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Okay. I had plans for tonight with my best friend (who I happen to be in love with but she has a boyfriend) and she cancelled yesterday so I made plans with another girl to go over tonight and "cuddle on her bed and watch movies". Well this morning my best friend said she still wanted me to go but we can't tell her bf (he hates me and he's why we had to cancel our plans). But I still have plans with the other girl. She's really cute but completely not my type and I can't even see myself with her without thinking of my best friend. So I'm stuck. I could either cancel my plans for my best friend and have a fun night but end up handing her over to her piece of **** bf at the end of the night OR keep my plans with the other girl and not sleep alone for once... Idk just really need some advice here

Okay here's the story. I'm 20 btw. Okay well a couple months ago i started talking to the most amazing girl I've ever met. We clicked on everything and could talk and laugh for hours. Well she is dating a douchebag that isn't right for her. All of her friends even agree but she loves him way too much to end it and she said that she really wants things to get better and actually work out. Well here's where the problem comes in. I absolutely fell for her. Like... really hard. We Hung out a couple times a week and then one night when we were saying goodbye we had the perfect kiss. Like... No ****. Perfect and we both felt horrible cuz she cheated on him but then the same thing happened the next time we Hung out. She was falling for me just like I fell for her. We had long talks about it and she was so respecting of their relationship. Other than the kiss she has never straight up told me how she felt about me. Well anyways, two nights ago we were talking on the phone and we got into a really deep conversation. At the end of the conversation she got really serious and told me that we could never b together because she's going to make her relationship with her bf work. So that really hurt me for some reason. Like enough to have a total meltdown. Doesn't happen very often. Then the next day I told her I wanted to b her friend but then a couple hours I just broke down and told her I can't do it and completely deleted her off my phone, deleted all our messages and call history and off Facebook. Yesterday was miserable and today is worse. I don't know what to do. If I get ahold of her somehow ill just seem like an asshole and I Dnt even know if shed be happy to talk or upset. And if I dont talk to her I'm still miserable. Am i just being pathetic? Idk i just need some advice. Dnt tell me to tell her how I feel because she KNOWS. Don't tell me to tell her that I'm better for her than he is. She KNOWS. Trust me. We were close enough friends and we know how each other felt. I just need some helpful advice here

I hate asking questions on here cuz it seems so childish but okay. I'm 20 and about a month ago I met the most amazing girl. We click on absolutely everything and until I met her I wanted to just stay single til I got out of the marines but o well... Well the problem is, she's dating a complete douchebag. They've only been dating for a month and he treats her like ****. He lives at her house with her parents (she had to move back in due to her moms health) and he totally takes advantage of her. I could list a million examples but here's a couple: most nights she sleeps on the floor while he gets her bed, she pays for EVERYTHING even though he has a steady pay check, he's never bought her anything or taken her anywhere, he gets sex when HE wants it, she can't do anything without clearing it with him, and so on and so forth. But she loves him otherwise she wouldn't be with him. She says she's going to do anything to make it work. Me and her are good friends and we talk about it almost daily. All her friends know whats going on and we try to make her realize but she says she's happy sometimes so that's enough for her... Ugh. I've already completely fallen for her and if I break them up ill feel horrible cuz my intentions wouldn't b right. Every time we hang out we can just sit and talk forever. I've never had that before. We never wanna say goodbye and wen we hug goodbye we can't let go of each other. I know she feels the same way cuz she says its not right to tell me how she feels... Idk... And Dnt tell me tell her how I feel cuz she knows that I love her. I just don't know what to do from here. I think about her nonstop and it rly sucks cuz I know she's with him. I'm hanging out with her today after work and I know I have to say something. I can't just sit around and wait.

Okay well last night i met an amazing girl. we are into the same music, we get along great,we have the same background, we're from the same area, and shes absolutely the most gorgeous girl ive ever met. the thing is... I met her because my friend brought her to the barracks (yes im in the marines). Of course she's with him but he refuses to make it in anyway official and he treats her like ****. To him, she's just a one night stand and she hates it (we had a looooong talk about it) They've only been talking for a month and a half and to him all she is is another hookup. (his ex is coming next week while this girl is out of town and he told her that) I just think it's a messed up situation for both of them. I'm really into this girl and we kind of had a moment last night. Her and my friend have nothing in common and all she wants is to be treated right and i can give her that. Okay heres the thing that really irked me. I was talking to my friend and kind of congradulated him for catching such a girl and he said "dude you can take a crack at her if you want, i dont give a ****." and that kinda raised my eyebrows to whether or not he secretly cares or he really just doesnt give a ****. Before they went to bed she was talking to me saying she really didnt want to go to bed with someone that doesnt care at all whether or not she's there. so i hung around a lil bit longer cuz they put a movie on and he just crashed out on the opposite side of the bed than her and i know that she hated it... i dont know what to do. i know she's into me and im 100000% into her unlike my friend. idk what to do should i just leave it be or should i try to keep talking to her? She gave me her number and i put mine in her phone and she promised she'd text me in the morning, Gave me a kiss and i left... what should i dooooo?

Okay... first off I'm 21. My girlfriend keeps saying she wants REALLY rough sex but for some reason whenever she tries to make me mad enough, I freak out and get EXTREMELY turned OFF. I had an experience with my ex once and I actually hurt her and I just can't get over it. I don't wanna hurt my new girl. Dnt get me wrong I love really passionate sex I just can't deal with violent sex. I Dnt wanna get carried away. Any advice????

I'm looking for a type of girl that I doubt even exists... I want to find a cute, intelligent, gamer, loyal, romantic, dorky, kinda girl. Someone that actually likes and appreciates a nice guy who loves treating a girl right. Someone that's mature and down to earth but also funloving. I smoke so I Dnt want that to b a problem. Someone who has some initiative. I know that's probably too much to ask for but if there's one person like this then there's bound to b others. Are you out there?

I'm seeing this girl, we've been hanging out a lot lately and were sleeping together. She then told me yesterday that the reason why she won't be official with me because she's "a bad person." Well she then went into detail saying she feels disgusting because she has three "bfs" but for some reason it doesn't make me mad. I know I'm better than them and this girl is absolutely awesome and she "says" that she just couldn't say no to them. See, I don't get why I feel like I can still trust her even after my ex wife cheated on me with 6 guys. My frustration is, I want to keep talking to her but I REALLY don't wanna get hurt. This girl is really fun and awesome and shes GORGEOUS. We have a lot in common and everyone that's seen us says we'd look like a great couple. I just don't know what to do... oh and ever since we started hanging out I've been in an AMAZING mood and feeling really good about myself. Even started working out a lot which is making me feel awesome. Ugh plz help

I'm seeing this girl, we've been hanging out a lot lately and were sleeping together. She then told me yesterday that the reason why she won't be official with me because she's "a bad person." Well she then went into detail saying she feels disgusting because she has three "bfs" but for some reason it doesn't make me mad. I know I'm better than them and this girl is absolutely awesome and she "says" that she just couldn't say no to them. See, I don't get why I feel like I can still trust her even after my ex wife cheated on me with 6 guys. My frustration is, I want to keep talking to her but I REALLY don't wanna get hurt. This girl is really fun and awesome and shes GORGEOUS. We have a lot in common and everyone that's seen us says we'd look like a great couple. I just don't know what to do... oh and ever since we started hanging out I've been in an AMAZING mood and feeling really good about myself. Even started working out a lot which is making me feel awesome. Ugh plz help

OOOOkay. To start off with, may i say that i am 21, I'm enlisted in the USMC and i'm actually pretty damn mature... okay... Last weekend my buddy (R) and his wife (C) invited me over to hang out and stay. They also said they were going to invite one of his wife's old childhood friends (L) (another marine) for me to meet. Well things went kind of weird. I was being flirty and so was she, at times. she was giving me really mixed signals and it was very frustrating trying to read them so eventually i just kinda stopped. at about midnight or so i ended up crashing out in the back room. too many drinks haha. Well about half an hour or so later, after my buddy and his wife went to bed i woke up to L coming in and asking if i could put lotion on her back cuz she just got a tattoo. well she laid down and i started giving a massage. eventually she passed out and i kinda just rolled next to her and started to go to sleep as well. Then i was kinda startled as she moved and started spooning, all the while rubbing her *** on my crotch. then she started saying she was "itchy" so she took off her shirt and boxers that she was wearing over her panties... carpet's more itchy than ur clothes... haha. ANYWAY well things went to things, she was whispering french into my ear then well... you know what happened. Afterwards she went to the living room and crashed on the couch.

The next day she was a lot more flirty and adorable but still not very open at all with me but nonetheless R and K invited us back to stay again and of course we said sure. That night we were being really sexual while still being adorable. i dont get this girl haha. Well things went to things again and we ended up staying up til 6 before being done. Then i tried going to bed back in the room but she asked me to stay with her on the couch. we cuddled all night =) We then left the next day and have been texting ever since. Oh! she was "half black". first girl ive ever been with that wasnt white (no racism) Tuesday tho, my roommate (a black guy, "attractive", very cocky and a smooth talker) took me to go see her. I couldve sworn he was flirting with her and honestly it pissed me off. Same thing the next day except he didnt flirt with her at all. I know my roommate, he's an asshole and a "playa" when it comes to girls and i hate it. I get really paranoid with it and i always think somethings going on behind my back. Honestly i like this girl and we actually talk on a personal level. shes damn cool and honestly she NOT my roommate's type at all. idk i guess i'm intimidated which is making me more and more paranoid wondering if she likes him, if he's going behind my back (he said on multiple occasions he'd never do that although he keeps saying "man, im jealous! she's so damn hot" idk maybe im just as intimidated by her as i am him. Shes absolutely gorgeous and im a scrawny white guy... idk. i hope its just paranoia cuz i really dont wanna freak out about it. I'm constantly working out (first time in months) just so i can feel good enough to talk to her... wtf is up with me. im tired of it but i really like this girl... first time ive been given a good chance to somewhat of a relationship since my ex wife... yeah... i wanna be good enuf for her but i cant help but think if im good enough for myself... Plz give opinions... i really just wanna get some input here.

(oh ive joked about her ditching me for my roommate and she said "ewwww gross!" sooooo idk.

ALLLLRIGHT simple question. What branch of the military is the most attractive to you??? Army? Navy? Air Force? MARINES???

Okay... I'm in the marines, long story short... I was with my girlfriend from high school when i left. she cheated and i took her back, then again, took her back, but this isnt about her... when i was with her I was good friends with a married girl at communications school. well she introduced me to her friend who's a really really awesome girl. we talked all the time and hung out occasionally and we had a lot in common, except for the fact that she had a boyfriend. well the first friend told her about how my girlfriend was a complete b*tch and they tried to convince me to leave her (and even tried to bribe me with a date with the girl i like... mustve been obvious haha) well ANYWAYS. the girl i liked ended up graduating and going to NC and we stopped talking due to the fact i married my girlfriend and she cut me off from all females. well needless to say i ended up moving to NC at the same base as the girl i liked. still wasnt talking at this time. Well me and my ex wife got divorced and i spent 5 months alone til now. well the CRAZIEST thing happened today... I was in my barracks room and the two new guys moved into the room attached to mine through the bathroom. I heard a female voice and i opened the door to see whats up and i saw her. kinda both did the OMG face and she came up and gave me a huge hug and she left her friends and talked to me in my room for a good 15 minutes and kept hugging me and giving me the CUTEST smile ever. i'm a romantic... yes... haha. but anyway i had this crazy feeling that i havent felt... i dont think ever. and as she was leaving she talked about coming back and hanging out some time... i dont know whether to be REALLY excited or depressed cuz i know she's still with that guy (whom shes been with since she joined the marines about a year and a half ago). I just find it so damn confusing... I just want someones opinion as to what i should do...

Oh.. funny thing about this, i was talking to one of my buddies earlier today about really wanting to meet a cool marine girl. weird...

Please only legitimate answers. i just need some personal opinions