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I care so much.She feels that I love drama and I love wrecking her calm mood on purpose

can't help it she tracked dog poop in she clean ed it up three times the wrong wayso we got into it 

She wouldn't do errands with her friend and I nagged her about it  and I accidentally made the friend feel like my sister did nt like her 

I decided not to make dinner or take her to buy anything because she claims she lost her keys

She wants to take longer baths and I said no because she's being bitchy

I am only trying to help her get a better handle  on life by bringing up how getting too emotional gets her in so much trouble. I get accused of telling her not to feel and not taking her side and making things worse by giving her the worse case scenario of what could happen . 

She doesn't know how to do laundry I tried to force her to let me do it and her dishes but she said no. She puts microwave safe bowls in the microwave they cause cancer also she put food in tupperware that stains. I think she might be mad that I harassed her to go out and her car ran out of gas or her battery died and the cops impounded her car and now she has to go to court