helpingfoy

I have only few months to exam....plz tell me how to prepare for exam....i did well in 9th.....I have wasted like half my time...helpp!!!

So I have this guy in my life right now and he is like my crush. We spent the holidays together(In Jan and Feb) in same hotel. We have been friends from a long time. My neighbour he is. So he would hold my hand when we went out for any place in car and keep it. He winks at me at times and arms around my waist. He makes jokes. Makes me laugh. I tell him my sories and he keeps looking me in the eyes and then he will hug me and caress me. Like in movies. He is always eager to meet me. We play video games together.

I wonder if this is love? I mean the first love kind? What do you think?

I and my cousin both are 15.

Last month we were both at my aunts house.

At night he came to my bed and thinking I am sleeping he started to touch me. Like really touch ME. And I was paralyzed. I was scared,confused and uncomfortable. I don't understand what to do. Then he was like doing really bad hings and I pushed him away and he fell off the bed.

It was really unbearable to me.

I just don't understand.

I mean why did he do this? I mean it cannot be his stupid LOVE feeling for me like teenage things..I mean he is my cousin...

I trust him so much and how could he do this to me. After this thing he acted normal and I know he thinks I dont know anything as i was sleeping. And I am toos cared to say anything.

What does this mean?

I mean even if you love someone you dont just go in their pants! Its gross.

I am very heart broken. Is this love or did he just use me?

What was he thinking? I mean he is normal in everything else and i simply dont understand this. I am really scared!!! What to do? Help!

I have got to say this. Its killing me. Plz help!

Okay so I was 15 and this cousin of mine was also 15. I am a girl.

I didn't understand all this sex stuff. I am totally introvert and have very few friends. I am a nerd.

So he,lets call him john was like a best friend to me.

We played had fun and were like really great buddies.

When we were 13 once he tried to do wrong to me. And i got up and told him to stop and he did. I never understood anything. I thought its nothing too much.

Then one night at 15 he comes to my bed and starts to touch my private part over my pants. I was like what the hell. I mean like what the hell. And then he was making me touch his things and I was scared and I was confused.Then I pushed him and he fell off my bed.

After that night i felt really dirty. Above all I was confused. I didn't understand anything. I was like what it is? I mean I had no idea whats going on. I believed him with all my heart. I never had the words to speak. I don't know how to say. I wanted to speak to anybody but I coulld not because i was scared.

Then one day I figured out what it is and i told him that it was wrong and i wont ever forgive him I am 17 now.

Was I molested?

I mean he is the one doing it and I was confused. I never understood. I was scared of you know I felt dirty. It was gross. I mean while he did that thing to me I didn't feel anything like any excitement or anything. I was like so overwhelmed and was confused and didn't simply understand. I didn't want him to do that to me. I was wondering in the first place what it is?

Plz tell me!

So I had this cousin named John. He tried to use me for his lust when we were like 13-16 years. We are of same age.

But I have always been innocent as I come from a small town. But he knew. So at times he used me.

Then I figured out it and told him that its wrong and then he quit talking to me.

Later after a few months we met in some family occasion and he apologized. I wanted to ask him a lot of things. But he never replied me. One time he said its our fault. I don't understand how. And then he did not reply and even block me. Then it was a day and he said he is sorry. And then I kept in touch because I really do love him LIKE MY BROTHER. And last night he texted that he is not strong to face me cz he did wrong to me and he will come back one day n make me happy.

I love him a lot. He is my buddy. But I feel scared about a lot of things.

Should I give him a chance? Trust him again?

I am haing a lot of trouble trusting people after this incident of my life because he is my family member n if he can do something like this then who else to believe?

Advice please!

Thanks.

So I had this cousin named John. He tried to use me for his lust when we were like 13-16 years. We are of same age.

But I have always been innocent as I come from a small town. But he knew. So at times he used me.

Then I figured out it and told him that its wrong and then he quit talking to me.

Later after a few months we met in some family occasion and he apologized. I wanted to ask him a lot of things. But he never replied me. One time he said its our fault. I don't understand how. And then he did not reply and even block me. Then it was a day and he said he is sorry. And then I kept in touch because I really do love him LIKE MY BROTHER. And last night he texted that he is not strong to face me cz he did wrong to me and he will come back one day n make me happy.

