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I love that I have colored eyes, but i have no idea how to enhance them. Whenever i wear eyeliner on my bottom lid, it comes out too harsh, or makes my eyes look small, but sometimes I like the way it looks. Otherwise, I wear no eyeliner (always mascara), and I look paler and I'm not confident in the way I look. I have dark brown hair (I dont know if that changes answers).

so i wanna do something special for my boyfriend. we have been together for 3 months next week and have started have sex. he took my virginity a little over 2 weeks ago. okay okay im 15, turning 16 next week and hes 16 too. ever since we have had sex we obviously talk about doing it again and in exciting places. one place we both wanna try is in the shower. so i was thinking about him coming over and taking him straight to the bathroom and the shower will already be running with candles along the sink and the lights dimmed. sound like a good idea? guys and girls please answer!

i have three questions about sex. you can answer any three of them.

im a girl so i had sex with my boyfriend for MY first time 2 days ago. we had sex twice that day. im 15 and new to this kind of stuff so i have questions.

1. how many days after sex does it take for your vag to tighten back up? its been 2 days and its still not back to its original form. or will it never be back to the way it was? my boyfriend said it will in a few days as long as we dont have sex all the time and since i was a virgin its gunna stretch somewhat and not go back from now on.

2. if my vag doesnt go back to its form, how can i tighten it? i know kegels are said to work, but how do you do those exercises exactly? does peeing and then holding it in work? cause thats what ive heard.

3. we use protection. but i want to be extra safe. i usually tell my mom everything and i feel i need to tell her about this too. especially since i want to get birth control. im only 15, turning 16 next month, so how can i ask or tell her: that ive had sex and want birth control?

idgaf that im 15 and had sex so gimme all the rude comments you want about not waiting, but im not gunna listen. obviously i cant go back in time and take it back and i have no regrets. and come on people, sex is sex. people arent gunna stop having sex so dont tell me to.

so me nd this guy are kinda talking. we have known eachother since frosh year. (we are sophmores now) we both know we like eachother and we call eachother the normal lovey-dovey-stuff and im falling hard for this guy. but lately he hasnt been acting the same. he still compliments me nd calls me "cutie" or whatever and tells me i make him so happy nd blah blah blah you get the picture, but now-a-days he hasnt really been flirty. i try to be sweet and everything as much as i can since he really loves that about me but im not always getting the same treatment back. what can i do to really impress him? i think im close to him kissing me nd asking me out cause he talks about it, but i really wanna get all his attention back.

ive had my share of hard times, and hit rock bottom before. i tend to overthink things and overexaggerate. generally, i think negative in many situations and worry too much. i had my first heart break 2 months ago nd things with my dad arent that great at times. drama ran through my life too. :/ now a days: yeah im stressed over school and friends and a new relationship im getting into. ive had friends many times come to me for advice or when they are depressed and, like any friend, ive helped them nd talked thru it. they say i give good advice, but for myself i always get down on myself. i can shrug things off at times, but other things just stick to my mind like glue! how can one stay positive and improve their mental health?? what can yu say to yourself to feel better? what can you do to stay happy? im happier than i have been in months but theres some things i cant let go. i need advice, not only for myself, but for friends too.

so im planning on having a movie night at my house next week with friends. i need help on setting it up though, and maybe some extra activity ideas. should i have everyone bring a movie? and just have popcorn? help please ")

okay so about a two weeks ago i dyed my hair darker (i had a lighter brown and i went to a dark chocolate brown) at home with a self kit and i loved it! but as time progressed, my hair color significantly changed :/ though it was supposed to last for 4 weeks like my mom said (four weeks my ***). i was thinking this had to do with me straightening my hair everyday...? am i right? or wrong? or whats up with this?! i have an appointment to dye it again saturday by a professional so im not too worried about that color but i am still wondering if my hair color will change and the color will go back to the same again after its dyed because of me straightening it. or since its going to be done by a professional it will last longer and better...? please help. i have two days to decide. im not going to go get it dyed if its just gunna fade again.

hey ohkay so i go these nd need some friends nd ppl. not many ppl i know have them. so add me(: the name is alyssa gonigan. i live in california(: on twitter im lovesicklyssa

which is your favorite out of all three and why?

i need a user name for my new twitter account im making. my name is alyssa nicole (not telling you my last name). make something cute(: pleasseee.

so this guy who ive had the outs with for the past few months has made a "anti (my name) club. with two other people. he was a twin and i love his brother as a friend but obviously i dont like him that much. and neither does a lot of people. hes really annoying and rude. im not the only one who feels this way. and im not the only one who was said this to his face.i told him and he got all pissed and has said stufff about me behind my bad with another girl, the co-pres of this club they made. she thinks that im taking her crush away from her since i like him too. not so much anymore since he has a different gf which by the way isnt the co-pres girl. so she called me a ***** and whore when ive heard she isnt the "cleanest" girl out there if you know what i mean and has done "stuff" with this guy were both like. now the other girl who going this club surprises me. im not even friends with this girl and never have been. i just met her this year and she said something like i ignored her so she now hates me. but im sure it has something to do with what has happened between me nd the founder of the club. they are acting like they are in 3rd grade and were all freshman in high school. what do i do? i dont want to stoop down to their level. i just want to forget about it and just ignore them and whatever they say though ive heard what they have said and they made sure i did since i was two feet away. what do i do here?

dont just tell me the main things. tell me the lil things like how their hair is and what they wear and whatever you want just dont say "nice, nd sweet" and stuff like that. tell me some physical things and emotional things like whats inside haha thanks! just curious!

so this guy i really liked now has a gf after leading me on for weeks now. i cried like any high schooler would over a guy and my friends told me not to talk to him cause he practically playing with me. at first i thought it was going to be hard to face him but in class it wasnt at all. i was fine it seemed. i started off sad but he just makes me smile. i need to know how to get over this guy though cause i know there wont be a chance now that we will be together or we already would be if he liked me so what can i do? or what can you say to help me get over this guy? need advice!