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She entered a relationship about 5 years ago. After the first 6 mos i started hearing less an less. Then eventually not at all. Last year she called or texted me twice. However, in 3 years before i think i heard from her twice. Claiming she was soo busy. Early this year i started hearing from her but only occasionally. She was having boyfriend issues. Since then she has become single an now constantly calls me. I kind of feel like im been used as a fill in because she is bored an or has time now. She constantly calls an keeps me on the phone something she did when we first met. Everyone is just telling me to ignore her but i find this be rude i suppose. Is there anything else i can do without been rude but i dont want to be used as a fill in now that she is single an has time...

Ive been dating someone for a few months now. We are going on six months now. She doesnt seem to be content with just hanging out or staying in. It always seems she finds something to do or get into. This is constant with her. We had this discussion multiple times but it appears that its not getting resolved. For instance just this week we went out to visit her old boss at a nursing home, from there she wanted to go the beach. The next day she wanted to travel 40 miles to pick up a rusty bike an tonight she wants to go bowling. It seems like its always something with her or shes made some impulsive plans like for the example the bike i mentioned. She had mentioned once that her X boyfriend called her "unstable" I dont think shes unstable but she seems a bit unsettled or flighty. Weve been trying to reach a solution here but coming up blank. One thing she mentioned is her not involving me so much in her "activities". She also agreed that she can be a bit impulsive but it took a bit of convincing to make her see this. Any suggestions..There is a 10 year age difference..

I had a 5 channel amp installed about a month ago 4 door speakers and a sub. Everything was fine until about 10 days ago. Thats when i started noticing my car would take a little longer to crank on. In the last 5 days i had to get 3 jumps. The batter was so dead i needed to use one of them mechanic chargers to get it cranked on.

Now its a 10 year old car and i had it for almost 6mos now. The battery does look fairly new but i cant tell if its time for a new battery or is the amp. The timing is a bit coincendental. I do usually wind up getting a new battery at one point when i get a new car. ( to be on the safe side) Just havent got around to it.

We are both in our 40s have been dating for 10 mos. Ive noticed here and there she has a tendency to be a little flirty. Ive spoken to her about it but generally have giving her the benefit of the doubt. Shes also before mentioned having a few stalkers. Ive asked her if she felt that she probably could have been too friendly and might of unintentionally set these chain of events of. She says she doesnt feel like she did. Today i was talking to her at work where i noticed she was been friendly and right at the point where she brush up the line against been friendly or been flirtatious. She says that she does that even when this guys girlfriend is present ( she works there to). It is my understanding that in her prev relationship her X husb didnt seem to care about this even when guys flirted w her in her presence. I have discusses that im not him and there are certain boundaries etc that i have. To me it seems like she is been brushing up against that line.

Me and a friend ( well more him) installed this in my car. At first we had the whinning noise when i would accelerate. There also a weird problem when i turn on my heated seats i get this high pitched sound from the speakers. We worked the ground and it eliminated the alternator whine. However, when i turn my heated seats on i still get that high pitched sound. Albeit it is quiter than what it was before. Strangely it doesnt happen when i turn the cooled seats on. I tried ground loop iso but that didnt help. My friend installed hi low jacks on the audio control lcq1

I redid the ground wire. Even when i roll my windows down i hear noise..When i turned the heated seats on heard a high pitched sound..Any ideas what else to check?

Ive been dating someone for 9mos. We use to talk fairly frequently. We had a tradition of she always calling me after she got out of work and while on lunch. Lately she hasnt been doing this and we havent been seen each other as much. I knew we couldnt maintain the same amount of phone contact because honestly we use to be on the phone way too much at times. She was 6mos removed from a 20 year relationship when we met. I have had a few talks about this with her because things havent been the same and noticed she w acting a bit different the past few weeks. She says its stress related and that been on the phone too late night shes been a little sleep deprived. Shes a big talker and will keep me on the phone even tho i would try to end the call. A couple times here and there when i first starting noticing this she wasnt home.

I cant help but feel that something isnt right here. Also we havent been really having sex as much these past two months. Friends are telling i should try and pull back and see what happens..Any ideas or thoughts?

Hi i have a lincoln mkz 2007 w the base stereo. I want to upgrade the factory speakers and add a sub..Nothing to extravagant or loud..My 2 12" woofer days are behind me. Im on a budget any recommendations as far as speakers go. I want to keep the factory HU and add a EQ as well...Budget is around $500 for everything.. It will be installed by a friend who works in car stereo ..Thanks..

She told me this once before but i thought she was maybe joking. She has a tendency to be a git of goofball. Today we had the same conversation and she told me finds butch women attractive. I asked what is it about them that she likes. She said because they are over compensating and she finds that appealing. Ive also noticed that she likes to be treated a bit rough at times. She seems to get turned on by me been very stern and borderline angry. I asked her if she wants to break up so she can pursue this. She said no shes never been with another women. Its just something that she likes. Should i be worried or what should i say? She was falling asleep so we couldnt finish the conversation..

Men and my GF were attacked the other night by 3 men. They hit her first and she went down. I engaged the 3 men but wound up falling and hitting my head. As this happened they pushed against the wall and bruised her arm. I also seperated my shoulder in the process. The perps were caught. We went to the ER. Two of them are minors the detective said 17 and one was a adult. The state is PA...

So had plans technically this person is my GF. We had plans last night and i told her im going to get ready and i will call and confirm and leave. Called and her phone was dead. This morning she called me and told me she fell asleep and di dnt realize her phone had died. Today i told her im going to charge my phone for a bit and do a couple of things call her back in a hour. She was already drifting off and i told make sure she doesnt fall asleep. Well apparently shes not answering so im assuming she fell asleep again. Its been about a hour now. Do i wait or should i just go about my business. Im not sure if and when she will wake up...