I love him a lot. He is my buddy. But I feel scared about a lot of things.

Should I give him a chance? Trust him again?

I am haing a lot of trouble trusting people after this incident of my life because he is my family member n if he can do something like this then who else to believe?

Advice please!

Thanks.

So I had this cousin named John. He tried to use me for his lust when we were like 13-16 years. We are of same age.

But I have always been innocent as I come from a small town. But he knew. So at times he used me.

Then I figured out it and told him that its wrong and then he quit talking to me.

Later after a few months we met in some family occasion and he apologized. I wanted to ask him a lot of things. But he never replied me. One time he said its our fault. I don't understand how. And then he did not reply and even block me. Then it was a day and he said he is sorry. And then I kept in touch because I really do love him LIKE MY BROTHER. And last night he texted that he is not strong to face me cz he did wrong to me and he will come back one day n make me happy.

I love him a lot. He is my buddy. But I feel scared about a lot of things.

Should I give him a chance? Trust him again?

I am haing a lot of trouble trusting people after this incident of my life because he is my family member n if he can do something like this then who else to believe?

Advice please!

Thanks.

Suppose we treat a criminal with love and care.

Can we turn him/her in a good person?

Okay so my boyfriend joe and I broke up in July 2011.

We were in school and moved to college. We broke up the next day we started college. We both are in different college. We were not in contact for like march 2012. Then he saw me at some occasion.

And we texted each other a bit. He never posted anything on his wall before other than wishing festivals. But from that day he is posting stuff like....sad quotes on love and all. He comments on random things about love. He says stuff like 'Yesterday someone made me feel special and now that someone makes me feel like i am the most unwanted person on earth today.'' He never did it before and I am wondering if he is upset because of me.

Could it be? I am single. His relationship status is single on fb.

Could he be in love with some other girl in his college?

We broke up. Its 1 year ago. I mean I was serious with him. We broke up because of his fault and he accepted that.

I loved him truly. And its been possible for me to move on in 1 year .

Just wondering if he ever really loved me? I mean if he did then how would he be able to find a girl friend in the same year?

Did he ever love me or just cheated me?

Is it possible to forget the perosn you had your first kiss with?

Share your story plz.

I just broke up with the guy who shared my first kiss. It was his first too.

I don't want him to forget as I dont think i can.

But can you?

Did you?

;(

Is it possible to forget the perosn you had your first kiss with?

Share your story plz.

I just broke up with the guy who shared my first kiss. It was his first too.

I don't want him to forget as I dont think i can.

But can you?

Did you?

;(

I am Julia living in Goa these days

My boyfriend and I have never really had actual sex. We just kissed and all.

But last week he came over at night and he was like touching me. And then he made me touch his things and I kinda freaked out. I pushed him away. I don't want our love to be dirty. I talked to him about it and he agreed and we chatted.

Is he too desperate?

Or am I freaking out?

Should I let him do it?

Tell me how to make it right. I don't want to hurt his sexual desires but I don't want anything too early. Is there any other easy way to make him feel happy about us?

When I was 13-16 year old my cousin (also of same age) Max used to be really close to me.

Once when we were 13,he tried to touch me when I was sleeping. He kind of grabbed my upper body and butts. I got up and told him to stop and he said sorry. I forgave him. After that he was so close to me always. I never actually understod all this. I never knew about SEX and stuff. I am just a naive girl and dont really have much friends. I trusted Max a lot. But one nite again he touched me bad and also tried to make me touch his things when I was sleeping. I pushed him away. He acted asleep . I was scared. I mean I dont know what to do.

He is my brother! I love him so much. But why do he do this? I told him about this after a few months via email. He stopped talking to me.Then he saw me on a family occasion. I was like crying. He texted sorry. After that we texted a bit and he was like its OUR fault. And then again he quit talking.

I am really very scared.

I dont know what to do.

Is it my fault? how?

Did he ever love me as his sister or just use me for his lust?

Plz tell me. Have I lost my brother?

Why he did that?

When I was 13-16 year old my cousin (also of same age) Max used to be really close to me.

