Justice

My friend jake, had been my best friend since about fourth grade, and he's a great friend. But I don't want to date him. Just a couple months ago he asked me out, but I turned him down. He was crushed, I could see it...I felt so bad. We are also friends with another boy, who I really love. And he told his mother that he wouldn't try to do anything with me because Jake was his friend. Would it get weird if we dated in the future? Would it hurt Jake too much?

Quite often, I beleive I am half asleep. I am dreaming of falling off a cliff or building. It's weird...I just feel like I'm falling. And just as I'm about to hit the ground, I wake up sweating. Is this common, or is there some way to prevent this?