I realize that now ( and so does she) but we are tying to make things work. One thing as you probably imagined is frequent talk about her X. Rarely a day goes by that she doesnt mention him. I had hope she would get out her system by now but there has been only a very marginal difference. She also but not as frequent but frequent enough mentions this guy she dated for 3 mos when her and X hubby first split up about 3 years ago. Will this ever stop or at least subside. Is there anything i can do. I would at times redirect the conversations but that didnt seem to help much. Probably should of kept trying it..

Been dating for 6mos. Early on she has a constant and chronic late problem. She somehow pinned the blame on me as i wasnt considerate of her schedule and other respons..Yes she does have more on her plate than i do. ( Is a Nurse and work 12 1/2 shifts and has 2 young adult and one minor child). As a show of good faith i agreed to the majority ( but not all) of the traveling ( about 25 min car ride) and for a period of about 2 months ( except 1 time) i came to her. When she did come that 1 time she was a hour late. So yesterday i attempted to have her come over. She agreed we both started getting ready. I called her and she told me she wasnt ready yet. Told her thats fine i have to drop off something at a nearby friend. I called her back told her im ready when she is ready. Now she says i should come up because the destination we had in mine is closer to her. Im trying to break this pattern if its not already too late. I dont mind traveling to her but feel she should at least make a effort and come down at least every 3rd time.

I have recently purchased a 2007 Lincoln MKZ AWD w 83K. The car was purchased from a reputable dealer who switched the Airfilter, fresh oil change etc. Im getting poor gas mileage. Roughly 70 city and 30 percent highway mileage. Im averaging just under 14MPG. I expected this to be more like 17-18 or so.

Ive been dating someone know for close to 6 mos. She was in a pretty bad relationship for many years. When we first met i asked her if she was dating anyone. She said she was talking to a older gent but then found out his real age and on top of this he lived a bit too far. This gent is 16 years her senior. She even said at one point Ewww he was too old for me. ( shes 43 and this guy was 59) She told me they never met and it didnt went past a phone thing. However, i have found out this isnt the case. They did meet and even hooked up ( dont know the exact level of hooking up they did) Although for sure they met but she flats out denies. This was about 2 weeks after we met. Not sure why but this is bothering me. Was she really that desperate? Lonely ? Not thinking clearly?

A little background. She was with since 20 now she is 44. Married for 14 years. Her X hubby ( divorced final as of May) had a serious case Narccisst Personality. We met her in late Dec, X left in June. We casually went on a few dates although she recently told me she had on expectations. I was looking for a LTR. Around the 8th or so date she stared asking for exclusivity etc. Around the 12th date or so i agreed.

In the 5 1/2 mos we dated i can probably say maybe two days have passed that she didnt start talking about her X, broken relationship and things that he did and how he treated her. These past two weeks ive been changing the subject and or redirecting when she starts her rants. However, most of the time she manages to somehow bring it up again. Any ideas on how i can get her to move on. I understand this will always be a part of her in some way but i like to see her talk less about the past and focus on the present and future...

Weve been dating for 5 mos. At about the 2 1/2 mark w defined the relationship.We are exclusive. She did mention that occasionally some of her prev dates/suitors hit her up from time to time. It bothered me a little but i never said much. Well 3 weeks ago one of these guys resurfaced and asked her out. She just told him that she had to work the next day. Instead of saying i have a BF or im out w her BF. We had a little argument about it were she assured me and even showed me text that she hasnt seen this guy in years. So i asked her why not just tell him you are w a BF. She said i was right but sometimes she hates hurting people and would take the easier way out. I asked her about some other guy and she told me she feels bad so sometimes she still talks to him from time to time.I have noticed that she is big on conflict avoidance. Should i be worried?

Weve been dating for just over 4 mos. To be fair she told me shes a bit of workaholic although usually not as much. The reason she was putting so much time in is that she is working on a rehab project. . As we were starting to be exclusive i had concerns would be able to see each other enough to make this work. She told me that this rehab was a little more than half done and should be done by June

About 3 weeks ago i finally took a look at it. It needs massive amount of work and at the rate she is going this isnt going to finished this year. One of the problems is shell have a crew come in for a day or two and fix X. Not be happy and have them tear it down. About a month ago i was speaking to a acquaintance on this. He commented that people like her "will always be busy" and if it isnt this it would be something else.

So here we are about 4 1/2 mos in and we see each other once a week. Weve made a promise that we will try to see each other once a week and weve been finding ways to keep this promise. However, lately ive been coming up to her almost exclusive except for last night that she slept over. We dont get to go on many traditional dates. Instead its usually me ( especially lately) coming over hanging out for 2 hours and usually spending the night before she falls asleep.

Does anyone here have exp dating a workaholic and how did you make it work. Any other traps i should be aware of. Etc..PS..we do talk on the phone every day for about a hour..

Weve been broken up for two years now. Were together for approx 5 years, coworkers/friends for about 3 years prior. So shes has been in my life one way or another for 10 years. We only chat on the phone 2-3 times and weve have not seen each other since we parted ways There no ties likes kids or home. One ( but not the only) of the reason i still talk to her is i suffer from GAD and mod depression and sometimes having a familiar voice. Ive been dating this gal now for just over 4 mos and things are heading towards us possibly getting more serious...Thanks..

Ive been dating someone now for 4 mos. She came from a long broken relationship. One of the things she told me early on was that she was willing to give people a chance. Which i thought it was cool. As time i went on we talked about this. It seems like its more like she was willing to give ANYONE a chance. For example she was talking to someone who 15 years her senior and approaching 60. Couple of other weird guys shes mentioned. Im not saying that im any better than any of these people. My problem is that it sorta feels like its more the actual relationship that she is in love with rather than me. What i mean it could have been just about anyone else.