Once when we were 13,he tried to touch me when I was sleeping. He kind of grabbed my upper body and butts. I got up and told him to stop and he said sorry. I forgave him. After that he was so close to me always. I never actually understod all this. I never knew about SEX and stuff. I am just a naive girl and dont really have much friends. I trusted Max a lot. But one nite again he touched me bad and also tried to make me touch his things when I was sleeping. I pushed him away. He acted asleep . I was scared. I mean I dont know what to do.

He is my brother! I love him so much. But why do he do this? I told him about this after a few months via email. He stopped talking to me.Then he saw me on a family occasion. I was like crying. He texted sorry. After that we texted a bit and he was like its OUR fault. And then again he quit talking.

I am really very scared.

I dont know what to do.

Is it my fault? how?

Did he ever love me as his sister or just use me for his lust?

Plz tell me. Have I lost my brother?

Why he did that?

Why do some boys just use girls and then act like everything is ok? Do they have no regards to the emotional pain a girl suffers?

Have you ever used a girl?

How do you feel about it now?

I mean did you regret after you find out that you were wrong? Is she just a mistake to you now?

I have this cousin. His and my mom are real sisters.

He touched my boob and butts when I was sleeping and he also made me touch his things....He made me feel really bad and I was so confused. And i pushed him away and he fell off the bed.

We were 15 then.

I was so embarrassed and after some months i mailed him regarding this and then he stopped talking to me. And then later he saw me at some family occasion and I was like crying and then he said sorry. And then we texted and then he was like its OUR fault. And I was like what the hell? I mean how is this OUR fault? I have always trusted him so much and it hurts a lot to see he is acting like this to me. I loved him like my real brother and now I dont know if I will ever be able to trust anybody again in mmy whole life.

Plz tell me what to do. Did he molest me?

I never tell about it to anybody else because I dont want our families to mess up.

Is there anyway i can make our relationship same again. I miss my brother but I dont know if he cares.

He just does not want to talk about it. He is like plz dont talk about it and then he said it was OUR fault. I asked him how is this my fault? Then he didnt reply and later he did and said sorry.

He replies to silly texts like gudmorning ,gudnite.

Now he has stopped doing even that.

He has changed his number now so i cannot message him.

What is he thinking? Did he ever love me as his sister or he just molest me?

Is world so cruel? He was my brother! How could he do this to me?

There was this close friend of mine. He tries getting close to me and he touched me when he once came over to my home for studies.

We are 16.

He came to me and started touching me boob and all. I was scared. Then he made me touch his THINGS. And I freaked out and pushed him away.He thought its nothing so acted normally and now its our vacation for a week.

This happened last week.

Why he did that? Does he love me or something?

Has he just used me because we are just acting normal.

I feel embarrassed about it so didn't say anything.

What do I do? Is he just a pervert.

He is normal in every other thing and looks good and can have any girl but why this? We have always been just friends?

There was this close friend of mine. He tries getting close to me and he touched me when he once came over to my home for studies.

We are 16.

He came to me and started touching me boob and all. I was scared. Then he made me touch his THINGS. And I freaked out and pushed him away.He thought its nothing so acted normally and now its our vacation for a week.

This happened last week.

Why he did that? Does he love me or something?

Has he just used me because we are just acting normal.

I feel embarrassed about it so didn't say anything.

What do I do? Is he just a pervert.

He is normal in every other thing and looks good and can have any girl but why this? We have always been just friends?

Who is more important to you?

Your lover?

Parents?

Siblings?

Friends?

or do you believe everybody id important??

And why?

Ok so I have this aunt and she has a son. His name is Charlie. Some misunderstandings are between our families but he is my brother and I love him a lot. And I have so many memories with him. He and me both are 18. We have been together since childhood.

He used to reply to my text messages before and I talked to him about my fears and he was there for me for a while. It hurts a lot to see my family. My dad misbehaves with my mom and Charlie's mom and dad were only people I have actually seen love in between.

But now he has stopped replying me back. I mean lastly when he replied he said,Goodnite lovely sister and all. He was nice but suddenly he has stopped talking.

I text him everyday.

What has happened. Could his mom have said something? He just doesn't reply back or call back. Does he hate me now? Would it help if I keep texting him and hoping someday he will reply?

Dont wanna loose my brother.... :'(