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*He smokes cigars and has a beer or two each day

*When he smokes, he always goes outside, but HATES to be watched. He takes an old smartphone with him that has internet, but no data services so he cant text or call with it. He deletes the history every day if not more often, and clears what he is looking at if i come outside.

*He sometimes goes to his car while he smokes and one time when I "caught" him in his passenger side door, I asked what was wrong. He took FOREVER to answer, then finally said "I keep thinking my tire looks flat so I was just checking it" 🤔 He keeps his car locked and he had his keys with him. I didn t push it (as he gets defensive really quick) but he obviously had planned to go to his car before going outside.

*He hates taking a shower any time of day other than in the morning yet last night he came in from his cigar, acted like he was cold (bad acting lol) and said he was going to take a shower to warm up. I told him to just wash up like he usually does (wash hands and beard) and come sit by me and id "warm him up"...he acts frustrated. I went back to check on him when it was taking him longer than usual to wash up. I knocked on the door and he didnt answer for several seconds...i opened the door and he jumped a little and got all mad saying he was just washing up and it wasnt taking him any longer than usual...he kept holding the towel out like he was trying to show me he was drying off. He was clothed, and not in any weird position

Any ideas?

I have had an upper respiratory problem for almost 2 weeks now. It started out with my chest feeling very tight and congested, but a few days later I started coughing and my chest returned to normal, however, I still am struggling with this cough. I sometimes feel like I am getting better, but then the next morning I wake up coughing to the point that I almost vomit. I am hardly getting any sleep because every time I all asleep, I wake up less than an hour later with a very strong tickle in my throat. I need some relief. I have tried hot tea with honey, pure honey, cough drops, and I have been drinking over 100oz of water a day with no exaggeration...what can I do to get better NOW? I know I should see a Dr. but my job does not offer health insurance and in less than 3 weeks I'll be getting married so I will be able to get on my husband's insurance. Until then though I need some help.

I've experienced this for years now, but it seems to be getting worse. I'm female, and there is no pattern to it that I have figured out. Most of the time it's a bright red colored blood, but sometimes it clots and has dark spots in it...it hurts REALLY bad sometimes when I do #2, but doesn't always bleed, then sometimes it bleeds but it doesn't hurt at all...sometimes it hurts all day, and i have difficulty sitting down...bottom line is, it's been getting worse and it makes me feel kind of light headed sometimes because I lose so much blood I guess. I'm hoping its something simple like an anal fissure or hemeroids, but I need some advice. I only became sexually active mid last year, but I NEVER do anal, and this has been going on far before all that.

I'm a 17 year-old female, about 170 lbs (It's muscle, I'm not fat). It's hot where I live, and sometimes I don't drink water like I should, but I'm confident I'm not dehydrated, and I had the AC on today. I was standing at my counter making cheese biscuits when all of a sudden my knees felt sooo weak. I sat down, and the weirdest feeling came over me. I began to feel very nauseous, I had tunnel vision, BAD, I was having a difficult time breathing, and I really felt like I was about to pass out. I forced myself to get up long enough to get to a more comfortable chair. I buried my head in my hands. and closed my eyes. I sat there for a good 3 or 4 minutes before I felt confident I was not going to pass out. I looked around the room and everything was still really dark and I saw a lot of floaters in my eyes. As I sat there longer, my body became SOAKED in sweat. I didn't feel hot at all, in fact somewhat cool...but I was soaked. finally I felt okay enough to stand back up, but my knees remained weak for a good 2 hours or so after wards. What in the world could have caused this? I thought about possibilities, like if I had my knees locked while I was standing there, but then why did it take SO long to recover? Any help would be MUCH appreciated.

What's your opinion? Do you think it is okay for a 16/17 year-old girl to date a guy in his mid 30's? How about a 30 year-old woman dating a guy in his early 50's? which do you consider bad (if any) or do you consider both bad and why? How about is the genders were switched?

Can a man be charged with kidnapping or any other legal offense if a minor (age 16 or 17) tells him to pick her up from her parent's house without parental consent and he does it?