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  • My girlfriend does not like sex. What should I do?

    So I've been in a relationship with this girl for about 2 years now, and the problem with it is our sex life.

    She's 19 and I'm 20. Our relationship has been pretty steady over the time we've been together, except for the sexual aspect. We've talked about it but it never really comes to a full agreement. She says she just doesn't like it and the only reason she will ever truly WANT it is if it's to have a child and personally, I really don't want one just yet, if not, ever.

    Me being a 20 year old male, I have a pretty high sex drive, and to me, sex is a big and important part of a relationship. Her and I have tried many different positions, and lots and lots of foreplay, but it never changes anything. She thinks I'm one of the most attractive people she's ever been with so I know it's not that she's just not attracted to me, and as far as the sex goes, she says I'm better than any of her ex boyfriends, but nonetheless she still doesn't like it.

    So I'm a bit stuck with what I should do here, because like I said, I believe sex is an important part of a healthy relationship, and yet we only have sex about 1-2 times a month.

    I've told her that if this keeps up, I may have no choice but to leave her and find someone who meets my sexual requirements and although I don't want it to come to that, it may just have to.

    So tell me: would I be an a**hole to leave her just because of our lack of sex? Because I personally can't see myself carrying on like this and I don't want to dig myself a deeper hole than I'm already in (i.e. this could just keep getting worse as time goes on).

    3 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • Does a landlord have to return last month rent if being evicted?

    My fiancé and I are in a SHARED accommodation scenario, we are sharing kitchen and bathroom with the landlord and one other tenant in Ontario.

    We had signed a 6 month lease with the landlord on October 31st.

    On November 5th, the landlord terminated our lease because we did not get along with her, and said we had to be out by December 15th at the latest, and we would get whatever was left of our last month's rent back in two payments, because we paid her in two payments. We are moving out December 1st, and will not be occupying ANY of the house starting December 1st.

    Our rent is $550 a month, we paid $275 our first month, and $275 our second month to pay for the last month's rent. Since we are moving out on the first, we should get $275 December 1st, and $275 January 1st.

    THOUGH, today the landlord left us a note saying she is only going to pay us $275 of the $550 we paid her in two payments, so she is trying to give us $137.50 December 1st, and $137.50 January 1st.

    I have already called the police, and the officer said to call Residential Tenancies Act (800-267-8097) and Landlord and Tenant Board (888-332-3234) I called both, but neither really specify about how I can get her to legally give our last months rent back since she is evicting us.

    I do know we are excluded from the Residential Tenancies Act.

    My fiancé's father said we can take it to Small Claims court.. which seems like our only option right now. Does anyone know how we can get our last months rent back without having to pay $75 and going through all the stress of taking her to court, and/or what rights we, as an evicted tenant, have?

    Any knowledgeable input is greatly appreciated!

    Thank you

    7 AnswersRenting & Real Estate8 years ago
  • Has my girlfriend cheated on me?

    I'll give you the details about this predicament.

    My girlfriend has been living with me for a few months now. She's 17 and I'm 19. I have a twin brother, who has gone behind my back before i.e. took advantage of my ex and didn't tell me until a year later. Anyway, last night, my girlfriend decided to have a few drinks (underage, I know) and I told her I was going to smoke some pot (illegal, I know) but she doesn't like me smoking so she wants me to tell her before I do smoke. After following her rules and telling her I was going to smoke, I did. She freaked out and said she was going to her friend's house for the night, (a guy, no less) but what had really happened is that she went into my brother's room for the night, and just 'talked'. I didn't find this out until the next day in the afternoon (today). So, given the circumstances (them both drunk, alone in my brother's room for about 5-6 hours just 'talking', I got paranoid.

    I believe I have a right to be concerned, even though they both deny that anything went on besides talking. I get really anxious and worried about this sort of stuff, especially since it's happened to me before.

    I just wanted to know what the possibility is that her and my brother did something last night. I love this girl and I don't want to think that she would do something like that to me, because in my mind, she isn't the kind of person who would do that, but the circumstances make it more likely.

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Why is my laptop lid magnetic?

    I just discovered that the back of the lid near the upper right corner on my laptop (when the lid is open) is magnetized. It has a pretty high magnetic pull. I'm not sure if it was always like this, but I just want to know if this is a bad thing. It hasn't affected anything as far as I know.

    2 AnswersLaptops & Notebooks10 years ago
  • My laptop's hard drive failed...?

    Okay, so I'm guessing you people are getting bored of dealing with this stuff, but I'll explain my situation anyway.

    I have an Acer Aspire model laptop, not even a year old, runs Windows 7. It was using AVG paid version until that nasty update they had about 6 months or so ago. (If you don't know about it, there was this really bad update by AVG that ruins your computer. The update has since been fixed.)

    Anyway, the update made my laptop still bootable, but unbelievably slow. So, I got the AVG Repair CD as suggested from their site to remove any files of the bad update. I ran the repair program, deleted all the bad files, and the laptop was running like new again. Well, almost. About less than a week later, I was just using my computer normally when suddenly it restarted itself. I logged back on and when I did, an error message popped up saying that my hard drive was failing. Ever since, it has gotten worse, to the point where it now takes 10-15 minutes to boot, another 10 minutes to log on, and when I do, it's just a black screen with the exact same error message. Since nothing important was ever on it, I never backed it up. I just want to be able to use it again.

    If you have any suggestions of what I should do, please post them!!

    (Keep in mind that I do not want to take it in to the shop, as I have already done that with no help at all.)

    2 AnswersLaptops & Notebooks1 decade ago
  • iPod Touch 2g won't go into dfu mode?

    Okay, my iPod Touch 2g is running ios 4.2.1 and I want to jailbreak it using greenpois0n. But the problem is, I've never been able to make it enter dfu mode. I know how I'm supposed to do it, so I don't want anyone repeating the steps. It just doesn't work for me and I just want to know any other solution because I'm trying to avoid downgrading it to 4.0 so I can jailbreak it. It's not gonna happen.

    P.S. It's an MC model, if that helps.

    Any help is much appreciated =D

    1 AnswerMusic & Music Players1 decade ago
  • How can I get over this girl?

    Okay, so I fell in love with this girl at the beginning of school last year, and she supposedly fell in love with me. So, we started dating.

    The first couple of months were great, until she started getting angry all the time and yelling at me for the smallest things. But that eventually stopped and things were alright again. And I love this girl. A lot. In fact, I love her so much that I had to move in with her, so I did. Of course I forgot that when two teenage couples move in with each other, it will turn nasty. And after about 5 or 6 months, it did. So I ended up having to leave. But what I didn't tell you was that my parents hated her because of her family's past, but I won't go into detail. So my family life was going down the drain, along with my love life. As you can imagine, it was difficult for me to move back home after 7 months of living with my girlfriend.

    I didn't end up staying back at home for too long, and I ended up staying at different people's houses until things went well with me and my parents again. To this day, my parents and I still aren't getting along very well, but I am living with them again. As for my (ex) girlfriend, she dumped me about 2 months ago, but she keeps leading me on, saying we will get back together and whatnot. And all of this stress from her and I fighting, and my parents and I fighting has made me go insane, and almost suicidal, and all I want is for things to be back the way they were, but I still love this girl to death and every time we fight, which is every day, makes me depressed and angry, and I've tried getting help, but to no avail. What can I do to forget about her and move on, and what can I do about my parents and the rest of my family? I'm losing hope

    7 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago