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Me and my boyfriend went out last night and saw some cage dancers, as soon as he d clocked eyes on them he literally didn t move them until we had left. I completely understand it s a part of nature for males look at stuff like that, however it s really rinsiltinf when I m stood naked right in front of him and he won t even lift bis eves from his phone screen. It really hurt me and made me feel disgusting when I saw that he was gawping at these girls but he can t look at me or give me anywhere near that much attention.

I need to add that there s nothing wrong me with appearance wise, I m regularly told I m attractive and I get a fair amount of male attention, so it s not as if I m horrible looking.

As well as this, he has also made comments in the past such as "he s pulled an absolute 10/10", "she s got a nice bum" (in reference to a celebrity), "If I had money I could get any girl I wanted"

Should I mention it to him or blow it off and avoid the argument? I d just like opinions as to whether I m overreacting or is he actually in the wrong? We are both 19 by the way.

Thanks!

Me and my boyfriend went out last night and saw some cage dancers, as soon as he'd clocked eyes on them he literally didn't move them until we had left. I completely understand it's a part of nature for males look at stuff like that, however it's really rinsiltinf when I'm stood naked right in front of him and he won't even lift bis eves from his phone screen. It really hurt me and made me feel disgusting when I saw that he was gawping at these girls but he can't look at me or give me anywhere near that much attention.

I need to add that there's nothing wrong me with appearance wise, I'm regularly told I'm attractive and I get a fair amount of male attention, so it's not as if I'm horrible looking.

As well as this, he has also made comments in the past such as "he's pulled an absolute 10/10", "she's got a nice bum" (in reference to a celebrity), "If I had money I could get any girl I wanted"

Should I mention it to him or blow it off and avoid the argument? I'd just like opinions as to whether I'm overreacting or is he actually in the wrong? We are both 19 by the way.

Thanks!

We're both 19, he's a virgin and I have slept with 3 people. At first, I thought he just wanted to take things slowly, but I think I've been more than patient at this point

I've tried asking him why we haven't had sex yet, and he point blank refuses to discuss it, I don't know what else to do, I feel like it's ruining the relationship.

Whenever I try to initiate anything, we get to a certain point of foreplay and he'll say he's too tired, or that we'll carry on another day

Recently, he's also stopped being affectionate, he's stopped kissing me, stopped cuddling etc. I don't know what to do, I don't think I can carry on much longer without having sex. I've tried lingerie, everything I can think of, but still nothing has happened. I understand he may be nervous, but we're never going to get anywhere if he doesn't overcome it the first time.

I don't understand why he is avoiding it, can anybody help? :(