gets on my nerves...
Emma used to **** with this kid (for the sake of privacy we'll call him..) Greg for I believe 7 or 8 months, and they had sex (how many times I do not know). Greg ****** her and left, but he's not too much of a worry for me now. However emma and her friend always have inside jokes they think i don't understand when they're talking about greg, and that pisses me off. Why does she feel the need to talk about other guys when I'm with her. Is she just trying to impress me or is she just immature...
Why does she have double standards too? She can talk about all these different guys but when I make a comment about another girl she has a fit...why?
4 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years agoHow to make her my girlfriend?
So to make this short and sweet, we met through a mutual friend and she told him i was really cute and so she got my number. We texted for a while and then I asked her to hang out with her saying yes (by then I knew she was into me because she told me). So the first date is a lot of fun, and so is the second. By the third date, we made out a couple different times throughout the night in my car. Which I thought was awesome obviously, but I had NEVER kissed a girl before having her be my girlfriend. Anyways when we get home I text her and I say "I saw my chance and I took it" and she says "you've had the chance for a while" with a winky face.
Fourth date rolls around, we make out in my car in sessions of like 5-10 minutes each, and she's laying on me and I have my hand on her upper thigh (and she later puts my hand on her breasts and lower stomach later on), so long story short I know she's into me and I've never loved a girl this quick into a relationship ever before in my life...so what's the best way to ask her to officially be my girlfriend?
the way I asked my ex to be my gf was by saying "would you make me happy and be my gf?" but i feel that's cheesy. But hey, if you girls like that then let me know. What is the best way to ask this girl to be my girlfriend? She has a super outgoing and fun personality so something flirty/creative gets bonus puntos.
Thanks guys and gals of the interweb.
1 AnswerSingles & Dating6 years agoInfo in description, need help with two girls!!!?
So I want to make this short because I am tired but anxious. So basically what happened was I got involved with girl #1 through one of my friends, and we've gone out about 5 times and I'm taking her to prom soon. However, in the process of talking to this girl (remember, I'm still single), I've met another girl (girl #2) whom I think is a LOT prettier and has a much more outgoing and fun personality (girl 1 is very shy and reserved while girl 2 is fun to be with and has a killer body). Obviously I'm still gonna go to prom with girl 1, but if all things go well with girl 2 (i've been on one really really fun date with girl 2 already; almost kissed her and im sure she would've wanted that because she kept playfully touching me all night) then I think i wanna stick with girl2 instead of girl1. How do i let girl 1 know there is someone else who has my attention. PLOT TWIST. Girl1 and girl2 go to the SAME SCHOOL. same grade too (sophmores), most likely in some classes together. how do i let girl1 down and let her know theres someone else nicely??
Thanks
3 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years agoWhy does my iPhone 6 lose 20% of its charge in the morning? read full description!?
Okay, so I just got the brand new iPhone 6 Saturday, and I decided to try and prolong the battery life instead of charging it overnight and killing it like I did with my 4S. So instead of charging it overnight and overcharging it what I do is I charge it the night before I go to bed to 100% or something close like 98% and then I turn it off. When I wake up in the morning, I pack everything for school and as I head out the door before I start my car I turn my phone on to check my email and such. Then, I lock my iPhone and drive to school. When I arrive at school at 7:20 I usually won't be on my phone for more then 5 minutes, and then at 7:45 classes start.
Between the start of school and the end of school on a normal day I'll be on my phone for around 5 minutes (we are allowed to use phones if the teacher lets us). But that's about it; and really the only thing I do on my phone is look something up, for example the firing on fort sumter. This may not seem like much battery use but apparently at the end of the day (2:30) when I take out my phone to check notifications I'm at around 80%...why am I at 80% when I haven't really done anything on the phone all day? It's just been in standby mode the whole time!! Help anyone? Its a brand new iPhone, all the battery-hogging settings are turned off, and I turn it off at least once a day!
1 AnswerMaintenance & Repairs7 years agoWhat to do if crush doesn't text back but sees the message (iMessage)...?
Hi guys, so I was kind of just scrolling through facebook when all of a sudden a freshman (im a sophmore guy) chatted me. We talked for a bit and I kind of got the sense that she liked me when she said "he's fine, I think I'll keep talking to him" (this was in response to me asking her why she came out of the blue and texting me). So that was saturday night. She texted me first on sunday and asked me if we could facetime, I had to decline because of exams the next day.
I honestly got the feeling that, wow, she is an amazing girl, we have so much in common and it seems she truly cares for what I have to say, and she kept complimenting me on how much of a good guy i was (I helped her with some social problems, typical girl stuff yk what I mean ladies)
So we normally texted on monday and I asked her if she could facetime that monday night. She said she couldn't, because she was having a sleepover (do girls have sleepovers on school nights?...) and I said okay maybe tomorrow. So today (tuesday) I snapchatted her and texted her, and she agreed to facetime this evening (again, tuesday). When 7:30 rolled around, I texted her saying "hey im free now you can facetime me", no response. So i messaged her 20 minutes later asking her if she could facetime. She saw the messages at 8:38, but no response was given.
Guys and Ladies, I truly like this girl and had the intent of asking her to an upcoming winter ball. She means a LOT to me and I have lost some sleep the last two nights thinking about her and what to say to ask her...I'd prefer if a girl answer this question, of course you won't know the girl im talking to but you are a girl, and she is too. A guy answering that has pretty much a similar experience is welcomed too, these are typically the only answers considered for best answer!
My plan is to blow off wednesday and perhaps thursday, to see if she replies back with an explanation. If not, I will text her friday, saying I got caught up in some stuff and is now texting her then. WHAT SHOULD I DO? IS MY PLAN OKAY, WHAT IS YOUR OPINION? IS SHE STILL INTERESTED IN ME OR SHOULD I FIND ANOTHER LADY?
10 points to best answer, please hurry I need a good answer before friday! THANKS.
6 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years agoINGROWN TOENAIL! Playing sport soon, need a cheap way to either cushion/remove ingrown toenail?
How can i get rid of or cushion/support this ingrown toenail WITHOUT going to the docs? I am playing paintball tomorrow!!
2 AnswersPain & Pain Management8 years agoHow to ask a girl to homecoming by means of the internet, please read description...?
Hey guys, I want to ask a girl to homecoming which is next saturday, but we go to two different schools and the only way to get in touch with her is texting and facebook messaging. There are two girls as options for me. One used to be good friends with me, and the other I interned a camp over the summer with, and we were just friends. Both went to my school in middle school then I broke off to a catholic high school.
Anyways, what is the BEST way to approach the situation, how should I come to ask her, should I be direct or kind of start talking and then ask the question. I'd prefer if a girl that has gone through this answer this question, as the opposite sex usually helps more with this topic. Thanks!!
1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years agoI need help getting over something I'm not quite sure of...?
Hi, I'm Connor, I'm a 15 year old male. I recently have watched one of my favorite childhood movies (The Fox and the Hound) and now, 2 days later, I cannot get over it. What I mean is, I can't stop thinking about it. It isn't the emotional scene, if you've seen the movie it's pretty much where Tod meets Vixey and on. My theory is this: I think about Vixey and on because I now am a loner (I have recently broken up with a girlfriend) and Tod and Vixey is kind of what I had going. Just not all the snuggling. I think I'm going into a mental withdrawal, and I miss these times. But strange enough, I don't want another girlfriend, at least for a while. And even if I did getting one would be hard (as I go to a catholic school with all boys). Anyways, thats my theory.
I've tried to watch other movies, to get it out of my head (the whole movie in general) but NOTHING is working! Its like my mind is set on that damn movie! I can't take it anymore! It is really a good movie but it is driving me insane. I can't focus on my school work and I fear my grades will be susceptible to this psychiatric thing I'm going through. What do you think is happening with my mind? I kind of think there's a little more to it than just comparing the fox's relationship to my previous one, but I can't quite grasp it. Why can't I shake this out of my head???
And a note to those who prowl yahoo answers and give unrealistic, sarcastic or hateful comments. Please don't. I'm going through what I think could become serious if I don't get it out of the main focus of my life. And NO, I'm not gay. Obviously if I had a girl, that means I'm straight. Don't call me that just because I rewatched an old Disney movie, I bet you've done the same thing.
Please help! 20 POINTS goes to the answer that actually carefully reads what I wrote above and deciphers this "thing" that's going on! You will get 10 points for this and I set up a fake question and send you the link in which you will be rewarded another 10 points!!
If you have any questions to further help me, just email my yahoo account. THANKS GUYS!!!
3 AnswersPsychology8 years agoHow to stop thinking about a certain movie...?
Hey guys, I'm 15 and last night I watched the Fox and the Hound. Best movie I've ever seen hands down. (Yes even a real man like me cried at the Goodbye may seem forever song :D). Now (the day after) I can't get it out of my head! It's pretty much just the part where Tod meets Vixey, from there on. Now as I'm 15 I have all these "raging hormones" and stuff, and I do think that the vixey fox is hot, so is it just I can't get over her hotness, or is it because I just love the emotional struggles in the film? I can't tell. Also how can I move on to another thing, this is ruining my studies! I just think of the Fox and the Hound and not my Geo Trig or my Chemistry. 10 points to best answer.
2 AnswersMovies8 years agoCan a civilian own an SV-98 rifle in the US?
I have been attracted to the Izhmash SV-98 for a long time, and yes I did discover it while playing Battlefield Bad Company 1. Anyways I am 17 and I will be applying for a gun license when I'm 18, and I am interested in bolt action. So, can I own an SV-98? Or, Izhmash's official civilian version, the Record 38 or something like that, in the US? Also, things I want to know:
-How much will it cost?
-What calibres?
Okay, and I know people suggest the R700, but I'm not really into it. I shot it before and, meh, it was okay. I want something different.
Also, I heard about McMillans, are there any nice rifles they have? Thanks
9 AnswersHunting8 years agoFree upgrade from Microsoft Office 2008 to 2011 on Mac help!?
Okay, so I bought office 2008 in september of 2010, making me eligible for the free upgrade to office 2011. I never did upgrade and now I want to, but I can't find any links to upgrade. Where do I go to get my free upgrade from 2008 to 2011 on Mac? Thanks!!
1 AnswerSoftware8 years agoAny good zombie survival games on the Mac?
I have a 13" Macbook Pro with an i5 processor, and I'm really into the game "DayZ", but sadly I cannot play it. Same thing with "WarZ", both in which can only be played on a PC. I did not intend to use this computer as a gaming laptop, SO I DON'T NEED YOU TO TELL ME TO GO BUY AN ALIENWARE. I just want to know if there are any games such as DayZ and WarZ where you have to scavange for weapons, food, water, and fight other survivors/bandits, etc. Any links to games such as these will help, and if you suggest a game that is $$$ try to only suggest games under $20, I don't want to pay $40 for a piece of crap that is nowhere near as close to DayZ's game style. So again, I am asking for very very VERY close suggestions to DayZ and WarZ, as I want to be playing a game as close to these two games as possible. Thanks guys, and yes, my name is Connor Ratonhnhaké:ton Kenway XD
2 AnswersVideo & Online Games8 years ago